r/Adulting • • 13h ago

so guys ?

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u/Dandy_Guy7 13h ago

If you have even the slightest sense that you're being manipulated or taken advantage of get out and run. Don't wait around for things to get better because they won't.

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u/richtoferfn 7h ago

Man my situation is fucked though. I don't have anywhere to run too. It's like I'm on a sinking boat in the middle of the ocean, and I'm not a good swimmer

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u/Dandy_Guy7 7h ago

Hey I've been there man. Hard as it is to believe, it's easier to go to where things are better than to stay where you are while things keep getting worse. Do some research on where you can get to and just take a leap of faith

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u/GuessLow7218 5h ago

there is always somewhere to go. it really depends on your comfort level. Sometimes you need to take a leap and start a new in a new

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u/AlphaCrimz 2h ago

Kinda hard when you have a newborn and want to see her as much as possible

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u/Tommysrx 57m ago

Been there bro . It obviously depends on your situation whether or not you can tough it out but two happy homes is better than one miserable one for your child.

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u/DontMissIfYouSwing 2h ago

If you're going through Hell, keep going.

  • Winston Churchill