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So I am 27M currently studying in a reputed MBA college

don't have a job but might get placed withinh few months or weeks not sure :(

The thing is I got a bio data of a really sweet girl. Father found it through a caste based whatsapp group and turns out they are within our known relatives itself.

So my father first tried calling them through a middleman

I actually pushed him cause its rare to find such girls that too through arrange marriage setup

( Rare as in girls who are within known relatives, Humble, pretty 😬, and with a job , Also she will be a perfect cultural fit for our family )

So they they turned down the middle man saying

Let the boy get a job - till then you also search somewhere we will also search .

this was 6 months back

After that

My father tried again after 2 months through through a mutual relative.

they sent my bio data to him and he shared it with her brother.

\[ also we got to know that they are looking for 30-40LPA grooms for her since she earns in bandwidth of 17LPA\]

Also the mutual relative called both the parties to a function where my father and hee brother shook hands as well. ( i was expecting they would speak more but they didn't)

Meanwhile I sent a Insta Request to the girl as well.

She didn't accept.

We are from Same college btw She is my senior but if same age ( I got to know from bio data )

Later a mutual friend of mine told me that it seems chapri that arrange marriage men send insta request

So i retracted mine

After few days she deleted all her pics ( don't know why )

I see 0 posts on her insta

She is from decent and humble family

I have some questions specifically for Marathi womens from a decent household who understands the culture

\[ No offence to anyone but I believe culture and things play a role in Arrange marriage hence the question \]

1. I never touched a girls hand ( Never dated any girl )

2. Have a good Hieght 5'11 and a sportsman ( State level gold medalist swimmer )

3. Have a decent background - Good amount of household assets

Qusstions :

1. Why would anyone delete insta pics ( She might be getting request from a ample boys since her bio data is floated in the caste whatsapp groups not sure - but seems weird to delete all the insta pics or archive them )

2. Is reaching out over insta chapri ?

3. What would be reason behind rejecting my fathers approach ?

4. Should I try again and send insta request ?

will I be waitlisted or this time she will accept and speak with me since she have clean slate on insta now ?

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