r/malaysians • • Nov 25 '25

Dating | Relationship 🌷 The official matchmaking thread for Malaysian redditors (mod-approved)

130 Upvotes

Dear all,

Over the past year or so I have observed multiple threads of people looking for love, which is a worthy endeavor and will also help the nation's birth rate.

Therefore, with the approval of our mod u/hyattpotter (thanks for helping to pin!), this thread shall serve as the official matchmaking thread for our fellow Malaysians on Reddit. I will help monitor to make sure things do not go too far out of hand. Please refrain from posting sexist / racist / insulting comments or I will call the mods, all else is fair game.

Please post your information in the below format should you wish to advertise yourself as available for dating. Interested parties may PM the person or reply directly if daring enough.

Gender:

Orientation (straight / gay / bi):

Location:

Year of Birth:

Height:

Weight:

Religion / Race:

Occupation:

Hobbies and interests:

Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality):

Requirements / Preferences:

Looking for (short-term / long-term / fwb etc etc):

Example:

Gender: Male

Orientation (straight / gay / bi): Straight

Location: KL

Year of Birth: 1990

Height: 160

Weight: 80

Race / Religion: Chindian / Muslim

Occupation: Fighter pilot

Hobbies and interests: Playing the piano

Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality): I am a cheerful person who likes the outdoors and having coffee, also I have 100 Hello Kitty figurines

Requirements / Preferences: An intelligent girl, preferably rich

Looking for: Long term relationship

You get the gist of it so do go ahead thanks


r/malaysians • • May 26 '21

Meta Welcome to r/Malaysians!

142 Upvotes

Hello folks and welcome to r/Malaysia's sister sub, r/Malaysians!

For those who just clicked in and is wondering what the sub is for: This sub is essentially for Malaysians to talk and post about any other topics beyond Malaysia. Here is where you can post images, videos, create and join conversations and threads revolving anything that isn't quite about Malaysia but needs a Malaysian take on it, and more! Oh and this is a race, politic and religion-free sub 🙌🏻

Most major subreddits such as r/AITA, r/JustnoMIL, r/relationship_advice, r/casualconversation, r/malefashionadvice, r/Teenagers and what have you are usually centralised around people who reside outside of SEA and may not be valid to us locally and culturally but yet the demand for it isn't wide enough to sustain its own subreddit. r/Malaysians would (hopefully) be a good place for a catch-all of such threads.

We will be coming up with contest weeks soon, as well as accepting any other ideas you guys might have for the sub, so stay tuned! We are also still tweaking design and appearances as we go. Meanwhile, everyone is encouraged to start posting what they think fits the sub to get the ball rolling :)

Much love, r/Malaysia mod team.

tldr; r/CasualUK but for Malaysia.


r/malaysians • • 8h ago

Mildly Menarik Burung pungguk in the house in the middle of the night

Post image
47 Upvotes

Tyto javanica, the Eastern barn owl, pungguk jelapang or serak biasa.

In Malaysia we have the T. j. javanica subspecies (Wallacean barn owl) which is native to the Malay Peninsula and the Greater Sunda Islands.

It usually inhabits agricultural fields, plantations and rural or urban edges.

In Malaysia they are utilised as pest control, with nest boxes being built to encourage them to move. In fact many were also translocated to Sabah and islands, as they are rare there.


r/malaysians • • 19h ago

Ask Malaysians Indonesia has its market crash in 28 years. Do you think Malaysia should be worried?

Post image
221 Upvotes

r/malaysians • • 7h ago

Rant Choking on haze plus brain dead open burning nearby

20 Upvotes

Reported to DBKL. Illegal slums between new housing on Jalan Lima, Desa Pahlawan and Jalan Kedondong


r/malaysians • • 2h ago

Mildly Menarik Seluang badar, caught from a plantation ditch

Post image
5 Upvotes

Trigonopoma gracile, seluang badar/pinyih or the graceful rasbora.

