Well, the title of this post makes it pretty clear what I'm looking for right now. It can be as long or as short as you like, and it can be as dirty or as kinky as you want.

Hey everyone!
A little about me: I'm a college student in the San Diego who is half European and half Mexican. I have longish wavy black hair, big dark brown eyes and I’m pretty skinny/lean. I like to think I’m a pretty good looking guy so don’t be shy! Just shoot me a text message! I am however looking for something relatively local and in the area near where I live in, I just don’t think I can have a realistic LDR.
I’ve been kinda burnt out on the dating apps and that leads me to here! Outside of that, I'm a huge fan of rock music, love watching movies. If you’re into any of that we should get along great. I’m pretty easy going and very easy to talk to! I also just love going bar hopping and maybe doing some karaoke even though im pretty terrible at it. I am looking for a serious dating relationship if anyone is interested!

Some of my favorite rock bands are Oasis, Arctic Monkeys, The Strokes, Queens of the Stone Age and so many more! I do love all kinds of music though! I also have letterbox, so if you’re a self proclaimed movie buff, maybe something can spark between us! In terms of who I’m looking for, I don’t mind any age, even older than me! I don’t really have a lot of preferences so no pressure let’s just talk and have some low-stakes conversations to see where it all leads! If any of this sounds like something you’d be interested in just shoot me a text and I’ll answer! Looking forward to meeting some great people here!

Maybe we’ll ghost each other after! :P

I have no friends in the area reallyyyyy and I want Halloween plans! I am born and raised in LA but have been a loner most of my life and now none of my friends are locals. Soooo Reddit can you help me make some FUN Halloween plans?

This is not sexual in any way, I’d like to be OUTSIDE doing something! I like shows and will dance if I’m tipsy enough. I don’t have any costume ideas yet lol so we’d need to get on this asap! I just don’t wanna be left doing nothing.

I have no ideas on what to do really but low cost is the goal! I’d prefer staying in west la to DTLA to surrounding areas but ideally not any further south past DTLA.

I can’t wait to hear some fun ideas from everyone!

Also would be cool if we actually end up being friends and want to do more activities together (:

I'm 28 and looking for some fun tonight maybe even some trouble if the mood is right. very oral and love to please.

Got leftover hotel nights that disappear if I don’t use them. Would rather spend one with someone who’s fun, direct, and local than let them vanish.

Me: 32, 6’3”, athletic, easygoing, can host. You: 21+, nearby, actually wants to meet. Drinks first or straight to the room is fine as long as we’re on the same page.
Drop your area and a little about you.

26M Latino, tall and thick but not morbidly obese, thick uncut cock (ask me for pics), and in a struggling and sexually neglecting relationship!!!

I do DoorDash often, sometimes in evenings, looking for someone to meetup for carplay or host. Im in OC, but willing to travel to you or meet hafway. I know a handful of discreet locations in Santa Ana. Not looking for any trouble, just a good time and multiple discreet meetups.

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Looking for a str8curious guy, DL , bi or first-timer :)

Hit me up! I can host in Downey 90242. !unlock

HMU, send a hard on pic and recent body pic if ur serious for my reply. !unlock

Looking for someone to watch straight porn with. I can’t host but down to travel, hike, car, split a room. I’m down for one on one or small circle.

I’m 32, 5’8, 145, cut, white, straight

I'm fit, educated, "smart," single, left, childfree, and in the middle of a career in chemistry for pharma.

I got to LA about a year ago from Boston. New city, new job. I have a few good friends in town already, and I'm getting to know the neighborhood pretty well. I love it here.

I want to go on some dates and make new connections. I want to cuddle on a couch for some evenings, have sex and sleep together for some nights, maybe watch the sun go down together if you're outdoorsy. Open to forever if we're so lucky but let's start with getting to know us.

Let's trade pics, make plans to go out after work, and see if there's chemistry.

Hey y’all!

