I’m 34, from South Germany, and pegging is one of those things I’ve been curious about for quite a while but haven’t had the opportunity to explore with someone yet.

I’d like to change that – but I’m not looking to simply tick it off a list.

What appeals to me is the dynamic around it: trusting a woman enough to let her take the lead, the vulnerability, anticipation, playful control and discovering together what we both actually enjoy.

I’m 180 cm, around 82 kg, with brown hair and eyes. I’m active, a software engineer, and generally calm and initially a little reserved. Once I’m comfortable, I’m affectionate, playful and much more open. I’m happy to exchange SFW pictures once we’ve talked a little and there seems to be mutual interest.

I’m a sub-leaning switch and relatively inexperienced with kink in practice. Confident women definitely appeal to me, particularly someone who enjoys taking the lead while still communicating and paying attention to each other. You don’t need to be an experienced Domme, though. A switch or simply a curious woman who thinks exploring this together sounds exciting could be just as good a match.

And while pegging is obviously the reason for this post, I don’t want the experience to revolve entirely around me. Your desires matter too. I’d genuinely like to know what you find exciting about the dynamic and what would make exploring together enjoyable for you.

I’m open to other shared interests and kinky curiosities as well. I’d rather discover where our overlap is naturally than arrive with a long checklist of things that have to happen.

I’d prefer to start by chatting, getting to know each other a little and exchanging SFW pictures if we’re both comfortable. Chemistry, trust and mutual attraction matter much more to me than rushing toward a meeting just because we happen to share one fantasy.

If you’re somewhere around Ulm or reasonably reachable within South Germany and the idea of exploring this with a curious first-timer appeals to you, tell me a little about yourself – and what makes the idea interesting from your side.

Been pegged before just didn’t really seem they was into it as much as me. Want someone to really be passionate about it! Thanks in advance

35 m, slim/good shape/fit and just melt when a woman says she wants to peg me. Must be 18+.

Hey there,

I’m a 32-year-old Boston-based tech guy, 6’2” with an average, fit build. In my everyday life I’m pretty clean-cut, thoughtful, and reliable. Lately, though, I’ve found myself getting more and more curious about what it would feel like to let a woman take the lead.

I’ve been thinking a lot about pegging. There’s something that draws me to the idea of being slowly prepared, bent over, and guided through that kind of vulnerability. I get a little shy just writing it, but the thought of being taken carefully at first and then more deeply, until I’m trembling and soft under you, keeps coming back to me. I’m not sure how much experience I really have with any of this, so I’d love someone patient who enjoys showing me.

I’m also curious about other things that might go with it:

Spending long, devoted time worshipping you with my mouth and hands

Being firmly bound and restrained so I’m helpless and can only feel what you do to me

Impact play — spanking, flogging, or the firm, repeated sting of your hand

Being edged and teased for a long time until I’m desperate, then overstimulated while I’m still completely under your control

Blindfolds that leave me in the dark and heighten every sensation

Soft verbal guidance turns me on too — quiet praise, gentle commands, or a little teasing while you decide what happens next.

I’m hoping to find someone who likes the idea of guiding a curious guy and helping him discover what he responds to.

Hard limits: no blood, no scat, no permanent marks, nothing illegal.

If the idea of slowly taking a somewhat shy, curious man and showing him how it feels to surrender appeals to you, I’d really like to hear from you. You can tell me about your style, what you enjoy about pegging or control, or any little scenario you’ve thought about trying with someone who’s still figuring things out.

21 m central Texas looking for a dom. Havnt had luck yet. Open to a lot but mainly looking for in person. Looking to experiment with pegging.

33 M from South Wales, UK. Tall, handsome average body type, fun personality and I am looking to be pegged. I have got some experience with this and would love some more. I’m looking for a certain kind of experience, an itch I haven’t been able to scratch yet! Connection with the person is key.

Bit of a Hail Mary on this page, hopefully there are some women lurking who are interested in my post and would love to talk and lead in to something fun!

seeking moderately aggressive dom who loves hairy vocal men willing to do most things but loves being pegged and will consider most anyone willing to host

Hello!

I'm a 40M visiting Austin for a few days. Hoping to find an easygoing woman interested in helping me explore anal play (fingering, prostate, pegging, etc).

This would he my first time, so patience and taking it slow would be a must. Open to all experience levels. Happy to visit adult toy store with you and get needed supplies. :)

I can to host at my hotel. Available early mornings and late evenings.

6ft, white, mostly hwp, clean and respectful.