It is a small (6 cm) but very skinny fish that is found on the peninsula and Sarawak. There are records from Johor, Selangor and Terengganu.
However it has become extinct in Singapore.

It inhabits acidic swamp forests with slow-flowing habitats. Usually schooling in large numbers, even hundreds!

The usual form is yellow-striped, but some come in red like the one in post. It depends on location and environment. They are a peaceful community fish that can be kept in aquariums with other small species.


r/malaysians • • 2h ago

Advice ☎️ should i buy a new gaming pc or stick to my current rig?

6 Upvotes

hii so long story short i have my current pc which i bought 6 years ago during the height of covid and it has been a blast for me since it was my first pc ever. ill jot down the specs as follows:

GPU -GALAX GEFORCE RTX2060 SUPER GAMER (1 CLICK OC) 8GB GDDR6

CPU - AMD RYZEN 5 2600

MOBO - ASUS PRIME A320M-K AM4

RAM - 2 X PATRIOT STEEL 8GB 3200MHZ

STORAGE - TOSHIBA P300 3.5 1TB 7200RPM SATA HDD + PATRIOT BURST SATA SSD 240GB

PSU - COOLER MASTER MWE BRONZE V2 500W 80+

TOTAL PRICE: RM3198

so i have been playing games like overwatch, the sims, tf2, stardew, league and valo with ease but recently i bought a bunch of AAA games as i really love stories like hogwarts legacy, cyberpunk and rdr2 however i do frequent lots of stuttering, stuff not loaded in the map and especially terrible loading wait times like eg. it takes me 5 minutes to launch hogwarts legacy everytime i want to play it & i attempted to play marvel rivals but i just cant get more than 30 ish fps in matches so i just die constantly😭

with that being said, i am trying to venture out in playing more games but i feel like my current pc is holding that back tremendously and i would like the input of others in this matter. ive also been doing some window shopping on prebult gaming pcs and found that idealtechpc has something within my budget. ive tried shopping for components individually but the prices ive seen so far were absurd while the ones priced decently were out of stock so prebuilt might be the move here

specs as follows:

Processor: AMD Ryzen 5 5500
GPU: NVIDIA GeForce RTX 5060 8GB (Zotac/MSI)
Cooler: AMD Stock Cooler
Motherboard: COLORFUL A520M-K
RAM: GSKILL Aegis 8GB DDR4 3200Mhz
SSD: 256GBM.2NVMe SSD
Power Supply: ANTEC CSK650DC GB (80+ Bronze)(5 Year Warranty)
Casing: ANTEC CX M2 ARGB
OS: Windows 11 Home Free Unactivated

Base Specs Subtotal Price: RM3499

Upgrade To:
AMD Ryzen 5 5600 - RM259.00
ASUS RTX5060 Dual - RM99.00
MSI PRO B550M-P WIFI6E - RM250.00

FINAL TOTAL PRICE: RM4107.00

lemme know what you guys think on whether i should just keep my current pc, purchase a new one entirely or/and if there are better alternatives i would love to hear about them!

thanks!


r/malaysians • • 9h ago

Dating | Relationship 🌷 Everything you want comes when you let go or acceptance so all you need to do is just wait

10 Upvotes

How true is that statement? Ig I just want reassurance that there is light at the end of the tunnel. I'm 25 year old man.

5 years ago, I accept that I am not going to have friends and that is alright. Then, somehow I made a lifelong friend from reddit while talking about a random political issue.

Earlier this year, I accept that I might not be able to date anyone and be okay with living life alone. Then, I met my ex. Even if it didn't worked out, atleast I'm able to experience love.

But I also met people who go about their whole life and not being able to make friends or relationships. What terrifies me is if I don't proactively look for "jodoh", I'm shooting myself in the foot but the general consensus of most people is to just wait and it will happen.

I just wanna know you guys story with jodoh and how true is it to just wait for it.


r/malaysians • • 10h ago

Advice ☎️ Considering swapping fiber provider any suggestions?

