r/paddedagere • • Sep 05 '26

Mod post r/paddedagere is back!! (PLEASE READ)

42 Upvotes

Hello everyone,

After much delay, we’re happy to announce that the sub is finally back open 🎉 Thank you for your patience!

With this reopening, we’d also like to announce some new changes that will not only improve safety and the overall user experience here, but also further improve the efficiency of our moderation going forward:

First, we now have automated features! One of these features is the app Hive Protect: This app will aid greatly in our enforcement of rule #2 by automatically removing and banning users whose accounts are linked to diaper kink/fetish subs, making our removal of these accounts quicker and more efficient than ever! In addition, we’ve set up an automod that will automatically remove posts/comments if certain words or phrases are triggered, mostly having to do with content pertaining to Rule #4 (which is one of our most frequently broken rules- more on that next).

The 2nd app that we’ve added is Read the Rules: This app will ensure that all users are familiar with and understand the rules of the sub before participating. To date, only 170 out of our 3k users have upvoted the pinned Rules post to acknowledge that they’ve read and understood them, and this definitely shows with the frequency at which certain rules are broken (rules #2 and #4 are our most broken ones). To remedy this, all users must now submit an acknowledgement of the rules before participating, even if you’ve posted here before. To submit an acknowledgment, go to our home page, click the 3 dots to the right and find Read the Rules, manually check each rule, and press Submit. If you attempt to post or comment without doing this, it will be automatically removed. This acknowledgement only has to be submitted once (unless you get banned).

Lastly, another change we’ve made pertains to Rule #9: From this point on, Rule #9 is now a zero tolerance rule- breaking it will now result in a permanent ban for the adult user, as well as a potential report to Reddit admin and Cybertipline if needed. We’re making this change due to the fact that private messages/DMs are the most common vector for adults to groom minors, and the punishment for even attempting to do so should match its seriousness. Minors who initiate DMs with adult users will still be reprimanded with a temporary ban and will need to score a 100 on the r/paddedagere Online Safety Quiz to get unbanned. If the behavior continues, this will escalate into a 7-day ban and eventually a permaban. If you see anyone breaking this rule or someone comes into your DMs breaking this rule, please report them to us!

So, TL;DR:

  • We’ve now implemented automated features in the form of Hive Protect, Read the Rules, and automod to make our moderation more efficient. Hive Protect will automatically ban rule #2 violators, Read the Rules will require all users to submit an acknowledgment of the rules before participating (even if you’ve posted here before, you’ll still need to submit one- you’ll only have to do it once!), and an automod has been set up to detect and take down rule #4 violations.
  • Rule #9 is now a zero tolerance rule. Adult users who break this rule will now be permanently banned and, depending on severity, be reported to Reddit admin and Cybertipline. Minors who initiate DMs with adult users will still be temporarily banned until they score a 100 on the r/paddedagere Online Safety Quiz. If the behavior continues, this will still escalate into a 7-day ban and eventually a permaban.

We hope that these new changes will make our community better and safer than ever before! Automated features are still a bit new to us, so if anything goes wrong or a post of yours mistakenly gets flagged and removed, please let us know via modmail so we can get it fixed ASAP- despite the new automations helping us out, our moderation is still primarily human!

 - Mod Maddie 💙


r/paddedagere • • May 10 '22

Mod post Rules (Read before posting)

188 Upvotes

Please read this ENTIRE post before posting or commenting here! All users MUST submit an acknowledgement of the rules before participating.


The rules for this sub are as follows:

1. No NSFW/Kink content or accounts

Only non-sexual non-kink content from non-sexual non-kink accounts may be posted here. Do not interact with this sub (this includes posting and commenting) if your account has ties to any NSFW or kink subs. We understand that you may participate in NSFW activities outside of your regression, but to further maintain that degree of separation here, we recommend you make a new, purely SFW non-kink account to interact with this sub if you are an active participant in NSFW/Kink subs (Yes, r/littlespace is included in this).

Violators will be given a warning, repeat offenders will be permanently banned.

2. No ABDLs, ageplayers, or ddlg/cgl littles

We’re dead serious about this one. Even if done nonsexually, ABDL, ageplay, and ddlg/cgl are all kinks and as such, are NSFW and do not belong in agere spaces. Do not interact with this sub if you participate in any of these communities. Like stated before, we understand that you may participate in these separately from your regression, but you will need to make a new, purely non-kink account to interact with this sub if you are an active participant in any kink subs.

Violators will be permanently banned on sight.

