This post isn't really about asking for advice (although any tips are more than welcome). I just have to say that it's incredibly frustrating to feel like you're getting the technique right and understanding how it works, but still struggle with pitch. I'm mostly posting to see if anyone else has gone through or is going through the same thing.
I've never taken private singing lessons, only choir classes. I know I should, but I haven't been able to afford them yet. It's definitely something I plan on doing in the future, and I really hope lessons can help me with this particular issue.
The thing is, I've heard people say that pitch accuracy is something you develop at a very early age, and I did, in fact, only start getting exposed to melodies and harmonies (in the sense of actually trying to understand them) during my teenage years. I spent my entire childhood wanting to be a drummer, and while drumming obviously involves notes and tuning too, it's a different kind of understanding compared to playing other instruments. By the time I started exploring harmony and melody, mainly through guitar, I was already 15.
I only really started getting into singing when I was around 19 (I'm 22 now), and ever since then, I've kept hearing the same comments: "You have a beautiful voice and incredible potential, but you need to work on your pitch."
Honestly, sometimes I feel like there's something wrong with me, because how is it possible that I'm the only one who can't hear what everyone else seems to hear?
Anyway, I guess this is just a bit of a rant, because it's genuinely frustrating. I'm someone who's VERY passionate about art, and I can't imagine myself doing anything in the future that isn't related to it. Singing is something I've genuinely fallen in love with over the years.