11 Upvotes

Getting really frustrated with Maxis. I work from home fully so reliable internet is really important.

With Maxis, I have gotten random outages with no notice including one time for 2 days straight (required several calls just to get it back up). Went into the maxis shop one time for a different issue and glanced at the computer & noticed that they had put me back on contract after years of me being off contract without any notice. I hadn't upgraded or anything (according to them it was an accident because of a technical error but how TF does that even happen).


TLDR:

I'm sick of Maxis and really considering swapping my fiber provider but I'm worried the other ones will be equally garbage tbh. TIME is unfortunately not available for my area.

Any suggestions/experience with other service providers? Good or bad I'd love to hear about it so I know who to avoid also 😂


r/malaysians • • 1h ago

Advice ☎️ Legal name change questions

• Upvotes

Hi, as stated in the heading, I wish to change my name middle and last name. Would I be able to both all together?

I've read you need to take an oath but I couldn't find anything on changing two names would I need to repeat the process twice?

Long story short my dad decided to give me ultra Christian names (a combination of two religious figures) but since I was a kid I received absolute traumatic religious trauma, such as almost getting k worded and paralyzed then almost r worded as a 10 year old, just to mention a few, all at the Sunday school I was forced to attend for 5 years twice a week. I grew up hating that part of my name and my family name bc of my dad letting it all happen to me. So yeah! I was wondering if anyone had any experience in legally changing their middle and last names. I wish to change it to something more less religious.


r/malaysians • • 3h ago

Quick Question Any cough syrup or remedy recommendations for dry cough?

2 Upvotes

I checked older posts and a lot of people suggested Bena Expectorant, but I cannot find it on any store front online now. Instead they keep suggesting other types of the Xena brand like mucolix something. Are they good? Or do you have any other suggestions?

We're currently taking Nim Jiom Pei Pa Koa and it has helped a lot in relieving a lot of symptoms but dry cough is still existing. Been more than 2 days now.


r/malaysians • • 8h ago

Buy • Sell • Trade UPDATE: Selling 5 tickets for The Weeknd - Kuala Lampur, Malaysia | 5th Nov

4 Upvotes

Hey everyone!

I'm selling 5 tickets to The Weeknd's concert in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia, on 5th November, as our plans have unfortunately changed :(

🎟️ Ticket Details:

  • Event: The Weeknd – After Hours Till Dawn
  • Date: 5th November
  • Location: Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia (TM Stadium)
  • Quantity: 5
  • Section: 132
  • Price: $300 - USD (Negotiable)

I'm happy to sell the tickets individually or together, so you don't necessarily have to purchase all five.

I can provide proof of purchase and any additional details needed to verify the tickets.

If you're interested, drop a comment or send me a DM! Feel free to reach out if you have any questions.

Would really appreciate any upvotes to help this reach someone who's looking for tickets. Thanks, everyone!


r/malaysians • • 5h ago

Ask Malaysians Mr Chow Liquor store

1 Upvotes

Anyone bought from them before? Is it legit?

Thanks


r/malaysians • • 19h ago

Ask Malaysians Gaji kerja

12 Upvotes

Korang prefer yang mana? Dan kenapa korang pilih yang tu?

Gaji RM4-5k, kerja almost everyday habis malam 7-10 malam (eventho working hour sampai pukul 6 pm je), cuti 2 hari, rehat 1 jam 30 minit (kerja di bandar)

Gaji RM3k, kerja mostly habis on time 6 pm, cuti 1 hari setengah, rehat 1 jam (kerja di luar bandar)


r/malaysians • • 7h ago

Ask Malaysians Seeking Advice for a Family Trip to Langkawi and Kuala Lumpur (November 10–16)

0 Upvotes

I am planning a trip to Langkawi and Kuala Lumpur from November 10 to November 16 with my wife and our 4-year-old child. We are travelling from Chennai, India, and I have previously visited Malaysia as part of a tourist package. This time, I would like to plan the trip independently and make the most of our time while keeping the travel comfortable, safe, and budget-friendly.

