I took a break from the game 2 years ago. I’m now getting back into it, and I am worried about a run-in with a former client. The TLDR is we dated (I know, I know 😞), I broke up with him, and he became obsessed with me. During the period when I was splitting from him, he showed that his style of attack is very subversive. He’d impersonate investigators to try to intimidate me, hack my router to find my internet history and show up in an online support forum I go to, etc.

I desperately need to get back to work, but aside from changing my working name, how can I protect myself?

Also - if you’re ever thinking about dating a client, I hope you think of me and just immediately stop thinking about it.

I’m a big believer in the saying, “Old ways won’t open new doors.” I also feel like, over the years, I’ve gotten much better at setting boundaries, become more confident, learned my worth, and that I deserve nice things without feeling shy about expressing that.

I’ve let go of regular clients over the years, and I know some people might see that as a bad thing. But I’ve done it when they expected discounts, refused to adjust to my new rates and standards, tested my boundaries, or continued to treat me like the person I used to be rather than the person I’ve grown into.

I think when we’re first starting out, we sometimes overextend ourselves to build our business. But as time goes on, you get tired of putting more effort than you’re comfortable with. And sometimes, once you’ve established a certain dynamic with a client, it becomes difficult to change how they treat you.

I usually let them go and focus on finding new clients, but when I want extra money and times feel slow, I sometimes wonder if it was a mistake. How do you know when it’s time to let a regular go?

I’d love to hear any recommendations for hotels in Seattle that you love. Bonus points for a cool walkable area and ease of client meet up (i.e. keyless elevators and the like).

I was reading a site TNAboard is a good way to get business in Seattle. I’ve always heard that review sites tend to attract slobbiests which id definitely prefer to avoid. Would love to hear what your experiences have been like!

I have been birth control free my entire life but lately I’m noticing that my periods are coming the week where I’m really busy or have good regulars in town which is driving me crazy.

I recently started taking norethindrone which actually really helped delay my period for a week, but the side effects were awful nausea, anxiety, etc.

And my period came back with a vengeance once I stopped taking the medication.

I’m just curious if any of you ladies are taking birth control and if you find that slows down your cycle.
I’m based in the US so if there’s any specific suggestions, I would love to hear. I’m currently considering a mirena IUD, but I’m just worried about weight gain and spotting which I’ve heard can be a side

And I’m way too scared to put in a sponge. I know I’m sorry.🤣😅

When you go to nice places with your client, do you ever ask him to take photos of you?

That way you have content either for your persona or other social media.

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Hi ladies, I need advice on what to do. I’ve started dating a wealthy man who provides for me, but he doesn't give me anything besides his cc. And he’s been very demanding, disrespectful, and controlling. I haven’t worked in New York City for a year.

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Hi all - If anyone is interested in working together, let me know! Or even if you are interested in just getting together, I don’t have any escort friends in Chicago :)

I’m based in Tampa but in Chicago for a couple weeks (dates are flexible) - I’m originally from here and visiting family. Taking bookings while I’m here in the city and surrounding suburbs. Already getting a lot more inquiries than Tampa and I’ve had 4 bookings so far, got here last week.

For background I am a GFE provider, my rate starts at $800/HR. I’ve never partnered with someone for bookings but if there’s a market for this in Chicago I’d love to connect with others and see if we’re a fit! 🫶🩷 Comment or send a message 💕

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Hey everyone, I’m looking for advice from people who have moved out in Toronto, Ontario, especially if you didn’t have a traditional job or proof of income at the time.
I’m trying to move out on my own and rent an apartment, ideally a one-bedroom, but I’m running into the issue of landlords wanting proof of employment, pay stubs, and a steady income. I have savings, good credit score, but I don’t currently have the typical employment documents they ask for.
For anyone who has been in a similar situation, how did you manage to get approved for a rental? Did you find a private landlord, offer bank statements as proof of savings, provide a guarantor, or do something else?
I’m particularly interested in hearing from people in Toronto or the GTA who managed to rent without a job or traditional proof of income.
I’d appreciate any advice on what landlords will realistically accept, which rental options are worth looking into, and what I should avoid. Thanks!

We all make good money doing what we are doing but I was wondering if anyone here has traded sex for anything other than straight cash. I was talking with a girl friend and she mentioned how she had sex with a friend of hers in exchange of fixing her car. She found it too easy and the rest of us teased her that she is half way there and she should join us over on the dark side lol..

Did you ever have sex / use your sexuality for something other than money ?

