Hot women are fun to date at first, but if all she's bringing to the table is looks, then after a while you get used to it and you forget why you wanted them in the first place.
Guys who treat landing a very attractive woman as their primary goal are basically setting themselves up for disappointment.
I dated a gorgeous woman in my early 20s who was also a sweet and kind person. Except she hated learning. Anything even slightly educational was a hard no from her. No museums, no watching the news, no talking about current events, or history, or really anything other than gossip, fashion and partying. She bragged about not having read a book since middle school because in high school she was popular and people let her cheat off them. If I used bigger words she wouldn't ask me what it meant, she would ask me to "tone it down for the slow kid."
At the time I was studying for a journalism degree and I've always been a big history nerd.
To quote Tom Petty, "They had one thing in common, they were good in bed"
Despite her being ridiculously good looking we only lasted about a month before I had to break it off.
I just couldn't be with someone who I couldn't talk to about things I felt were important.
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u/Sea2Chi 13h ago edited 12h ago
Hot women are fun to date at first, but if all she's bringing to the table is looks, then after a while you get used to it and you forget why you wanted them in the first place.
Guys who treat landing a very attractive woman as their primary goal are basically setting themselves up for disappointment.
I dated a gorgeous woman in my early 20s who was also a sweet and kind person. Except she hated learning. Anything even slightly educational was a hard no from her. No museums, no watching the news, no talking about current events, or history, or really anything other than gossip, fashion and partying. She bragged about not having read a book since middle school because in high school she was popular and people let her cheat off them. If I used bigger words she wouldn't ask me what it meant, she would ask me to "tone it down for the slow kid."
At the time I was studying for a journalism degree and I've always been a big history nerd.
To quote Tom Petty, "They had one thing in common, they were good in bed"
Despite her being ridiculously good looking we only lasted about a month before I had to break it off.
I just couldn't be with someone who I couldn't talk to about things I felt were important.
Looks are great, but there has to be more there.