r/RBI • u/Cute_Organization292 • 10h ago
Advice needed I think my boyfriend’s father was murdered
I’m new to this sub and not even sure if this is the right place to talk about it. My boyfriend’s father passed at 37 under very suspicious circumstances in 2007. For context my boyfriend’s Mom and father were split up at the time but trying to work things out. According to her the night he passed she had spent the whole day with him. They took my boyfriend who was three at the time out together and they spent the day together talking about wanting to work it out and he had asked her to marry him saying he would get all of his shit together for her and that he loved her and wanted to work it out.that night she had let him take my boyfriend to spend the night with him and she would come back in the morning with her decision. Before she went to bed she made up her mind that she loves him and wants to marry him but was going to wait to see him in the morning like she said she would.She got woken up in the middle of the night by frantic calls and text messages telling her to come pick up her son through his phone. She was freaking out and said instantly she knew something was wrong, because it was a woman on the phone. Apparently the roommates girlfriend or something. Saying that she needed to get out of bed and come over to get her son. When she got there, she had found police were there. According to her.The roommate and the girlfriend were acting very weird and they were the ones that found him and my three-year-old boyfriend crying next to his father who was dead. My boyfriend’s mom was beside herself wanting to know what happened, but the roommate and girlfriend had nothing to say saying they just found them like that. When she finally gathers herself enough to take her son with her she left and had called her parents to watch the baby. Once she was alone she went to talk to police and they asked her if the father was in a major car accident because he had major bruising all over his body and chest, she had vouched that he hadn’t any time recently because she had spent the whole day with him and had been keeping in contact with him lately because they were in the middle of trying to figure things out, and that was something he would’ve told her or that she would’ve been there for. The roommate and the girlfriend disappeared after basic questioning, and she never heard from them again she never got answers to what happened to him and wasn’t even able to go to his funeral or her son. They never got full closure for what happened and it’s never sat right with me after hearing the story. I’m sure there’s more to it, but I didn’t want to pry too much. I can try to get more information if this is the right place to post this on? I just have to say something about it he was the one that got away for my boyfriends mom and it really bothers my boyfriend never having closure on what really happened to his father he was so little he can’t remember. According to his mom after it happened, my boyfriend was very afraid of men that he didn’t know and cried to her one time in the car about the people beating daddy. She tried to get more information from him, but he never said anything else and my boyfriend doesn’t remember. The case was closed and no one really knows what happened.And that’s all the information I have if anyone’s interested in it, they can DM me for the name. I’m not sure if I’m supposed to post that here.Im 23 f and dyslexic so if there’s any grammar or spelling errors please be kind about that and respectful if you do decide to contact me about this 🙏