r/Adulting • • 13h ago

so guys ?

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u/Dandy_Guy7 13h ago

If you have even the slightest sense that you're being manipulated or taken advantage of get out and run. Don't wait around for things to get better because they won't.

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u/scratchie29 11h ago

I’m not a guy but the biggest lesson I’ve learned in my adult life is that time is the most precious resource! When you enter a scenario it’s better to say no it not for me or it’s not worthwhile or won’t work a waste of time the longer you stay harder to get out ! Many people have so many regrets because time is something we can’t really control ! I used to lie to myself saying a person or situation is worth it but it’s not and because you’ve been there for long harder to get out why people can stay in situations for a long time!