r/Adulting • • 13h ago

so guys ?

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u/Hosh_Tikoloshe 11h ago

People have asked me how I got to where I am. I have gone from the bottom and I have reach a fairly senior level because I am constantly asking myself what do I need to learn or change to be better than I was yesterday. When I was 20 I managed to land a steady job at a large company as an apprentice. I foolishly trusted and thought that they would have development plans for us. I realised in my early 20's that the 'performance review' were just that, a performance for HR. No one else was going to push me to be better, it was all on me. Since then I have actively worked on my own development. I have completed 2 degrees and am working on my third, not because anyone told me to, I wanted to. I took short courses on professional writing, excel, communication, finance etc. because those were areas where I recognized my own short comings to my own metrics and acted to correct those. Many people are waiting for someone else to tell them what they need to change or develop. Many people are waiting for someone else to identify growth opportunities. Too many people hand control of their future and happiness to someone else.

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u/Ralph-Genovese 9h ago

How did you think to ask yourself that question? Are you a reader?

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u/Hosh_Tikoloshe 1h ago

It's called reflective practice. I have a method that works for me.