I genuinely don't know how i got into this situation, i feel like a big prank is being played on me right now but unfortunately this is genuinely my real life.
Last year, I was planning on applying to Cambridge for a course that required an entrance exam. I was aware of this and far in advance so i booked it months before and i remember paying for it and then picking a place to do my exam along with getting a confirmation that i had booked a center in a website. However i neglected to check my email which for whatever reason never got the confirmation email for the test center. Infact, somehow someway, i had never actually booked my exam to begin with despite it being recorded then that i had paid for it. I then spent a month revising for the exam just to find out a few days before (after the final deadline to book a center) that i somehow didn't have anywhere booked. This led to 5 days of being stringed along by pearson edexcel before having them tell me on the day of my exam that they couldn't do anything to help me anyways meaning i couldn't apply to Cambridge that year. This was heartbreaking but i kept it stepping.
I ended up applying to imperial and needing 3A* in order to get in, which i unfortunately narrowly missed (for separate also stupid reasons) leaving me with A*A*A as my final grades. Instead of going to my third choice uni, i realised that i could apply for Cambridge and Imperial (given i take an extra subject) again so i took a gap year and restarted the application process.
I made sure not to repeat my mistake with my entrance exam and my application went smoothly so after October 15th i just decided to stop thinking about it. I saw a bunch of emails telling me that my application had been received so i didn't bother reading them and just went about life normally.
That was until yesterday afternoon at like 8pm when i saw a final warning email from the College i applied to, reminding me to do something called a MyCambridge application (like a 10 minute form where you have to give some basic information) otherwise my application would not be processed. I did it as soon as i could, and in the process found out that it was due at 6pm that day. I also found out the reason why I didnt know anything about this was because Outlook for some reason decided to put the informational email from the university along with all subsequent reminders into my junk which, combined with the fact that im applying by myself and first in my family to even apply for uni let alone Cambridge, meant that i litterally had no way to know about the requirement until it was literally too late (outside of if i had gotten lucky and i was at home to read the final warning email earlier). I emailed the college and the university explaining my situation but the university told me to talk to the college and the college straight up told me that since i sent it late then they arent considering my application and that they were going to mark me as rejected (their response was super robotic and they didn't mention anything i said so i doubt they even read my email anyway). I might send one last hail mary email but i doubt it'll change anything
Im genuinely so gutted that i just had to get this off my chest. I genuinely cant believe i managed to whiff it three times over the course of one year. Like, not saying id do it, but im starting to understand why people SH, im just so mad at myself for not being that little bit more proactive or just reading my mail in the morning or anything. Maybe this is a punishment from God for not diligent in my prayer enough idek. It just stings extra too because of how bad i genuinely wanted to go to the university, so much so that i took a whole gap year just to not even be rejected for not being good enough but rather over a minor ten minute form that Microsoft decided to hide from me. If i don't end up getting Imperial i might just have a semitruck turn me into a stain on the pavement who knows.
TLDR;
always check your mail, especially your junk
edit:
i just realise i shouldve just lied and said i had a power outage fuck man why was i raised to be honest
edit edit:
i probably would have had to provide evidence anyways. Only thing that couldve changed is microsoft not putting the emails in junk or if i randomly checked my email in the morning. long story short theres nothing i could have done