r/CamGirlProblems • • Sep 01 '25

Pro Tips TIPS FOR NEW CAMGIRLS TO SPOT SCAMMERS/TIMEWASTERS:

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I wrote this list for a friend who was going to start on CB. She decided not to, so I thought I’d post it here! This is all from my personal experience so feel free to argue any in the comments or add anything I’ve forgotten.

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People who want to buy stuff off your amazon Wishlist to pay for things. They can cancel order after payment.

a “horny lesbian” or a “couple” viewer is generally always a man pretending. Women and couples on camsites will usually always be fellow cammers, not viewers. I don’t know why they do this, maybe to appear less threatening?

Offering to pay you a stupid amount of money straight away for services, usually a “sugar daddy” is always a scam. Nobody is going to pay a random girl $4000 a week for foot pics 🤣

Guys asking about Customs can just be timewasters getting off on talking about their fetish and have no intention on ever paying, as they are getting off on the chat. Same goes with guys who ask to pm for free to chat about pvt, or asking to chat about something else. NEVER PM FOR FREE if a guy asks you. Often they just want to see if they can and get off on wasting your time. Every single time I’ve fallen for “PLEASE PM ME URGENTLY I NEED TO TELL YOU SOMETHING IMPORTANT” it is literally “you’re gorgeous!” …every single time. Ask these guys to tell you in a tip note if they need to say privately. If they can’t pay 1tkn they aren’t worth your time and energy I promise you.

Same goes for new guys who in their first interaction with you will say they want to buy your panties but want to talk endlessly about types of panties and see pictures, especially pics of them on or pics of your stained panties is a big red flag.

People commenting things like” OMG I can’t believe it’s you on here” /people threatening to dox you/blackmail without actually providing any information about you are either trying to get you to PM them or they’re those dudes who get off on upsetting you/watching you freak out. Ignore and block immediately.

Purples tipping one token and ask to PM. If a purple can’t pay your PM price they’re not going to be the whale of your dreams, again usually dudes into degradation or cheapskates and usually not worth your time.

Tip once, wants to chat forever. You’ll occasionally get guys who will give you a big tip one night then sit in your room and chat expecting attention. Today is a new day, yesterdays tips don’t count lmao 🤣

“”Blank “ has sent tokens” messages. Remember to check what sound tokens make and the colour of the chart when it happens, and that your token balance goes up. if you’re very new they will try this.

Marketing/coach guys will approach you, tell you they’re marketing gurus ands want to help you in exchange for video calls/content. Embarrassingly I’ve taken up 3 guys on this offer before. I’ve never sent content/calls but they’ve just been massive timewasters. A few days chatting and they only offer vague advice.

“I want to do a free call, I’ll tip you well after” or “I’ll pay half now half when I’ve cum” I promise you no guy is going to stick by his word. They will cum as quick as they can and not pay you.

Also the daddy dom type guys who tell you to do as they say and give you all of their attention and they’ll tip you after… they never ever do. (Often they will pay pm price and just bombard you wanting your attention without tipping further or give 1tkn tips) Their demands will just get more and more crazy. Ignore these type of dudes for your own sanity. I find that the guys who have the “daddy” in the name and a control fetish are often very cheap and unless you’ve got a really thick skin and patience it’s not pleasant to deal with them and the pay isn’t worth it, they’ll often argue about any kind of payment just to get a rise out of you. 🚩🚩🚩

Similar to the daddy dom guys, “asshole fetish” dudes are usually complete pests. Not scammers or anything but thought I’d mention they are just really pushy rude people who are hard to deal with.

Promo accounts, “pay us to promote you” (this is mainly for social media) but these are usually scams, all the followers are other cam girls usually 😅

Be very wary of guys sending you links to click on, it could be something illegal or shocking, some guys get off on watching you get upset. Also I have always done c2c but remember that anyone can be on the other side, and if you don’t want to see a man with a hitachi wand in his ass pull it out ands lock it clean, drinking a glass of his own piss or shooting up drugs you might also want to be wary of this. It’s very rare they do this without warning but it happens!

