I want to preface the rest of this post by saying that I want nothing I say to be taken as me “bragging” or “gloating”. I’m just being very open because I’m genuinely trying to understand 😭.

I mostly get approached by feminine presenting women, while I’m not against it, I’m usually attracted to studs, more masculine presenting or androgynous women (and enbys). The bisexual feminine presenting women LOVE me, I’ve never understood what it is about me that draws them to me.

Every single person that I’ve been in a relationship with, has either been androgynous or masculine in how they present (all POCs). I approached or made the first move with every single one of them.

Once we’d get in a relationship, they would always tell me they couldn’t believe a person like me was interested in them so they never thought to make a move. One of my exes said she couldn’t believe my Hinge profile was real when I had sent her a like. She said she thought she was being catfished.

While I think I’m not bad to look at, I don not in any way think I’m THAT attractive 😭.

I’m a feminine presenting woman, my personality is quite bubbly and caring. I’ve always been described as more of a domme fem, and as having an “aura”. I think I’m just a girl.

So, does anyone have any thoughts or ideas? I’m happy to answer any questions, please bring them on. 🧍🏾‍♀️