1. Transportation in Langkawi and Kuala Lumpur

I am planning to use Grab and local MRT/LRT services wherever possible.

  • How reliable and readily available is Grab in Langkawi, especially for airport transfers and travel around Pantai Cenang, where I have booked our hotel?
  • Would you recommend booking an airport transfer through Klook instead, considering that we will be travelling with a young child and three cabin-sized suitcases, in accordance with AirAsia's baggage recommendations?
  • Is Grab a practical and economical option for getting around Kuala Lumpur, or would public transportation be more convenient for some routes?
  • Since I speak Tamil, I was also wondering whether communicating with local Tamil-speaking drivers would be relatively easy.

2. Attractions and Activities

I am considering visiting the following attractions and would appreciate advice on which ones are worth visiting with a 4-year-old, how much time to allocate to each, and whether advance booking is recommended.

Langkawi

  • Parasailing

Kuala Lumpur

  • Batu Caves
  • KL Tower
  • Petronas Twin Towers
  • KLCC Park
  • The Exchange TRX Mall
  • Berjaya Times Square
  • Merdeka Square
  • WINDLAB Indoor Skydiving
  • Aquaria KLCC

I am also considering visiting Sunway Lagoon in Kuala Lumpur. Would you recommend it for a family travelling with a 4-year-old, and is it worth dedicating a significant portion of our limited trip time to it?

3. Tickets and Best Deals

What is the best way to get discounted tickets for these attractions? Should I book through Klook, official attraction websites, or other reliable platforms?

  • Are there any family packages, combination tickets, or online promotions worth considering?
  • Which attractions should I book in advance, and which can be visited without pre-booking?
  • Are there any attractions that are better value for money or that I could skip to avoid rushing through the trip?

4. Safety and Practical Precautions

Since this is an independent family trip, I would appreciate practical advice on:

  • Safety precautions when travelling with a 4-year-old in Grab cars and public transportation.
  • Precautions for parasailing and other adventure activities.
  • Managing luggage, passports, cash, mobile connectivity, and travel documents.
  • Common tourist scams, weather-related concerns, and other issues to watch out for in Malaysia.

5. Overall Recommendations

Given that we have six days for this trip, what would be the most practical way to organise our Langkawi and Kuala Lumpur itinerary without making it too hectic for our child?

I would especially appreciate advice based on recent traveller experiences, reliable transportation options, realistic travel times, and ways to save money without compromising on safety or comfort.

Used AI to articulate myself well.
Konjam sonnengana punniyama pogum malaysia sondhangala


r/malaysians • • 11h ago

Ask Malaysians Mosquito fear

1 Upvotes

Hi ! I’ll be living in KL for 6 months from January for an internship, and I’m very excited. BUT now internet made me being scared of mosquitos in malaysia, between dengue and japanese encephalitis. I’m coming from an european country so yeah I’m used to mosquitos but not quite the same as in tropical climates…
Except dressing long enough and being covered in répulsives, do you know if all accommodations in KL (like condos) are furnished against mosquitos, like nets, for windows and everything ? And do you have any advices that can diminish this anxiety, or be more useful ?

Sorry if I’m looking anxious or overreacting right now, but it will be my first time living alone in a country so far from my home with no one I know in KL 😅


r/malaysians • • 2h ago

Discussion The vehicle plate in Kuching is too long

Post image
0 Upvotes

Attached is an example of a vehicle plate registered in Kuching. It is 8 characters long compared to 7 in most other areas, making it difficult to remember. I know why this happens, it is due to the QAx #### being exhausted, and Q is the letter for Sarawak. However the second letter can be changed to something such as F, G, J, N, Q, U, V, W, X or Y eg. QFA1234 so that the plate can have 7 characters making it easier to remember.


r/malaysians • • 9h ago

Ask Malaysians Hi friends, Got couple of tickets for the upcoming Sepang MotoGp race

Post image
1 Upvotes

Hello MAL Friends

I've got two extra tickets in K1 Grandstand for the upcoming Sepang MotoGp race which is going to be held during Oct 30,31 and Nov 1.

