For context, I am an adult diagnosed autistic ADHD as well as an SA survivor, I used to be a community council member of the order many years ago during COVID, due to some personal issues and some drama amongst the council members I decided to separate for awhile and just focus on myself, flash to current year, I try to rejoin the community, missing the joy of hitting people with sabers to find myself immediately banned for no reason, zero warning, zero communication just gone. I have never been banned or gotten in trouble with that community before, so apparently this "welcoming" community actually only welcomed certain individuals and will bully and ban anyone they decide they don't like.
Don't get me wrong, I am absolutely welcoming of criticism of my behavior if I did do something wrong, but like I said, I'm super autistic so unless someone tells me I did something wrong I will not figure it out on my own, not trying to use autism as an excuse just as a sorta context to how difficult it is to fit in with others around me. It also doesn't help that I am only a recent diagnosis so I have been working hard to figure out my life and working with a therapist who specializes with my type of autism ADHD.
For added context the drama was related to a female member of the council throwing around proven false accusations of harassment to several male members causing a few to quit, me included, from my personal experience being SA'd I decided I didn't feel comfortable in a community that allows and fosters that kind of behavior. She also was known to be very abusive to people close to her and was extremely narcissistic. You only get my word on that but it was my personal experience.
Just seems strange to claim that you're extremely welcoming but then immediately bully and ban people without any context or information, pretty shallow if you ask me.
Edit: their "leadership" has still failed to make any official statements, the commenter in chat claiming to be an officer I do not recognize as older leadership so I assume probably rage bait. Horid club that allows abusers to gain power and manipulate others into isolation.