“Let’s collab” messages from a ‘fellow cammer’ are often a dude who has 30 followers and a free onlyfans with 5 of the same pics of their cock. Some guys will cam for fun and funnel all the tokens back into camgirls, so it’s best to treat them like any other customer, but you don’t want to be collaborating with any guy who doesn’t have a big following. Another note, guys who watch girls on camsites rarely want b/g content, (they get jealous, ruins the fantasy) so if you do want to cam with a guy I would suggest camming on his page or separately as a couple on a whole new account.

“You’ll get more viewers in here if you take your top off “ never ever ever ever listen to ANY advice from chat or random customers. They have their own best interests at heart. More people in your room don’t always equal more tokens. I made a new account the other day and hadn’t made a menu yet and I think guys thought I was new new and the lies they were telling me about pricing was wild 🤣

Guys asking you to peek at their pics/cam. Often the big dick dudes will do this, tell them to take a peek at your menu prices 🤣 The monster dick dudes (8inch+) are often really cheap and think the sun shines out their cock. Giving them the time of day Is usually never worth the energy.

New guys/greys coming in and starting off with excessive/gratuitous compliments can often signal a time waster/scammer. Like “OMG!!!! YOU ARE THE MOST BEAUTIFUL WOMAN I’VE SEEN ON THIS SITE IN TEN YEARS!!!! BEST TITS I’VE EVER SEEN IN MY WHOLE LIFE!!!!” rather than a more realistic comment of something like “hello gorgeous, great tits!!” Another common one is “You’re way too beautiful for your room to be this quiet, you should have way more viewers!” always greys. They just want your attention for free. Definitely just take these compliments with a grain of salt and a “thanks 😘” don’t get swept up in it!

If it seems too good to be true it is. If youre going to have to put work in for the same thing another guy will just pay for, it’s not going to be worth it. Remember your time is precious, the best advice is to always remember these guys have no lives or hobbies, talking to you for free is big entertainment for a lot of them. They can’t talk to a girl for free in real life and they know they can waste our time as more and more girls are indulging these men thinking they’ll get paid at the end of it. 😭


r/CamGirlProblems • • 11h ago

Discussions Fellow sexworkers! If you want to keep your job and protect self-employed women, VOTE!!!

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There are a lot of state laws passing right now that specifically oppress the women MAKING sexual content, and NOT the people watching it.

The people who are subject to being hurt by these laws the most are vulnerable, self-employed female sexworkers.

Not CEO's of AI model corporations who can use loopholes and hire a bunch of lawyers.

Not traffickers, people in the business of exploiting women who, like Epstein can, again, hire a law team.

US.

The women who were financially able to escape abusive relationships because they found a way to work without leaving the house. The women who are too disabled to do any other job. The women supporting their children when they otherwise couldn't. The women who are free and empowered in their sexuality, NOT ASHAMED, and WILLINGLY CHOSE TO DO THIS WORK OF THEIR OWN VOLITION, of their OWN FREEDOM. Our naked bodies on a screen HARM NO ONE. We, women, are NOT RESPONSIBLE for the individuals who choose to practice sexuality in their lives in ways that are harmful to themselves. These laws serve to only further oppress women and take money from the people and put it straight into the pockets of the greedy CEOs who don't need it.

Please look up porn bans in your state NOW, and see which house bills and acts are being proposed by which state representatives, and RESPOND ACCORDINGLY.

In my state, the ENTIRE LIST of representatives proposing a porn ban are republicans.

Weigh out what matters the most to YOU and vote accordingly.

If you don't know how to vote, you can find your polling place by going to vote.org

You can also use this link https://www.nass.org/can-i-vote/absentee-early-voting for more details on voting in your state including voting absentee. I am on the permanent absentee list and I get the ballots sent to me for every election!!

This is IMPORTANT and YOUR VOTE MATTERS.