Hope everyone is having a good week and you enjoyed the rain we got today! Loving that the weather has finally cooled down.

I am hoping to make some fun new connections, some interesting conversation, or irl/online fun. Whether the intentions are friendly, casual/fwb or something ongoing, I’m open to going with the vibes and seeing where it takes us. Would love especially something ongoing to help us both get through the rest of the year at least.

I love hiking, trying new foods/cafes, and soccer/sports in general as some of my regular interests. But the thing I love most is getting to know new people and especially hearing them gushing. about their interests! find it super cool learning about new things! Always down to find a pickleball and hike buddy as well

If you’re into tall, athletic, wasians (or just like a good conversation), please free to reach out!

On the spicy side. I consider myself a switch, I really enjoy female pleasure and making a woman happy, so I would find a woman who would love my assistance.

Honestly though would mainly just would love a cuddle buddy. If this catches your eye let me know and maybe it could even turn it into a more regular thing

I’m 6’1 with brown hair, brown eyes, and a fairly athletic build. I’m open to chatting with people from anywhere around SoCal. Open to much older women as well :)

Looking forward to hearing from you and hope to see some of you in my dms! Would really love to catch some people locally in OC though ( as it’s always more fun when you’re close by but don’t mind driving a bit, especially not too far away in LA

You've always had a thing with older males using you. Let's explore.

Good looking gentlemen. Kinky in all the right ways.

Be clean, discreet, local and available to meeting without stings or drama.

Hey there babes

I'm here in San Diego for work and it's been vanilla AF so far, so let's SPICE IT UP! I'm having those hotel vibes where I wonder what the woman next door is doing and what she might look like naked beyond these thin walls....Does she want me to try to knock on the door? Will she answer in a short robe with per pussy slightly showing and lots of dirty thoughts on her brain... Maybe she wants to hang out too?!

Come be dangerous with me, we can go out and grab drinks it'll be fun! I'm in Coronado and I leave tomorrow morning.

Testimonials here: https://imgur.com/a/Oa6sJmn

Ladies, do you have stress in your life, lacking sensual touch, miss intimate touch, wish to discover your body's potential and are pent up needing a release? You'll love my hands all over your body with oil, and a sensual, yet firm, teasing touch to warm up! The first sensation you will feel are my hands rubbing oil on your neck and shoulders as I spread it softly and slowly. I will work the tension out of your muscles, slowly and methodically working my way down your body. There will be a sensuality to the way I use my hands, fingers, and arms to rub and stroke and caress your body. Oil will trickle between your butt cheeks. You'll likely be squirming now and pushing/raising your hips for a more intimate touch but i will tease up your legs first, giving special attention to your inner thighs. You will be wet and yearning for more. If this sounds like something you need, pm me. Please no time wasters or flakes.

I have been offering massages for over 15 years. Should try at least once! Open minded and i can take lead. If you have requests let's discuss before we meet. I am clean and STD free. You be also! No couples or men. I can host.

I don't need anything, I just want to show you a good time. Let's spend the day together totally naked where I will pleasure you and make you feel like the princess you are.

I'm not looking to have sex with you, I'm not even looking for you to suck my dick, but I want to focus entirely on you and make you feel incredible. Let's meet up, make out, then I'll kiss you all over then eat you out. Interested? Message me.

I'm in Socal. LA/IE/SD also welcome.

