hi y'all! i'm a 21 y/o trans guy who has wanted nipple piercings for a bit now. i've been on T for almost three years and my doctor has brought up getting me a referral for top surgery a few times, which is something i've wanted since before i even realized i was trans (as i'm sure many can relate lol) but didn't have the financial means to seriously pursue until recently.
at this point in my transition, though, i'm very lucky to not feel a ton of dysphoria around my body itself in my day-to-day, and have gotten really into body mods and style as a means of expressing myself instead of just going for "looking like a guy" which has proven way more beneficial for my mental health and self-image – again, i'm sure some of you can relate.
i've always thought i would just get top surgery and see what i had to work with post-op, but now that i'm not as disgusted by my body i've been looking at different possible routes/solutions that might let me have the mods AND the body i want. i know there are different types of top surgery that leave patients with different degrees of sensation/structure. i'm also a bigger guy and honestly might be happy with a radical reduction depending on the results – i already know i don't want a 100% flat chest for that reason so it might even be a better option. obviously these are all things i'd talk about with my doctor and any surgeons i look into, but first i wanted to see if anyone has any experiences that could help me get a better idea of what to ask about and what my options are. to be clear, i do want top surgery, but while i'm semi-comfortable living in the body i have i want to explore my options.
specifically, here's what i'm wondering about:
1. experiences with getting nipples pierced post-op, regardless of surgery type
2. experiences with getting top surgery with nipples already pierced
sorry about the essay, i'm horrendous at being concise. also i'm not AI i just like dashes.
tldr: looking to hear about experiences getting top surgery with nipple piercings, or of piercing them post-op.