r/bettafish • • Jul 08 '26

META Building a Better r/bettafish: Culture, New Mods, and a Look Ahead

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Hey everyone, Roboto, your friendly neighborhood (actually human) mod here with some subreddit updates!

First, the least fun part in all of this –

We need to talk about our subreddit culture.

Our community is toxic. There’s no other way I can think of to describe what has been happening. Even worse, this reputation extends beyond our immediate community into other subreddits and even other platforms. People are afraid of us.

I’m going to take some ownership of this. The harsh reputation of this subreddit far precedes me as a mod, but in recent years, our hard-fought progress on this front has been lost. That’s on me. The lack of consistent moderation here has let rules 1 and 2 go under-enforced for too long, allowing hostility to take root as the norm.

The adversarial and unwelcoming environment we’ve collectively created functions in direct opposition to our subreddit goals, and frankly what I believe to be the goals of many users here. If we care about betta fish first and foremost, this culture needs to change.

Our expectations and what better looks like

If you have good advice to give, give it in a more constructive, not destructive, way. Shaming people makes them shut down and disengage so they don't even process the rest of the good advice you have to offer. Don't highlight all the things they're doing wrong, focus on what they can do better and why it's helpful in a way that encourages them to do it.

So instead of saying "your empty tank is sad," share the opportunities for improvement, like "betta fish benefit from tanks with lots of plants and hiding/resting places so your fish would be happier if you filled the tank in a bit more."

We can’t ignore that people will think they're doing research by going and talking to presumed experts or reading product information. Store employees are presumed to be properly trained and products marketed at bettas are assumed to know what they’re talking about, too. It doesn't help that there's very little consensus online about what adequate care even is. For example, Petco's online betta care guide, updated in 2025, says bettas need a minimum of 1gal. Furthermore, many quality care guides are on niche websites that may not seem credible to a new hobbyist compared to a well-known chain.

With that in mind, we all need to stop:

  • Telling people they should have done more research
  • Immediately calling people abusers for making mistakes
  • Shaming the pineapple (or any other novelty decor/bowl)
  • Attacking aesthetic choices instead of addressing actual care needs
  • Debating what it means to rescue a betta on posts where ethical sourcing of fish isn’t the main topic

Going forward, comments exhibiting the behaviors listed above will be removed as violations of rules 1, 2, or 4 depending on the exact nature of the comment.

I know members of our subreddit are burned out from the bad husbandry they see constantly. It's exhausting and I won't pretend it's not. But if we bully one owner into submission, cool, that's maybe one fish saved. How many owners did we scare away from asking for help in the process? We're going to have a far broader impact building people up in this hobby, not tearing them down.

That said, this is a two-way street of support. I'm cognizant of the fact that people offer their time and mental energy supporting our subreddit, and they don't deserve to have that wasted by people who don't care to use it. If someone is given better information and advice and refuses to take it, that violates rule 3. We often get reports about all the fighting around ignored advice, but not the ignoring itself. In the future, please report these instances to us. For this to be successful, we also need users to avoid escalating disagreements when OP refuses valid and respectful advice.

Now for the fun stuff –

New mods

We recently brought on 12 additional mods to enable us to better support this community’s needs. Please help us welcome:

They’re going to introduce themselves in the comments below and I’ll try and link their names in this post as they do.

It takes a bit to get 12 brand new people to operate as a consistent group, so we may occasionally over-moderate while everyone learns.

I realize that our increased emphasis on subreddit culture may make removals feel arbitrary at times. In the spirit of transparency, I have given the new moderators the guidance that if a senior mod isn’t free to give timely feedback, when in doubt, they should remove posts/comments that are believed to violate rules. Senior mods will still review the content in question, and removals may be reversed, if necessary.

If you disagree with a moderator’s decision, please send us a modmail and one of the senior mods will review your concern and get back to you.

Updated tools and resources

Small updates at this time, but more exciting things in the pipeline!

  • We’ve begun a major revision of the subreddit wiki. Some of our work in progress pages are already live, with more to come.
  • Select pages are also now linked in the subreddit sidebar to streamline access to key information for new betta fish keepers.  
  • In the next few weeks, we will be rolling out additional tools that should make it easier to share information that we often find ourselves repeating. Our hope is that this will help address some of the burnout we see many of you all experiencing.

