This is truly funny. A great aunt passed away and this exchange is how a family member approaches me about it, clearly extremely normal and socially aware behavior lol

We live in a hostel and a day ago my VERY GOOD friend found a newly hatched river turtle and started keeping in a bucket with half inch water and a leaf . The room get pretty cold due to the AC and the turle was tinyy with no plans on how to feed it , clean it , filtration, any proper place ORR ANYTHING IN GENERAL , the guy is also extremely lazy and careless so i knew sooner or later the turtle would did in the cold or starvation or living in its noxious shit water.

I was literally worried it wont survive the night but he wont let me release it back into the lake where e found it. He played with the turlte like a hot wheel car and a fidget spinner the whole night pretty much. It did survive the night and when he went to class i released it back .

I then texted him that i released it and he yelled at me on call saying he'll break my ass etc and i yelled back-----then these texts occurred.

Mind ya'lls this is not some random roomate but my veryy good friend and hence i could not tolerate the callous attitude whatsoever. If it were some rando i wouldnt have intervened. This guy also tried to use against me my vulnerability which i told him cos i thought it was a safe space .

I swear i did the right thing.

Tl'dr -- stopped best friend from abusing turtle hence releasing it and he threatened physical violence and disrespected me

being a woman on discord core

I honestly don't get the logic of speaking like this to a woman you just met? This sure is a panty dropper 🫩. Anyways decided to creep him out as punishment 😂

The whole thing left me perplexed. The last 5 screenshots will be in comments.

A little context: I broke up with my ex last week, and I feel nothing for her. I have never hated anyone more in my life. When I left her, all the feelings I had disappeared. She was emotionally, physically, and psychologically abusive.

I was going through my camera roll from last year and found these. I don't know why I put up with this for so long.

Photo one is when she wanted me to delete my PlayStation account due to me speaking to my friends on it. I ended up asking for it to be deleted, but fortunately Sony's system glitched and my account was saved.

The second photo is about my late brother's watch. She wanted me to break it due to it making her uncomfortable. She used his death repeatedly to hurt me over and over again. I ended up faking breaking it and then hid it.

The third photo is an example of her mocking my brother.

I am very ashamed that I put up with this and let her say these things. When I look back, I feel pathetic, and now I am just left feeling so disappointed and angry at myself.

Her excuse for this, you are probably wondering? Well, for her it was anxiety, and her not liking that I spoke to a girl two years before her. Good riddance

Now, I know of course one of the obvious responses would be thank you, I love you too and I have said that part already. I’m only having trouble with the latter half of the message. I just don’t know what to say. I don’t want to keep it short and come across as disinterested if I say “yeah we should go out to eat sometime”, but I’m also not sure if being too willing to hang out is the best approach.

I’m an extreme recluse and don’t have very good social skills in general so I’m not sure what’s the best thing to say here. If you all were me, how would you respond to this?

i miss my dad🩶. fuck brain cancer. he was really amazing. every single person who knew him was charmed by his genuine, down-to-earth, witty-as-all-hell personality. he was totally hilarious and the way he and i would riff off each other was the most fun thing i've ever experienced. nothing - and i mean nothing - was better than getting a phone call from my dad. we were giddy every time we were around each other in person. i am sooooooo fortunate to have known him and even more so to have had him as my "old man."

Transcripts are poor. Left him two years ago and he has been like this the entire time

We (33m and 29f) had dated a little over 3 years prior to this exchange.

She did make the first year of the relationship a struggle. Every milestone we hit, every progress we made, she would get cold feet and express wanting to break up. I stuck through it until she eventually trusted me enough. And we dated for the next 2 years without much drama.

Middle of last year, she started to have some health issues. Mostly to do with anemia. Her lack of energy made her avoidant tendencies come back out. She would get pissed for no reason, and say things that hurt me a lot. We were out for dinner one night, celebrating her work promotion. She didn’t like the food much and the restaurant was loud, and she was pissed all through the dinner. Made us leave early, and just threw a fit in the car. I figured she’d be okay the next day, but two days later she told me she wanted to break up. And that was that. This was Nov of 2025.

I went no contact, but she called me a month later crying that she started to feel dizzy while on the metro, and if I could pick her up. I went and got her, dropped her off to an appointment and then drove her home after.

That incident gave us as excuse to re-connect. We started hanging out as if we were dating but without having the talk. She seemed more calm, more comfortable.