This might be kinda wild, but…

Hey there! I’m a 25 year old, 6’2, 210lbs, East Asian male who would love to experience pegging! I’m actually a virgin in both sense, but have always been curious with experimenting with something like this! I’ve done some stuff by myself before, but I’d love if someone more experienced can show me the ropes 😅

Looks wise, I’m fairly average, albeit on the chubbier side. Im happy to send pictures and answer any questions if you have any!

Aside from the introvertedness, I promise I’m just a normal guy. Just no sexual experience from my side, and a bit (or maybe a lot) of nerves trying something like this for the first time.

As for hosting, I’d be happy to do either carplay or get us a hotel room, but I’m open to further discussion and planning. I’m open to drive, and am local to the OC area near CSUF. LA works as well, but if you’re located in SoCal in general feel free to let me know!

Call me J. I'm 23, 6'2", based in northern Jersey, and I play club lacrosse on weekends. I work in finance. On paper, I'm the guy people assume will be calling the shots. I'm not, and I've been quietly sitting on that for a long time.

Here's the part I don't say out loud: nothing gets to me like a woman giving me an order. It started young. A teacher's stray "good boy" had me red in the face and trying to hide it, and it never really went away. These days it's a woman I barely know asking me to hold a door or carry something heavy, and me doing my best to look casual while my pulse does something else entirely.

The problem is the way I look. Most women take one look at me and assume I'm the dominant one in the bedroom, and I've rarely corrected them. I've had a few vanilla encounters and they were fun, but none of them scratched the itch. What I actually want is to be someone's blank canvas, to hand over control and see what she does with it.

I've kept this side of me hidden for years, and lately it's getting harder to ignore. So I'm finally doing something about it. This is my first time posting anything like this. I'm a little nervous, I won't pretend otherwise, but here goes.

A bit about the rest of my life, so you know who you'd be talking to. My weeks are pretty simple. I work during the day, lift a few times a week, and spend weekends either at lacrosse or with friends. I like cooking more than I admit, I'm a sucker for a good road trip, and I'm the guy who remembers your coffee order after hearing it once. I'm easygoing, I laugh a lot, and I'm much better at listening than talking about myself, which is part of why this post was hard to write.

What I'm looking for: a woman in northern NJ or close to it (I'll drive for the right person) who genuinely enjoys being in charge. She knows what she wants, and she likes the idea of an eager, obedient newbie to shape however she sees fit. Looks don't matter to me. This is a mental thing for me, and that's where the fire comes from. Sane, respectful, and safe is the entire checklist.

Ideally this turns into something long term. Bad day? I'm the one who climbs onto the bed and helps you forget all about it. I'm easy to talk to, a good listener, and I show up when I say I will. Past that, I'm about as open as it gets, short of anything illegal, and I'd rather learn what you like than follow a script of my own. I'm new to all of this, which means I'm a quick study and I take direction well. Whatever you teach me, I'll remember.

I'd also rather be upfront about what I need in return: honesty, clear communication, and someone who's comfortable talking things through before and after. Being obedient is the fun part for me, but I want us both to feel good about where things are going. If something isn't working, I'll say so, and I hope you'll do the same.

If this caught your attention, message me and tell me what you'd do the first time we meet. Picture me stripped down, waiting for instructions. What's your first move? Skip the one-liners. The replies that make me smile get the longest answers back, and I'm happy to tell you more about myself and swap pics once the vibe feels right.

Looking forward to hearing from you.

I have a bit of experience with prostate stimulation and I’m hoping to gain a bit more experience. Ideally would like to meet someone who won’t mind taking their time.

I can host on the Northside. Or travel to you if that’s what you prefer.

I have a few toys you could use on me , if I’m not mistaken , one of them are made for a strap.

Send a DM let’s chat.

Bipoc to the front.

Looking to spice things up with some femdom fun. Ideally looking for someone interested in playing with a couple, but also open to solo play. Don’t care if you have much experience or not. If you are fit, fun, open minded, and between the ages of 25-40, feel free to message me:) I will probably ask for a normal SFW picture of yourself just to make sure there is mutual attraction so we don’t waste each other’s time.

Since I'd like to find a long term pegging partner (life long ideally), I'm including a lot about me so you can good idea if I'm really your type before messaging.

Age: 30. Open to women up to about 33.

Sex: MALE. Men, please at least read titles properly and stop messaging me.

Appearance: 5'8", long blond/brown hair, blue eyes, white skin, thin-fit body type. I dress almost exclusively in black if I can help it. I've been told I'm pretty good looking, but you can tell me whether or not I've been lied to!

Location: Central NJ. I'm open to dating and relocation within the US, but going international complicates matters. I'm not looking for a long distance relationship.

Looking For: The other half that I've been longing for. The love of my life and best friend in one. Not quite looking for a "domme", but a real relationship with gentle femdom/role reversal elements.