I have 3 tickets for me and my friends so we all can join together for the race and have a good time.

DM me for more details


r/malaysians • • 1d ago

Mildly Menarik A clear water hillstream in Selangor, where I caught large green Betta

Post image
22 Upvotes

B. pugnax, the forest Betta or ikan laga batu.

This is a common species native to the West Coast of the peninsula, most people have seen or heard of it. They grow to 12-13 cm.
They usually inhabit clean unpolluted forest streams with good water quality.

Males have beautiful green iridescent scales and a pointed tail.
They can be hard to keep and breed due their original habitat of clean cool water. After spawning, males brood their eggs in the mouth for 10-12 days.

They are brown when stressed or camouflaged, which helps with evading predators. But once comfortable they will display their beautiful colours.


r/malaysians • • 9h ago

Advice ☎️ KL> Need help..witness for marriage..

Thumbnail
1 Upvotes

r/malaysians • • 1d ago

Advice ☎️ Add power plug for bathroom

Post image
27 Upvotes

I wanted to install power plug for my bathroom. The closes power that I can think of is from the next bedroom but the wall is concrete so drilling thru for wiring may be difficult. Another source is the heater power plug which is hanging above my plaster ceiling but might be another challenges, moreover the tiles that I have in bathroom is so old and no longer sold so remove the tiles for wiring will be something to think about.


r/malaysians • • 19h ago

Help ⚠️ Is this normal for a part-time event photography/videography job?

2 Upvotes

Hey guys, a Media Production university student here and would love to ask some advice from people who have experience working in a part time event shooting under certain media company, if this kind of circumstances is normal or not.

Things happened like this, A friend introduced me to a private media company that hires part-timers to shoot photos and videos at events. We only need to submit the footage and photos, without editing. Since this was my first time doing this kind of job, I thought it would be a great chance to gain experience and earn some extra pocket money.

During my first event, the manager who assigned us the job didn’t tell us when we could finish. She just kept asking us to shoot more footage before leaving us alone at that spot. We only found out we could finish after another friend working elsewhere contacted us. Not long, after sending out the photos and videos she’d asked me to, i literally waited almost a month without receiving my allowance, even until now.

Just when I decided to ask the manger about it, my friend called me, saying that the manager insisted me to come to another event shoot immediately, without saying anything. Of course, I rejected it since it was so sudden but then she assigned me to another job involving a three-day event related to Chinese traditional rituals. Once again, she provided no proper briefing or schedule and instead told me to contact “their client” by myself for the details, the flow and the entire event details. She also told me that I will be to handling BOTH photography and videography alone for all three days, offering only half my usual allowance (my first event was RM100 for one day).

Things got worse on the first day when it started raining during the outdoor activities. I was worried about damaging my camera, so I contacted the manager about this matter. However, she insisted that I find ways myself to continue shooting despite the heavy rain, without thinking much of the risk to my equipment.

Honestly, I’m frustrated with how irresponsible the company seems to be when handling its part-timers. I know these jobs could let me gain experience and earn some extra money as a university student, but the late payment, irresponsibility, and unreasonable workload from this company made me question whether this is normal or not.