Roboto is a super sentimental actual human

I realize this post started on a challenging topic, but despite the highs and lows our community faces, I remain grateful that I get to do this with you all.

I’ve been a mod of this community for nearly 7 years, and a member for far longer. In that time, so many things, from our mod team, to Reddit as a platform, to our own lives and the world around us, have become fundamentally different.  

There are very few constants I can point to after all this time, but the enduring engagement and passion of this community is one of them and I’m honored to steward this space.

At the core of it all, this hobby, and this subreddit, are comprised of people who really want the best for one another and that makes this work so much easier.

Thank you all, sincerely, for riding with us as we figure this thing out. I’m excited for the next chapter of our subreddit, and I can’t wait to see what we can accomplish together in the next 7 years.

- Roboto

Edit: If anyone has additional feedback about our community culture, please share it in a comment below, or feel free to send us a modmail.


r/bettafish • • 15h ago

Discussion r/Bettafish Weekly Help Post - October 16 to October 22

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Welcome to r/bettafish!

This is the place to ask anything and everything about bettas.

⚕️If you're looking for help with illnesses or weird behavior, be sure to include the following in your comment:

  • Tank Size
  • Water Temp
  • Ammonia / Nitrite / Nitrate readings
  • How long the issue has been occurring
  • A picture of the problem
  • Any additional helpful context

Click this link to view our CARESHEET

🐟 Caresheet Summary:

  • Bettas require a minimum of 5 gallons, 10 gallons being optimal for one betta and 20 gallon long minimum if you're housing peaceful community fish with the betta
  • Bettas are tropical and require water temps of 78-82°F or about 26-27°C, a thermometer and adjustable heater is recommended to ensure these temps
  • Bettas need a filter, like any other fish. It is a common misconception that they like dirty water, but the opposite is true.
  • Bettas need a cycled tank, before getting a betta the tank should be cycled - this process involves adding a source of ammonia to the tank, using a test kit to monitor ammonia/nitrite/nitrate levels, and usually takes 4-6 weeks to complete properly
  • Bettas have delicate fins so sharp plastic plants are not recommended; silk silicone or live work best
  • Bettas can breathe surface air and are good jumpers, they require access to the water surface at all times and a lid.
  • Bettas eat insects in the wild, a good quality betta formulated pellet food fed twice a day is recommended.

Click this link to view our WIKI

📚 Quick synopsis of the wiki:

  • Contains info on basic betta care, diseases, potential tank mates, tail types/coloring, differences between males/females, ordering bettas, moving with bettas, disaster prep and MORE!
  • This most likely has the answers to your questions and is in the process of being updated. Feel free to ask questions if you are confused or aren't sure about something.

Click here to learn about Power Outage Protocols

How to add a picture to comments: Image Guide or use Imgur for multiple images:

Imgur Instructions: Go to imgur.com and select "New Post". Add all the clear pictures you have so we can better determine what is going on with your fish. It is recommended you set the album to private if you don't want random comments. Click upload. From there, click the share button- if you are on mobile, hit "copy to clipboard" and paste the link into your comment on here. If on desktop, copy the link and paste it here. For those new to technology- ctrl + c is copy, ctrl + v is paste. To have your link like this , put these [ ] brackets around the text you want to show, with no space before the first word or after the last word, and without adding a space after the second bracket, use parentheses ( ) for the link, with no spaces between the parentheses or the link itself.

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Be sure to read our community rules before posting. Feel free to repost questions if yours was not answered last time!

Ask away!


r/bettafish • • 2h ago

Video I now understand why some call Bettas "Puppies"

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What da heck he's so cute


r/bettafish • • 18h ago

Video Spent my friday night being a cave for my fish

341 Upvotes

How do i explain this is my friday night to any sane person?


r/bettafish • • 11h ago

Rate My Tank First time betta owner really proud of my lil babies one month progress.