Election Day Is November 3.


r/CamGirlProblems • • 8h ago

Discussions *sigh* i really hate men

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60 Upvotes

haven’t cammed in weeks. between my twin’s death anniversary and our bday coming up, i haven’t been able to get the motivation nor do i have the energy to deal w these soul-sucking losers. finally felt good enough to jump back on the wagon and i get this lmao


r/CamGirlProblems • • 14h ago

Discussions Low Earnings

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As much as we clap for our top earning huns 😘 we love it for you and we are inspired . The reality of this line of work is that there are also us (Low Earning Models) We earn close to nothing despite putting effort and some days end without absolutely nothing to be proud of. Do we give up NO because some of us giving up is not an option. My fellow ladies what keeps you going??? And how much you have made this month so far


r/CamGirlProblems • • 6h ago

Discussions Ultimate users in SC

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Gray users can no longer chat in my room because I thought they were the rudest but the worst ones are the ultimate users 😷 @Stripchat when do we get paid for receiving annoying messages from your ultimate members?


r/CamGirlProblems • • 3h ago

Help/Advice Customer Blocked Me

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I found out that my favorite customer blocked me on NF the other day. He favorited me right after our last conversation, and I went to send him a message and it said he blocked me. Not sure why, I thought he enjoyed his time. 🤷


r/CamGirlProblems • • 3h ago

Help/Advice Charging for customs

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I don’t get a lot of custom requests but today a guy asked how much I would charge for three photos every morning. One nude, one in panties/bra and one in my outfit of the day. I told him I’d get back to him. Not really sure what to charge.


r/CamGirlProblems • • 13h ago

Wins Win!

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Hey ladies!
Wasn’t going to log on this morning because I woke up fair food sick! However, I still logged on and had a slow room at first. But then I had a guy sit in Pvt with me for 45 minutes! He was also my whale still after the pvt! That put me in a great mood so for the rest of my stream, I was ok cloud 9. I’m non nude and still, in the middle of the day, 468 men watched me dance around, sing Adele, talk about my world, etc.
I made $1200 this morning! When I wasn’t going to log on.
Be fun ladies!!! I’m now the “CB the musical” gal they’re referring to and they LOVE IT! I don’t get it at all but they have fun with me ! So if you’re feeling slow and bored in your room, throw on some fav songs, get to dancing and be yourself. The men will come!


r/CamGirlProblems • • 11h ago

Help/Advice Has this month been super slow for anyone else I

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r/CamGirlProblems • • 17m ago

Help/Advice Started period during show :(

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UGHH my period came early and unexpectedly during a excl on SM… It wasn’t like vibrant red or a lot either but the guy left when i took my panties off and i couldn’t even tell on cam until i got up and realized.. I just am nervous to get penalized for this. He didn’t say anything but Im just hoping it doesn’t affect me.


r/CamGirlProblems • • 7h ago

Help/Advice What is the best platform for phone sex/chat work?

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Hey all! I have been thinking about going into phone sex work as I try to transition into the next stage in my career. I know that these jobs are WORK, but I have been struggling to keep up with “standard” jobs due to ongoing personal issues, and would like to be working from home. I have extensive call center experience, and while I’ve never written erotica, I read a lot of it, and can be a fairly decent writer.

I’ve been browsing through Reddit and have been seeing mixed reports on how good platforms like NiteFlirt are. I figure I’d ask what y’all’s experiences have been, and how the different services compare. So far, I’ve heard of NiteFlirt, TalkToMe, Chaturbate, and Sextpanther (tho my understanding is that you need an existing following for that one). If there are any others I haven’t considered, I’m all ears.

Thanks y’all!


r/CamGirlProblems • • 1h ago

Help/Advice Where to start

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I've been online sex work for a little bit on things like O.F and fansly, and I market using twitter/X, Tumblr, and reddit.

I've done some video calls too but I'd like to get into Cam/Live streaming too.

TDLR: Where do I start? What sites? How do you price? How do you market? Do you use multiple sites?


r/CamGirlProblems • • 7h ago

Help/Advice ¿Cómo pasar el rato?

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Vuelvo a publicar acá, lol.

Sé que tengo que hacer 6 horas diarias para posicionarme, pero a las 2/3 horas me aburro y me desconecto (sé que está mal).