I'm debating on changing my process, but I'd like to get some thoughts from you all first.

I usually meet clients in the lobby or somewhere public to take care of fees and to get a vibe from them, etc. But now I'm thinking about just meeting them, if it's for a private meeting only, in their private hotel space...

Am I missing something considering that change?

I’m curious to hear from women who’ve navigated both the porn world and high-end escorting.
For context, I was a Brazzers contract star and had a pretty good online presence back in the day. I used to have athletes and celebrities in my DMs, so I definitely had my fair share of attention lol. Eventually, I connected with a high-end client, and for the past three years, I’ve honestly been living it up a little and enjoying that arrangement 😂
The thing is, I pretty much disappeared from the internet in 2024, so my socials aren’t nearly as popping as they used to be. My arrangement has also become less consistent lately, and it’s got me thinking about getting serious again and being more intentional about my next chapter.
I’m not really interested in rejoining the porn industry or going back to creating content full-time. I’d much rather focus on building a small, solid clientele of high-quality men and developing a few good long-term relationships. I know I have the background and experience, but I’m curious how to rebuild my visibility and position myself in that market when my old online presence has faded.
For the girls who’ve done something similar, how did you get back on the radar without going back to the industry? Did you rebuild your socials, lean on existing connections, or find that networking and word of mouth worked better?
And for those who’ve had success attracting established, generous clients without constantly advertising themselves, I’d love to hear your experiences. I feel like I’ve spent the last three years enjoying the perks, and now it’s time to get serious about building something sustainable lol. 💕

these questions are living rent free in my mind and I really want to learn more about girls in the same field

wish you all the best ! XO

previously worked as a stripper in my 20's after graduating college and now have been escorting for a year. the same time I launched my ad (Tryst), I also started in an office job, which wasn't a fit for me, but I had a sense of working at something outside of this so I wouldn't depend on it.

have been making ~10k/month on average doing this on the side; however, in the summer I lost my office job

i have huge gaps in my resume and feel totally unsure what career I possibly could (or want to) work towards. I have crazy cognitive dissonance around being financially secure for now, even well-off, but seeing my financial future ahead of me so murky. I try to stay positive, but it's wearing on me.

Posting here because I don't have people in my life who can relate, I feel so behind, and I am wondering if other people are feeling this way or how you're taking care of your future. Thank you <3 truly sending love to you ladies

Hi! When you guys apply for a mortgage, what do you list as your business? When you set up your business and when you pay taxes, did you choose something like ‘business consulting’ as your industry code? Do you use that when applying for a mortgage?

The problem I have is that, I have a sole proprietorship and when I got my business license I chose the code ‘independent artist, performer, writer’ because at the time I thought I was also going to work at a strip club.

Well, so my questions are,
Will I get discriminated against if I say my job is a dancer? Do I have to come up with another type of artist to go by that does not contain nuances of the adult industry? Can you guys tell me what you say your business is when getting a mortgage? And do the lenders ask in depth about what the business is?

Hi!
What are some high end escorting websites in London to advertise on

Hello girls, I would like to get friends who are here in Utah so we can go out and have a drink sometimes, so we can talk about work quietly, give us tips or be able to get a partner for some meetings 🥰❤️❤️

I’m a GF provider in 🇫🇮. It’s awful esp in the helsinki area currently. There are not many providers in the country as a whole and it looks like there is an influx of girls from other countries bringing the market down and doing things like owo for 50€. As it is known that high-end is quite low in eu compared to usa It’s getting a bit ridiculous now.

How are things going on in the neighbouring countries? I wonder if the men (preferably wealthy) are willing to spend in cities like sthlm, oslo, copenhagen etc or if they are as stingy as the finns are.

Or

Should I go straight to countries like germany or switzerland that seem to be mentioned most in this channel for europe? (touring)

I would also like to discuss and connect more in the dms!

Can someone please check whether my PD account is red-flagged or blacklisted?

Hi!

I am currently 5'4 120 lbs and have natural breasts, somewhere between an A and B cup. I have mostly lower pole fullness and am looking to fill out the upper portion of my breast while giving them a more lifted and round appearance, but not balloon like.

What time of year do you think is the best time to get implants?

When do you go back to FS?

How bad was the recovery?

The scarring is what I am most worried about, especially since I want a lift. How bad did yours end up being?

Did this change your income for the better? I worry I may lose clients. I've had clients tell me to never do anything to my breasts. I just feel I'd be more confident if they were fuller and perkier.