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r/Adulting • u/murano0 • 13h ago
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Idk, I think realizing that those things weren't critical to me was a real turning point.
I'm not interested in what my second cousin's dog did, so I don't need to interact with the people who can only talk about stuff like that.
I don't enjoy noisy places with flashing lights, so I don't need to interact with the people who only enjoy going to bars and shows.
I can be happy doing my own thing, or finding the few people that I vibe with. It's not a personal, moral failing to enjoy being alone.
2 u/Kind_Inside931 5h ago Agreed! I’ve learned how to be comfortable being by myself most of the time. It’s really nice to just be able to be alone and not have someone constantly checking on you all the time.
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Agreed! I’ve learned how to be comfortable being by myself most of the time. It’s really nice to just be able to be alone and not have someone constantly checking on you all the time.
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u/bobombpom 6h ago
Idk, I think realizing that those things weren't critical to me was a real turning point.
I'm not interested in what my second cousin's dog did, so I don't need to interact with the people who can only talk about stuff like that.
I don't enjoy noisy places with flashing lights, so I don't need to interact with the people who only enjoy going to bars and shows.
I can be happy doing my own thing, or finding the few people that I vibe with. It's not a personal, moral failing to enjoy being alone.