Also a physical description: I'm 5'10 with black hair, brown eyes, brown skin, average build, and glasses

45, married daddy. 6ft dark hair, light eyes, tattoos, Ivy League education. In Los Angeles. I take health and fitness seriously and am currently on a completely reasonable, scientifically rigorous mission to achieve DILF status.
Life on paper is full: marriage, kids, responsibilities, career, all the usual grown-up machinery. What’s missing is intimacy. I’m in a sexless marriage, and I’m looking for one married woman who understands that strange place where you don’t want to blow up your life—you just want to feel genuinely wanted, connected, and alive again.
I’m into indie rock and folk, quirky-but-smart films and TV, good conversation, dry humor, and people who are curious about the world. I’d love something ongoing and long-term: attraction, friendship, flirting, intimacy, inside jokes, and the kind of trust that makes this feel like our own little protected corner of the universe.
Respect, privacy, and discretion matter enormously to me. I’m not looking to change your situation or mine, rescue anyone, or create unnecessary drama. Ideally, you’re married too, know what you want, and are looking for one consistent person rather than collecting chats like browser tabs.
If this resonates, tell me a little about yourself—and maybe the last song, movie, or show you became slightly obsessed with

Looking for a fwb I’m a chubby guy never really had any type of fun like this with a girl. Dm me I’m in Redlands can’t host unfortunately

Hey couples, I’m Jay, 37, single, fit, lean/muscular and clean-cut, with visible abs, a pectoral tattoo + full sleeve, and comfortable with bi play. Mexican/white mix, based in Lakewood/Long Beach, and open to meeting couples throughout LA, OC and surrounding SoCal.

I have threesome experience and experience joining couples. I am 100% respectful and I genuinely enjoy being the third for couples and helping create something they’ve fantasized about without ever trying to take it over.

The couple comes first. I don’t pressure anyone, push boundaries or make assumptions. I want to know what turns you both on, what’s off limits, and exactly what role you want me to play.

With women, I love taking my time with full body erotic massage, teasing, and building anticipation. I excel at oral and foreplay, and love giving women that exciting build up, to insure multiple orgasms. Her pleasure comes first is my general rule, but I’m there for both of you and want the experience to be just as exciting and comfortable for both partners.

I’m open-minded and comfortable with MFM, MMF, hotwife/stag-vixen, voyeur/participating dynamics or something uniquely yours. I can follow your lead or confidently take the lead when that’s what you both want.

Ideally I’d like to find one or a few compatible couples for something ongoing, because chemistry gets better once everyone becomes comfortable and learns each other.

I can host at my beautiful Lakewood home with a dedicated massage/play space, travel to you throughout SoCal, or contribute toward a hotel.

My profile has an About Me post with more information and pics. I’m also happy to verify immediately and send face pics privately.

If bringing in a third is something you two have talked about and you’re looking for a respectful, confident, drama-free guy who actually understands the couple dynamic, send me a chat, I’d love to hear from you guys!

Hi! I’m 36, live in San Diego, and I’m hoping to meet a Dominant woman who enjoys D/s and is also open to building something real if we click.

A bit about me: I’m active, creative, and a little nerdy. I work from home, have my life together, and I’m usually either making art, gaming, lifting, catching beach sunsets, or hunting for good coffee. I can be shy at first, but warm up pretty fast once I feel comfortable with someone.

In a D/s dynamic I’m naturally submissive. I like giving control to someone who actually enjoys having it. I’m into a wide range of kink, but I’m also looking for someone I get along with and feel good around. The dynamic is way better when the people in it click naturally.

If you identify as Dominant (or just leans that way) and want to chat, I’d love to grab coffee or brunch by the beach and see if there’s a connection!

When messaging me, please start out vanilla. Include your Age, Sex, Location, and a little bit about yourself when reaching out. It’ll help against the bots!

Here’s me: https://imgur.com/a/qHfy204

Looking for Cis Females only. No drama guaranteed I’m very discrete.

If you are into cheating kink or just wanna have some fun. Not looking to change my situation so this is no strings attached, one time or ongoing.

I require a recent test and have one to share. No cream pies or unprotected sex.

I'm 30, 5'10, 160 lbs, sane, down to earth, recently tested last month.

Got a picture in my profile for those looking for the D pic. Average size, good for those that want to practice DT.

Please be cis female, femme, 18+, HWP, clean, DDF and recently tested.

Can’t host but can come to you, get a hotel or Carplay works too.

