I’m putting this out here because I feel like we’ve all made mistakes and not realized how drastically we change our every day life for a bird.
I’d like to know what mistakes you’ve made and hopefully it wasn’t a tragic mistake, but so others can learn and follow. I’ll share my story, in hopes that someone can tell me that I’m being overly worried.
Please keep the comments friendly, this isn’t a hate zone. We’re still new bird owners and everyone starts somewhere. We’ve done research, we’ve done a lot of it… I’m constantly looking things up daily… just as I did with my dogs to a point where I know what’s okay and what’s not, I know their behavior tendencies, etc.
Don’t Dos:
1. Never purchase a bird to be shipped to you. Our first lovebird arrived passed away. They assured us it was okay to ship across the states. It was not, it was traumatic to see that, it was a lesson to be learned and saddening we never got to meet that little boy. We didn’t know
Go to a local store, even if they are a breeder. Rescue if you can but I don’t see a lot wrong with buying from a store. That said something like 85% of parrot owners can’t keep their bird more than 2 years because they weren’t prepared.
- Never fall asleep with your bird, and it may inevitably happen regardless. I posted how traumatic that was for me, as I just wanted to give a few minutes of comfort and dozed off. Just don’t do it, they need uninterrupted sleep in darkness and no sound. Humans suck at sleeping :(.
Measures we have taken now:
1. All non stick cookware is gone, I still have concerns about my slow cooker and my air fryer, even though they are stainless/ceramic. It doesn’t explicitly say no PFEs.
2. Removed all air fresheners, all candles. Added 2 air quality monitors to the house and 2 air purifiers. I get an alert and our Alexa will announce when air quality drops in the house.
3. Started using hypoallergenic detergent. It’s better for us anyways, who cares if your clothes smell like flowers… as long as they don’t smell like BO.
4. Birdie gets moved to a separate room during cooking and any air quality events… immediately.
5. Since measuring food isn’t the best method for us, I switch from pellets (most of the day), to seeds for a few hours, and chop (plus chick peas… he LOVES them… all cooked with no additives).
6. Always supervised while around the dogs. I know even though they are okay with it, it only takes one time to ruin it all.
7. Bedtime is strictly at 9 pm every night, he’s got a better sleep schedule than we do. Lol, lights off no sound, covered with the back of the cage to allow air.
8. I always wash my hands before handling.
9. He has a UV light, don’t be fooled by the fake (full spectrum) ones on Amazon. They don’t provide UV
Things still of concern:
1. He cannot fly yet (we didn’t trim, he came like that), but he goes outside on our shoulders. I’ve been warned about hawks and other predators where they can swoop and there’s not much we can do about it. Also even though his wings are clipped (he’s close to flying), he can still get lift and fly away with a breeze. Is this all true? Seems like it would need to be a decent breeze to do that.
He sneezes, often, and lets out little chirps. He sneezed when we first got him and he’s been to vet since but it’s alarming regardless because sometimes it’s a few in a short time. He sneezes more outside than inside (I usually have him in my lanai so he’s safe, but it seems there’s a pollen or something that isn’t sitting well with him)
He’s very playful, but when he’s in the cage he looks like he’s vibrating… which I hear is normal, especially while young. I’m going to invest in a monitor so I can see while I’m not in the room. It sounds like it’s excitement when seeing us.
My gf took him upstairs tonight and had candles lit up there, I immediately went up there and took him back down. I don’t think she realized but at this point I’m not negotiating our birds safety.
He tends to nip at his poop once in a while, the poop that doesn’t make it through the cage at the bottom and gets stuck on the perch. We can’t constantly monitor that. With that said he does not poop often, it’s not every 15-20 min. It’s like once an hour or 2. We’ve had him for over a month and he’s never once pooped on us… that seems wrong. He’s been consistent in weight every time. 3.7-3.8 oz since we got him… so I’m not really concerned much there.
He vomited one time (I think), a week ago after actively playing. It was a weekend and no vets available. Emergency didn’t have avian available either but like what do we do in those situations?! Hope for the best?!
When we leave the house the cage is blocked off from any dog snooping around. They don’t do it regardless, but out of caution we do it anyways.
All in all; he seems like he’s in great health. His vet said he’s perfect all around for tests. Wants us to keep clipping while the dogs are around (both are older dogs). I’ve read conflicting thoughts on that.
He is a sun conure for reference and he goes through his screaming moods when we leave the room. Surprisingly it doesn’t bother the dogs, and doesn’t bother me either… but yes it’s very loud 🤣.
So what things am I missing? Am I overreacting on some things? I’ve even prepared outlets for when he can fly so they are all capped. Do I go as far as covering the wires that are plugged in? That seems like overdoing it.
Lengthy post, I probably didn’t even cover everything. Would love to see opinions from experienced owners that have done everything successfully for years, and would like to see new owners use some of this as a reference. I know similar questions pop up all the time! Again, no haters please, I know we’re all anonymous so I’ll just ignore that. Positive and informative comments