What I want in a partner: Kind, loving, trustworthy, understanding. Good sense of humor, emotionally intelligent, communicates well. I wouldn't ask for anything I don't give freely.

Non-sexual interests: Many of my interests fall into "nerd" territory. Games (video and tabletop), anime, music, art, sci-fi and fantasy stuff of all varieties. I enjoy a lot of RPG's, and some of my favorite game series include kingdom hearts, fire emblem, dark souls, and a fair few others.

I was pretty good at league but retired from playing it for now. My friend also got me into mtg some time ago, and I think it's pretty fun.

Personality: Cool headed, laid back, and kind. Mostly introverted. I flatter myself to think I'm intelligent and insightful. I do come equipped with a sturdy backbone, so please don't treat me poorly.

I’m also very reasonable, with a strong preference for peacefully resolving issues. You can expect little to no drama and good communication skills. I'm quite fond of the law of equivalent exchange, so fairness is a big deal for me.

Fun facts: I have a deep and sexy voice which most don't expect. I also really like cats. You will be sent many cat pictures. Like a lot. Forever.

Sexual stuff

Are you fully sub or a switch?: Probably a very strongly sub leaning switch. I find being the receiving (but reciprocal) partner to be uniquely fulfilling.

Are you only sexually sub only?: I really enjoy both the sexual and nonsexual aspects. I'm perfectly happy being your adoring subby boyfriend even in public, in case you're into PDA and flaunting that aspect of our relationship.

Sexual (and relationship) interests: I'm new to a lot of things, so this isn't an exhaustive list. I'm also fairly open minded and willing to try most things once.

• Pegging (of course), prostate massaging, and "milking". Although my experience is very limited so far, I'm intensely curious about it and have really liked what I've seen. To the point that I'm looking here for someone to spend my life with.
• Role reversal/gentle femdom are the big favorites! I really like having a partner that's assertive/aggressive/possessive in a romantic/sexual capacity. One who enjoys initiating intimacy and sex, and hugging/kissing/touching/groping me.
• I'm perfectly happy with displays of affection and you taking the lead, whether that's holding me tightly in public and even being territorial, whispering in my ear that I belong to you and no one else, or you proposing to me and putting a ring on my finger. The idea of being a house husband is very appealing. I can even make you a sandwich from time to time!
• Play wrestling/fighting. Having you win and pin me down while kissing me is incredibly hot.
• Kissing/licking/biting (both giving and receiving) are massive favorites. Lipstick marks and hickeys all over my body are a huge turn on.
• Cuddling, being held, holding you, spending time together. I love intimacy, and I'm extremely loyal and affectionate once I get attached to someone. You will be my favorite person ever and your happiness/enjoyment will always be as important as my own. I will always be there to support you.
• Oh, and of course, the dirtiest, most vile, and disgusting fetish of all, handholding . I'm a sick bastard who tramples upon all that is good, I know.

Hard limits (non exhaustive): Scat, pee, blood, getting punched in the balls, cuckolding, chastity, permanent injuries, physical torture, cooking fish in the microwave…

Partner preferences: I'm a big fan of goth/alt/tomboy looks. Shortish hair is a big plus, somewhere between pixie and neck length. Height difference (taller than me) is very attractive, I like how "imposing" it can be. I'm also very fond of visible fitness/muscle tone.

As long as I find you attractive then it works for me, but my sense of attraction is unfortunately pretty particular. So these are (sadly) strong preferences.

Dealbreakers/Requirements: Similar interests are a requirement. Being able to enjoy my favorite things with my favorite person is something I dearly want in a relationship.

I do have an unavoidable preference for body type that I unfortunately can't get past, that being the thinner end of the spectrum when it comes to proportions/body fat. So lean/fit/muscular. PLEASE DON'T BE A SOCIOPATH, OR ACT LIKE ONE.

Potential red flags: I'm unfortunately contending with giga-depression and chronic illness. Both of which are unpleasant but not permanent.

That's Portland, Maine ftr.

So I best describe myself as a sub-leaning switch with heteroflexible tendencies. I've certainly explored and learned things I like sexually and this is a next step to try. Something with someone.

I want to try being pegged. I don't have much experience with others in general and I don't have much expectations other than to be safe, clean, and enjoy ourselves. I would love to hear your about your own experiences and how you like to play as well.

I'm okay with hosting or traveling within reason. I have difficulty meet people in my area in general so I kind of don't expect many replies from here. So if you're from Boston or Bangor or somewhere. I'll be down to travel there.