Must be able to verify and be discrete. My hours are limited due to family obligations.

If interested, please respond with age location and stats as I won’t be responding to low effort messages.

Can I tell you what my unusual request is? Although if I were to tell you, you'll probably say, 'that's it?'. I guess it's not considered too hardcore. But I can't just walk up to a woman and asked if she would want to do this with me. I haven't found a woman to do this with.

Can I tell you what it is? And you can let me know if it's something you would do ;)

I am looking for a FWB. I would love to go on fun dates like the beach since it's so close by or perhaps try out some restaurants that I have been wanting to try.

I was married before and am now divorced. My marriage overall was a pretty good experience, but getting married again isn't something I have my goals set toward. I would love to find someone to spend time with, to take a break from the everyday, and someone with a voracious sexual appetite. I have never been into one night stands or any of that, and would love to find an ongoing situation and would happily entertain something longer term with the right person.

When it comes to our dynamic, I very much believe in the male role of leadership. I have never once been in a fully 50/50 relationship and don't ever intend on being in one. I have always walked to my own beat, and people have always relied on me and not the other way around. Things like responsibility always fall on my shoulders and it's my duty to make sure that everything that needs to be handled is handled.

The kind of woman that I get along best with is one who respects masculine authority, The kind of woman who immediately falls into her submissive feminine energy when the kind of man I am speaking of is looking in her direction.

To me, mutual respect is of utmost importance and I feel we should always be kind to each other. I do not need to make you feel small to make myself feel big. I understand the physical power imbalance between the sexes and it is my duty to make sure you always feel safe in my presence.

When we are behind closed doors, I am very much a dominant. I will put you in a mindspace where you will never have to think about what comes next. It will just happen. This will be your opportunity to fully clear your mind and not worry about any of life's challenges. It is always my goal to make sure you are just as satisfied as I am.

I have a lot of lived experience, have led an interesting life, and can have conversations about most subjects especially those that involve the inner workings of how the world works and life in general.

My pic

I am 5'10 and weigh 160 lbs. I am white with brown hair with some grays peaking out and hazel eyes. I very much care about my health and how I look and have been working out for years. My body type is somewhere between fit and muscular and I am pretty lean overall.

STD free.

Hey ladies I’m a Latino m 27 I’m 5’8” with a 6” uncut cock, looking for some head before I go into work or maybe some more, let’s chat and have fun.

If you’re nervous about messaging me it’s ok, I don’t judge (or bite haha) and it would be fun to get to know each other or at least flirt with each other. I’m I’m married and in a dead bedroom and hoping to flirt, have fun, and experience my first ever blow job

I’m married but my wife has a very low sex drive (the last time we had sex was several months ago) and even though I give her oral sex when we have sex (and I’d like to think that I’m quite good at it and bringing her to orgasm) the longest blow job I’ve ever received from her was about 5 seconds and she’s never made me finish from a blow job. She says she just isn’t into it and the idea of giving a blow job grosses her out, and she is grossed out by the idea of me cumming in her mouth.

I grew up in a very conservative, strict family. The idea of no sex until marriage was pushed very strong on me and because of this I really didn’t experiment sexually in high school or college and didn’t have sex until I was married.

I’m looking to meet (in real life) someone fun and flirty and who actually enjoys giving blow jobs and who will help me experience something I’ve wanted for so long but never had the opportunity to enjoy. I’m completely fine with reciprocating and I’d love to give you oral in return and pleasure you to thank you for helping me to experience this.

I’m open to all ages as long as you’re at least 18. If you knew me, I’m the last person that you’d be expecting to do something like this and because I’m married I need to be discreet. I’m happy with getting to know you before we meet. Maybe you’ve wanted to have a man give you oral for a long time and we can do each other a favor.

I’m completely fine with trading pictures and I’m excited (maybe a tiny bit nervous too) about the possibility of meeting someone that can make this happen.