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I wasn’t even planing on getting a tank but my mom has recently gotten back into fish keeping and sent me a tank out of nowhere. It was a tiny 3 gallon so I originally was only going to get neocardinia shrimp. I stopped at the petco near me one day after work to pick up a couple cleaning supplies after my tank had been cycling for a few weeks, and saw they have baby bettas. To say I was appalled is an understatement. Everyone knows how horrible bettas are treated at pet stores in general but idk why it struck me so hard seeing all those tiny babies. One was out of place of the other babies so I picked up the cup labeled “baby girl betta” with no other descriptors and she was not gonna make it through the night. She could barely swim to the top of A CUP to get air. I’ve had her for a month now and turns out I have a specials needs betta with a gill deformity. I really didn’t think she would make it but I thought taking her home was betting than dying in that cup. She had a bubble trapped under her gill plate but if it got too big it would pop out and instantly be replaced with another bubble. She does still have her bubble but is doing fantastic otherwise. She hunts live detritus worms and copepods and is super spunky even jumping out of the water when she sees blood worms or pellets coming. I’m upgrading to a 20 gallon long community soon and am super excited 🫰


r/bettafish • • 2h ago

Name Suggestions Name suggestions for purple veil tailed betta !

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Boyfriend found someone trying to rehome some bettas from a breeder which is why the tank is smaller than ideal. He loves fish so naturally he asked if I wanted one and I fell in love with this pretty guy. I know this one is technically a boy but I’ve been calling her she, so any name suggestions are welcome (my boyfriend thinks I should name her after a type of prescription animal medicine eyedrop so really….any at all)


r/bettafish • • 5h ago

Picture Bluo’s tank

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Rearranged the plants in the tank for more swimming space and placed a coconut shell for his cave.

One anubias leaf turned yellow coz it came too close to the heater 🥹. Some of the plants are also turning brown/melting, is it due to the movement during the relocation process?


r/bettafish • • 12h ago

Picture Meet Supernova Blue, a.k.a. “Nova”

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We’ve had Nova for a year now and the whole family loves her. She always comes out to greet us and then starts dancing and wanting to be fed.

We were in a Petco randomly one day and my wife looked at the bettas for whatever reason, then she comes out with Nova (who was half this size at the time). She said she “chose” my wife when she picked up her tiny little cup they keep them in (I hate those things). I couldn’t say no, so here we are!


r/bettafish • • 1h ago

Help New growth or fin rot?

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My betta has a lot of clear edges around his fins, this is just new growth right? Or is it early fin rot? I have all the stuff to treat it and have successfully treated another rescue.

tldr: please ease my stress, is the clear edges fin rot?


r/bettafish • • 19h ago

Discussion First time fish owner. I’ve had him for 1 week. I’d just like to know if he overall looks healthy?

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I’ve been told my filter is to rough. I do plan on getting a sponge filter soon. Hes fed everyday but Friday. I’m worried my bubbler might also be too strong but I have no idea. Any tips will help and much appreciated. There is a heater and thermometer.


r/bettafish • • 22h ago

Video Demonstrating standard betta braking system

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r/bettafish • • 8h ago

Help Fin/tail structure changed recently — fin rot, injury, or regrowth? Fish is swimming and eating normally

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Water parameters:
- Ammonia: 0 ppm
- Nitrite (NO2): 0 ppm
- Temperature: 26°C, maintained using a heater

this is my first aquarium fish. I am not sure am I doing something wrong. Any help would be really appreciated.


r/bettafish • • 7m ago

Help Need help with diagnosing Spoiler

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He is generally a pretty lazy fish and likes to sit on the aquascaping, but the past couple days I’ve noticed him either floating near the top or laying down on the bottom. I took him out to take a closer look and noticed these red splotches on his fins and either an ulcer or a puncture in his fin. His gills also look darker than they did before. Could this be columnaris?

Water parameters:

5gal tank with lots of plants, power filter, and heater
There are also shrimp and snails in the tank

Temp 65-75 depending on how warm the room is

Ph:7.8
Ammonia: 0-0.25
Nitrite: 0
Nitrate: 0


r/bettafish • • 25m ago

Rate My Tank Any advice before getting a betta?

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Looking to get a betta soon for this community tank any advice on when else to add and improve before hand?


r/bettafish • • 1d ago

Help does my betta fish like getting stuck in the filter or is it against her will?