Okay I’m really dumb and still have a lot of questions about this kind of job since it my first time exposing to part time videographer/ photographer. So I wished to ask yall who have much experience in part time photographer/videographer or freelancers, is this kind of situation reasonable? Normal? Should I just stop accepting this kind of job?


r/malaysians • • 23h ago

Rant Feeling anxious and overthinking 24/7

4 Upvotes

​

Hey guys so for context, these past few weeks have been quite a lot for me. From going to public uni for a course I wasn't initially that interested in to realising it wasn't meant for me and then coming back home to do a course I want but also with a price have all made me feel so exhausted and overwhelmed. Just that I am scared of what if I end up regretting leaving the public uni I was at bcz it was a good experience for me, the people there, the environment like everything was great just that the course wasn't smtg I had passion for. So I decided to do the course i hv passion for at a private uni but I keep getting anxious bcz i heard the culture n the way people are at private uni are entirely different compared to public uni. Like I hv heard cases of bullying and students doing drugs.

Personally for me, i don't honestly care if they wanna do drugs or go clubbing or wtv but I did hear that if u are the unbothered/quiet type, ud get bullied or like outcasted? Plus im gonna be prolly the oldest in my class due to some reason so I keep getting anixous like what if my uni life ends up being shit n what if i regret leaving the public uni i was at initially?

N Idk man i feel so indecisive n keep having doubts abt everything like i gen am in a state where idk if wtv im doing is right?? I don't hv anyone to talk to coz im always the listener so when I hv shit to say obv no one's there to listen. N recently I also went thru some other shit after coming back home so my head keeps connecting all the dots n is tryna prove that me leaving the public uni was a mistake. I keep feeling like one moment i'll be fine n then the next i go back to overthinking.

I also tend to think that im not smart or independent enough n am also surrounded by people who look down on me often n think of me as a weakling. However, going to the public uni actually made me a lot more independent n taught me many things. But some things happened recently that made me think back that im just dumb n useless n people always see me as the useless n dependent kid bcz i keep making mistakes n idk no matter how hard i try, i can never break that quiet, dumb n dependent person image.

N whoever who asks me to go for therapy, I cannot afford it and well my fam would def not approve it. Not to mention, itd be troublesome and would burden my parents and atp after everything, I just don't want to burden them. Bcz i hv already done so especially financially bcz the course i want does cost a lot and honestly I don't even want to start thinking about that since that's another headache.

Funny how people say ur uni life or like twenties are supposed to be some of ur best years in life but tbh i just feel like my mental health, my life n everything in general is just worsening as I get older. Not to mention social relationships.


r/malaysians • • 1d ago

Recommend Me • Seeking 🔍 Looking for friends

3 Upvotes

Hi, I'm a 22M currently staying in KL. Came from JB for work about 2 months ago, and honestly, KL feels a bit dry when it comes to making friends 😂 Everyone's just busy with work and trying to make a living, so I'm looking for some people to hang out with on weekends and have some fun.

I'm Indian btw, so if anyone's down to be friends, just hit my DMs! No awkwardness, just looking to meet some new people and make good memories. Thankss 🤝🏻


r/malaysians • • 1d ago

Help ⚠️ Am a fresh grad, need advice and guidance on my first job offer 🙏

6 Upvotes

Hi everyone, I’m a recent degree graduate (Psychology degree) and I could really use some outside perspective on a job offer I just received.

For some context, I did my internship in Recruitment. My manager from my internship referred my performance to Company A.

Originally, I was scheduled to have a proper team interview on Monday at their HQ. However, the person handling it called me out of nowhere on the same day and essentially offered me the job right over the phone, bypassing the interview entirely.

While getting an offer is nice, I’m unsure about some terms:

• The Salary: RM2,500/month for a 3-month probation period.

• The KPI / Expectations: They expect me to consistently hire 15 to 25 people a week during these 3 months.

As a degree holder, I know RM2.5k sits at the absolute bare minimum floor for fresh graduate starting pay, but what worries me way more is that hiring quota. Sourcing, screening, interviewing, and successfully onboarding 15 to 30 people every single week sounds
exhausting, the recruiter herself told me it was not impossible but really hard depending on the industry and turnover rate.

I’m just worried if I accept the offer right now and I’m not able to pass the probation I’ll be stuck with a low salary that’s not equivalent to what my peers are earning. Is this a right choice to accept? 🙏🙏🙏