Suelo estar parada bailando para no aburrirme, siento que el estar sentada no me beneficia en nada. Es decir, a la gente no le interesa ver a alguien sentada :P

¿Qué hacen ustedes para que no sea tan pesado el stream?


r/CamGirlProblems • • 6h ago

Help/Advice My earnings have dropped so much, and I’m starting to feel really discouraged

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r/CamGirlProblems • • 13h ago

Help/Advice the follower/stream settings changed the game for me! (LOYALFANS)

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i’m new here as a whole and it only here for the Cam part lol and haven’t even been here a full 24 hours when one piece of advice OVER doubled my followers eeee!!

so I’m late to the game, but for others like me I read here that when we go to stream, setting the toggle to followers versus public is how we are going to get the followers. Previously, I have been going public thinking that would expose me to more of the masses. To be fair, I have gotten tips/gifts in both settings, but now at least with the followers I can get more heads as well.

i seek further advice on the following:

- thoughts on filming weird/random locations like a quick bean flick video at work or the movies for higher content prices?

- cam activity: what do we do while we wait? I’ve read to do admin work, I’ve read that it’s OK to be on your phone, and I’ve even done yoga or read a book and just kept the computer going, I might get a comment here and there, but no additional spending or verbalized interest. I also know to record videos while I’m broadcasting and stuff and close that outward and while sometimes that might bring in traffic, it doesn’t contribute to any additional sales.

- store/ custom sales: I already have a decent amount of audio pictures and videos in my store and have advertised for it, but nobody has bought anything and it’s definitely intentionally discounted a bit to make that easier. Is it normal to be slow at first or is there other advertising I should be doing?

- texts: what is the best approach when you want to give consistent opportunities for people that are followers to turn into subscribers with starting conversations, but you don’t want to be annoying?

For context : I am about 2 to 3 weeks old on loyal fans and have earned $147 so far!


r/CamGirlProblems • • 2h ago

Help/Advice Prices for calls

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When I first started I used to charge $100 for calls with my face and $50 with no face. I reverted to doing all calls for $50 and custom 5-minute videos for $50. I am going back to charging $100 for calls with my face. What do yall think? What are yall’s prices?


r/CamGirlProblems • • 6h ago

Help/Advice Sex Work and Camming

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Does anyone else do in-person sex work while also working on cam sites? How do you manage both?
For context, I do in-person sex work, and I live in a small town where clients usually book pretty last-minute. It’s not like someone is going to text me at 9 AM to book an appointment for 8 PM that night, you know? Most of the time, clients reach out pretty spontaneously, so my schedule is really unpredictable.
I’d love to get into camming to make some extra money, but I’m not sure how to balance the two when I never know when I might get a booking. Has anyone been in a similar situation? How do you make it work? Any tips would be appreciated!


r/CamGirlProblems • • 9h ago

Discussions Myfreecams banned

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I’ve been with mfc for almost four years and they just randomly ban my account and don’t say why . This sucks so damn bad !


r/CamGirlProblems • • 9h ago

Help/Advice Zero New Model Boost on SC? 🥹

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Hello everyone! I’m a total newbie on SC — today was only my second day streaming there, and I honestly don't get what’s going on. I barely get 7–8 people max in my room, and you can see my earnings on the screenshots: 1st screenshot is Day 1 (a 3-hour stream), and the 2nd screenshot is after Day 2 (+4 more hours of streaming).

When I first started, I was given 100 StripScore after completing my profile, and it hasn't really grown since then.

During my streams, there are times when an entire hour goes by without anyone tipping — or worse, literally NO ONE enters my room for a whole hour.

I have a good camera, good lighting, and a stable internet connection. I had full glam makeup, a sexy outfit, and my room setup looked neat and presentable. I don't do cam shows in public chat and I don't have a Lovense toy yet, but is it really normal for things to be this slow for a beginner?

Out of pure desperation, I started multistreaming on SC and BC. I'm a newbie on BC too, but look at my CamScore (in the collage). Sure, I only made $6, but I only streamed there for 2 hours — and I spent those 2 hours trying to figure out how their site works. I made so many mistakes, like accidentally turning off the stream a few times, and then sitting on pause for half an hour without even realizing it. So at least there are obvious reasons for the low earnings there, since I hadn't planned on starting multistreaming so early and didn't have time to study the platform properly. But even with all that chaos, there was constant activity in the room, small tips coming in, and users ordering items from my tip menu...

