r/Adulting • • 13h ago

so guys ?

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u/Equivalent-Dig7259 13h ago

Be nice to people, even those that disrespected you. Kindness comes first.

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u/itsirk09 11h ago

Nice to people who disrespect you? Worst advice ever, good way to ending up being a doormat.

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u/brekksplut 10h ago

You can be kind and still set boundaries. Being kind is not the same as being a pushover.

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u/Greetings_Program 6h ago

Also don't mistake kindness for weakness.