As for myself I am:

5'10"

185 lbs

Average/chubby/dad bod build

Shaved bald

Glasses

Short facial hair

Never been pegged before but have wanted to for a long time and have used toys in the past. I can host or drive to you if you are not that far.

I am 5'9", 140lbs, brown hair, and green eyes introverted nerd. This can be a one time thing or we can have a longer dynamic I am okay with both. Hope to hear from you

Left it too last minute so not surprised it didn't happen. But looking to have a post birthday pegging to make up for it. Just need to find someone new since she had a change of mind at the store which is completely fair no judgement. No experience necessary, i'll buy the strap and if you change your mind no pressure to finish. A great opportunity for anyone whose just been curious.

Not looking for a professional at this point. And not interested in talking with other men about it either.

Hey, 34yo 6’1” tall white guy in NC - I had an ex who pegged me a few times and I desperately loved it. I’m normally a Dom in kink, but it was so good. I’ve been wanting to reexperience it. Looking for a woman who’s down to peg. Also, of course, happy to provide reciprocation and get you out if you want it. My ex used to demand that after she stretched my ass, I have to get down on all fours and eat her out, if that’s something you’re into hit me up.

Hiya! I'm a handsome hwp guy looking to please a special lady! I would love to bend over for you and let you have your way with me!😁 I have a strapon and plugs and make sure I'm squeaky clean. I am open to a lot of kinks! Anything else you would like to know, please ask! I'm in the Polk County area 😊. DDF and open to other types of play as well. 😉

Some pics on my profile
I m clean, nice and easy to get along with guy, I ll be in Dallas till Tuesday and can host at my hotel
Would love to find a girl who will fuck me
I m very open to discuss details
We can have a coffee or a drink before anything if you like, or we can go straight to the point..
DM me…

Call me J. I'm 23, 6'2", in northern Jersey, with a finance job and club lacrosse on weekends. On paper I look like the guy who'd be calling the shots. I'm not.

Here's the part I don't say out loud: nothing gets to me like a woman giving me an order. It started with a teacher's stray "good boy" that left me red in the face, and it never really went away. These days it's a stranger asking me to hold a door or move something heavy while I try to act normal.

Most women take one look at me and assume I'm the dominant one, and I've rarely corrected them. The few vanilla encounters I've had were fun, but none of them scratched the itch. I want to be someone's blank canvas.

This is my first time posting anything like this, so yes, I'm a little nervous. Here's what I'm after: a woman in northern NJ (I'll drive for the right person) who genuinely enjoys being in charge, knows what she wants, and likes the idea of an eager, obedient newbie to shape. Looks don't matter to me. For me this is mental, and that's where the fire comes from. Sane, respectful, and safe is the whole checklist.

The goal is something long term. Bad day? I'm the one who climbs on the bed and helps you forget it. Beyond that, I'm about as open as it gets, short of anything illegal.

If this got your attention, message me and tell me what you'd do the first time we meet. Picture me stripped down and waiting for instructions. What's your first move? Thoughtful answers get the longest replies. I'm happy to tell you more about myself and swap pics if the vibe is right.

Hi. So first of all I'm in Sheffield in the UK and looking for this at mine, maybe yours if local enough.

I've never tried this but it's one of my, I don't know if bucket list things is the right way to discribe it, but kinda that. I've never tried it before so maybe need to start slow and build up to it, I don't know, hopfully you do lol.

A bit about me, I'm 6 foot, pretty laid back and run a few times a week so in decent shape

Obviously looking for someone in the UK as close as possible to my location. If at all intrested please send a dm.

👀

For my whole life, I have been the dominant person. The one who controls the other and make sure that everything is about her pleasure and submitting her to me.

For the first time I want to be on the other side. I want to be one who gets to be a good boy. I have had the occasion to both give and receive rimming, but I want more and I would like to let a woman be the first person to ever have the chance of pegging me.

For some context, I am a 28M and live in South of France around Cannes. I have a nice trimmed beard and beautiful curls you can grab. The person I am looking for would be someone pretty caring, we should both feel at ease, listened too, and safe to experiment together.

Would you be that person for me ?

I just want someone to peg me again, I got pegged a few times when I was at university and assumed it would happen more in the years that followed but yet to meet a woman again that is interested.

I don't know what inspires a woman to peg a man but I have been going to the gym to make my butt more appealing.

If you'd like to meet up, let me know.

I’m 26, 5’7”, Hispanic, with dark hair, brown eyes, and a lean build size 28 jeans lol. Happy to exchange pictures.

I’m looking for a confident, affectionate woman who enjoys taking the lead in a relationship, both romantically and intimately.

I’m particularly drawn to gentle femdom, pegging, and role reversal, but what I really want is genuine chemistry, affection, and a connection.