Could you share what your StripScore was on SC when you were a beginner? Are these stats normal? Compared to BC , it feels like SC isn't giving me any newcomer traffic at all


r/CamGirlProblems • • 10h ago

Help/Advice Unsure of doing collabs

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I’ve been working alone for five years, recently I’ve been considering doing collabs with verified creators with a large audience and previous collabs but just to offer something new and grow my following. So many people say that it’s helpful and at the same time I hear that it’s not essential. I don’t just work alone but I don’t have anyone that I can let them know who I’ll be seeing for safety purposes, so I overthink a lot about the danger factor. For example, I talked to someone that offered to pay half flight to record on his studio, I was having the idea of filming where I’ll be staying not on anyone’s place, or anyone from where I live either so traveling would be part of it. I don’t have any plans yet until I figure out if this is something for me or if I should keep working alone. I do like the idea, I just don’t know how to stay safe without having anyone’s support in case something goes wrong. My family is anti SW and they won’t have anything to do with it.


r/CamGirlProblems • • 11h ago

Discussions Don’t even bother with Skyprivate! NSFW

6 Upvotes

Skyprivate has become the most arbitrary and ridiculous site I’ve ever encountered, and I’ve been doing this for over 10 years. They don’t just close your account without any prior notice or evidence; they also issue warnings and deduct your earnings without warning. They claim you can appeal, but even if you have proof, they respond so late that the appeal window closes, leaving you with no recourse. Personally, I poured a huge amount of effort into this site at the cost of my own mental health, dealing with countless scammers and men requesting prohibited acts. And yet, the "top" models on Skyprivate are allowed to perform these very acts; those who have been there for years and hold "top" status can do practically anything without ever being reprimanded, simply because they are the site’s primary cash cows. The traffic is absolute garbage now, and you never know if the person messaging you is actually an affiliate. You might finish a show only to have a large chunk of your earnings taken away, because surprise! it turns out it was an affiliate all along. There is no security for models, not even for those who work honestly, follow the rules, and maintain a professional approach. They still deduct money without notice, issue unfair warnings, and then wash their hands of the whole situation via chat to avoid having to answer to you. I spent the last two years building my brand, my reputation, and my image on this platform, only to realize that they couldn’t care less about what you contribute. They will always shield their pedophilic or mentally unstable clients rather than ensure the safety of their models. So, if you were thinking about joining Skyprivate.... PLEASE, spare yourself the headache and don’t do it. Skyprivate is no longer a good place to work, and at any given moment... They’re simply going to delete your account and keep your money (it hasn’t happened to me yet, but I’m already expecting it).


r/CamGirlProblems • • 1d ago

Discussions I accidentally sent client notes to the client!

67 Upvotes

I had an annoying repeat caller on Niteflirt who pops back up every now and then under different user names. I usually keep him for a few calls before he gets too annoying which is when I block him but he always comes back with new accounts.

Tonight I got a call from his newest account. The call was good, made $100 off him. After hanging up I added this note: "It's THAT guy again! Omfg."
But instead of putting it in the notes section I sent it as a message!! I was distracted and tired and not used to the new interface. Oops lol

I just said "Wrong chat sorry" and I'm hoping he buys it.


r/CamGirlProblems • • 7h ago

Help/Advice Advice for lovense toy for CB

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Hey everyone,

I just got a Spinel on Lovense, and I use CB. Now I've only really had toys that I can only control but I was looking to use my Spinel and have my clients have a timed code and such but I have never done this kinda thing before, it been mainly me just using my toys instead of others controlling my toys for me.

Any advice on how much I should charge, how to give clients control and anything else I dont know to ask but you may know 😅


r/CamGirlProblems • • 3h ago

Help/Advice a letter to my adult sons. love Mom

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r/CamGirlProblems • • 4h ago

Discussions Poll for fellow chubby/BBW token site streamers

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If you multi-stream or have tried multiple sites and are chubby or BBW, what site has been most profitable? I don’t multi-stream because CB has always been really good for me. However I’m considering adding another site, just to fully capitalize my time!

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Chaturbate
Stripchat
MyFreeCams
CamSoda
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