But it all came crashing down during another dinner a few months later. We were out at a restaurant, where the service ended up being very slow. She also expressed to me that she was contemplating moving to a city 5 hour flight away because of her perceived lack of work opportunities in our city. And I didn’t have a good reaction to it. So she accused me of limiting her world or doubting her abilities. I apologised and let her know that I’m her biggest supporter, and that I love her and it’s my hurt reacting to learning that she might move far away.

The date night was ruined, and I drove her home. And that was that. She messaged me the next day telling me she was sorry about overreacting. I told her I just needed some time to myself, and would be good for us to take a small break from each other.

The above was the last message she sent me, before she blocked me off everywhere. It’s been 9 months since that, and I still miss her. Have put myself out on dating apps, but I sadly keep trying to find her in the people I meet. And it’s killing me.

So sick of the political spam!

I realize the furries are far from the first, but I didn't feel like figuring out where they fell "in line."

Also, I know replying only encourages the spammers, but I just couldn't resist! I did block and report right afterward, though.

I know jokes can often not land via text so I wasn’t so bothered by this one, just made me laugh he took it so serious. Didn’t care to correct him that it was in fact a way of “trying to be cute” lol

The only thing that seemed odd is the last text like shes begging for money?

Shes not a foreign exchange student but what she calls a au pair and shes Brazilian

In my own hobbies Brazilians have been very friendly to me often repeatedly asking me to come to brazil

So I might come hangout with her

Some guy was selling a portable baptismal on Facebook Marketplace for $1,100. I asked a reasonable question, and he apparently did NOT appreciate my attention to detail. He blocked me immediately following this exchange 😭

The irony of being blocked by someone selling an item meant to wash away our sins is spectacular!

I haven’t moved in yet but I put the deposit down and signed the lease. Lmfao what the fuck do you even say to this?

I’m not interested in this e-bike or any e-bike but ever since I met him he’s always talked about them..

ETA:

This is a white man in his 70s. English is his only language.

Yes I am concerned that he is talking about my boyfriends penis. Who he has NOT met yet. My boyfriend is on also on the lease.

I have not moved in yet because I am waiting for the end of the semester. I already put my deposit down. He has put water sensors in the bathroom (that is what he said, as well as a bunch of other stuff outside like adding a fence, and a shed). This is also a townhouse.

UPDATE:

To answer a ton of questions

I've decided to not say anything to him. I do not think he is sexually harrassing me or my boyfriend. I think he's just a weird old man who is just awkard lol. Don't get me wrong, if he says something like this again, or does something else innapropritate, I will have no problem saying something to him. My boyfriend also feels the same way. We still plan to move into the townhouse, yes, even knowing that we will have a weird landlord.

He is the landlord (owener of the townhome) but there is a company that actually oversees the property and does the maintenance. I do not pay him directly. Also I mispoke. The "water sensors" are "leak sensors". Which (as a former plumber), I know are real things. However, prior to moving in, I will be checking those sensors and also be checking everywhere for cameras.

Yes, I am in school, but I am not a young 20 year old. I'm 28 and a veteran, so I have some life expierence. My boyfriend has not seen the place yet because he is currently active duty in the process of getting out. I'm moving in first, and can afford the place myself, but since he will be moving in with me when he gets out he is also on the lease.

Why do you have 240 un read texts????

Because I get a lot spam texts, notification texts, code texts, and other stuff too and I just don't look at them. It use to be in the 700s, so it has gotten better lol.

I'm in NC. There are greenways all over the country. And just because I say I'm in NC, doesn't mean I'm in your city. There are SO many greenways in NC.

Also some people told me to keep them updated in like 6 months for when I move in. I will try lol

Im not sure why but im getting a feeling that I shouldn't go

For context her profile says shes looking for short term open to long term but is fine with casual

The convo initially started from a post I made on Vinted about problems I had with people who post ai images when selling clothes, she messaged me privately and told me how much she related and it annoyed her

Then it led to me asking her what type of clothes she was selling which then led to me finding out about her music taste

We got on really well the first 3 days on here, I took her number and we spoke on WhatsApp. She was telling me how introverted she is and how she hasn’t got any friends and because of how open she was I decided to tell her about my situation too

She was really eager to have me come over (we both found out we lived an hour away from each other) but I was too nervous to just get up and do it at 11pm on a weekday