r/Adulting • • 13h ago

so guys ?

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u/Dandy_Guy7 13h ago

If you have even the slightest sense that you're being manipulated or taken advantage of get out and run. Don't wait around for things to get better because they won't.

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u/Gelby4 12h ago

Sometimes it takes a while to realize, and then you feel stuck.

But it's always worth saving your mental/emotional health

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u/Jones127 4h ago

That’s the hard part. Recognizing you’re in that situation, and then leaving it because you say to yourself “I’ve dealt with it for months/years, why can’t I just continue to deal with it now?” Better the Devil you know, than the one you don’t and all that.