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today is day 1 with my new betta fish. i observed that she sometimes put her entire body on the filter net and stop moving entirely, but she seems to be able to swim away at her own will. is this normal?


r/bettafish • • 56m ago

Help How to quarantine my fish? Spoiler

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Before and After.

Halfmoon Betta fish, Cyu the stupid.

On my last post, someone commented that he might have fin rot. I didn't think much about it because I'm stupid and ignorant, and I believe he has had those white spots since I got him.

But I realise it wasn't just a spot. It's healed a bit, as you can see, but the white spots keep spreading, and there's also a bit of a rip on his upper fin.

I tested the water, and the pH has increased, so I did almond tea, Indian leaves, and water changes. It returned to normal, but after two days, Cyu's white spots keep spreading, so I think it's fin rot.

I already bought that medicine, but how do you exactly quarantine them? Please help, thank you</333


r/bettafish • • 19h ago

RIP First and Last

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My husband and I never planned to have a fish but new year 2026 had another plan for us.

Long story short, Sushi was abandoned by its owner to a housekeeper who offered him to us because she doesn't have any means to care for him. I asked my husband if we could take him and he didn't hesitate to say yes.

We don't know his age and the housekeeper doesn't fully know the details but his fins were fully grown already. I'm so bad with documentation that I didn't take a picture of him when we first got him. His fins were clamped and he was still as a stone in a small fishbowl inside a cold storage room.

It feels weird now to wake up and he isn't there to swim up, actively expecting for food. It feels strange to not soak pellets first thing in the morning. It feels different to arrive home and not see his grumpy face.

Thank you Sushi~ Swim in peace~

I also want to thank this sub. We didn't know anything about fish. We rescued him impulsively so this sub taught us everything. We were able to set up his 6 gallon heavily planted tank because of this sub and everyone here. Thank you all~


r/bettafish • • 16h ago

Name Suggestions I’ve been stuck on a name for three days 😩🙏

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I just started him in his 10 gallon 2 days ago, and I’m still getting the right things for his tank. we just happen to be on a low budget,but I’ve been stuck on what to name him. I’ve been trying to see more of his personality his little feisty and a little skittish. We’ve only had him a few days but I don’t know how to get his little personality to come out. And ugh I just wanna give him a name but I can’t find a good one any suggestions?


r/bettafish • • 1h ago

Help White spot on fins Spoiler

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I noticed there's white stuff on the fin, he didn't have that before so I'm worried

there's also white at the tip of its caudal fin although its less visible


r/bettafish • • 1h ago

Help How can I help my sister's obese fish?

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So we had a betta fish for now almost 4 full months, he's fine, but he recently got obese, I saw him having a belly and I can stress out from anything, so I dug a little bit of research and found that he might be obese, I can't also give a screenshot as I'm writing this from my laptop and I'm restricted from my phone for now (but when I have my phone back I WILL send an image of him) , but I actually want help on how can I save this poor dude? I have no knowledge, and I actually have no time to do proper research as I'm in a study rush right now, but I need suggestions and how I can help him..


r/bettafish • • 1d ago

Transformation watch clementine gain her color 🧡

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she’s a cutie 🍊


r/bettafish • • 1h ago

Introducing Meet Aurora.

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I totally intended on getting a male betta. But for the same coloration was $30+ and she was $5 😛 can anyone tell me what type of beta she is? I love the dark coloration, but it makes her so hard to get decent pictures of.


r/bettafish • • 1d ago

ANGER FISH and after nearly 4 months. theo flares

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r/bettafish • • 6h ago

Help HELP!!! Fin rot won't go away

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I have tried everything available, salt, CMF. In europe i have no access to antibiotics. His fins keep getting worse and worse but he's a fighter and has loads of energy and a massive appetite. His fins keep getting shorter and there's not much of it left and I am so scared of it reaching his body. Please help, I don't know how to help my baby anymore :(


r/bettafish • • 6h ago

Introducing New guy

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Just got him today from a shitty aquarium store, he was in a TINY dirty cup. Don’t have much in the tank right now since it was a spare but will pick up live plants and decor tomorrow. Let me know some name suggestions!