3. Keep images tasteful

This means no crotch-shots, used (soiled) diapers, or provocative poses. This is not an ABDL sub, so don't treat it like one. Images of diapers being worn or people wearing diapers are NOT permitted and will be removed on sight (this does not apply to drawings, as long as they fit the aforementioned criteria). This is to prevent the potential for kinkposting that plagued r/diaperedagere. Images of unworn diapers, diapers that are still in the packaging, or diapers on stuffed animals/dolls are OK for all users to post.

Violators will be given a warning, repeat offenders will receive a 7-day ban.

4. Minors, don’t reveal personal info

Don’t reveal personal info like your real name, exact age, city, etc. if you’re under 18. This is internet safety 101. If your age or location is somehow relevant to your post or comment, saying something like “I’m a minor" and "I live in the U.S.” is enough. If we deem your post or comment to have too much personal information, it will be removed.

5. Don’t be rude or creepy

The age-old saying applies here: “If you have nothing nice to say, then don’t say anything at all”. Shaming people for their regression, race, age, gender, etc. or acting creepy towards them/sexualizing them will not be tolerated and will get you swiftly banned.

6. Stay on topic

Whether you’re asking for advice, sharing a meme, or bragging about what you just bought, posts have to be related to diapers (or pull-ups) in some way, shape, or form. Unrelated posts will be removed. If you want to discuss other agere topics, go to either r/SafeAgeRegression or r/ageregressers.

7. No selling or trading

This sub is not a marketplace. Linking to shops that sell diapers is OK, but if you have diapers to sell or trade, please list them on Ebay, Depop, Mercari, etc. instead of here directly. Likewise, if you own a shop that sells diapers, please keep advertising and self-promo to a minimum.

8. No matchmaking

This sub is not here to help you find a cg or a regressor of your own, so don’t even ask. Looking for caregivers online is incredibly unsafe, especially for minors. Because of this, matchmaking posts are not allowed and will immediately be taken down.

9. No DMs between adults and minors

DMs/private chats between minor and adult users are strictly prohibited. To put it simply: Adults, do not DM minors. Minors, do not DM adults. Adults found to be DMing minors, asking to DM with minors, or luring minors into off-platform messaging will be permanently banned and reported to Reddit admin and Cybertipline if needed. Minors who initiate DMs with adult users will be temporarily banned until they score a 100 on the r/paddedagere Online Safety Quiz (linked in the Resources post). If the behavior continues, it will escalate into a 7-day ban and eventually a permaban.


To acknowledge that you've read these rules, go to our home page, click the 3 dots to the right and find “Read the Rules”, manually check each rule, and press submit. This acknowledgement only has to be submitted once.

Follow these rules and let's make this sub a safe, fun, and friendly space for age regressors and their caregivers to learn about and discuss diapers in agere 😊

Signed,

Mod Maddie 💙


r/paddedagere • • 1d ago

Advice (Seeking) are there any diapers tht are quiet?

8 Upvotes

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all the ones i can find at the store near me tht fit me, are like..kinda obvs and not loud loud but i swear my foster parents can tell but it also could be in my head. rn i only wear them at home not at school anymore


r/paddedagere • • 4d ago

Show and Tell Tykables case(part 2)

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29 Upvotes

Here's the rest of my case of eight.

As you can see they are all XL.

As I read in another subreddit that a higher rise for diapers like these but actually create a different sense of sensory comfort I would usually order size large instead of an XL but the higher rise on these I hope will add an extra layer of security


r/paddedagere • • 4d ago

Show and Tell Tykables case(part 1)

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21 Upvotes

Earlier this week i ordered a case of 8 bags of diapers from tykables.

They just got here today, and here they are

They are one bag of each: Str8up Blue, Str8up Black, Animooz, Soggers, Stompers, Unicorns, and Overnights.


r/paddedagere • • 5d ago

Review Rant about Diapers

13 Upvotes

🧷Thoughts on padding: (CW: clean diapers, mention of ABDL brands)
I’m gonna preface by saying I do not mess nor wet. I hope I can talk honestly about diapers here. I’ve found a lot of comfort in them as a \*sensory item\*. They are sooo very nice to touch, crinkle, and just look at! A lot of ABDL have the cutest designs that really nail childhood nostalgia. I wish there were more Agere or explicitly SFW brands. If I do wear a diaper I can only do it in short bursts. They don’t feel designed for curvy, afab bodies bc there is so much extra space in the crotch but tight on my thighs and butt. Especially the Kiddo Premium Nights. For that reason I’m probably not going to buy anymore aside from the two sample packs I have. But I have discovered training pants and they also seem up my alley. And more practical more going to the potty like a big kid !

You might have read this already, sorry. My original got post bc I guess intros aren’t allowed here? Which feels silly bc this is literally the only Agere subreddit where you are allowed to freely talk about diapers. Thank you for coming to my TedTalk! My full intro is on r/SFWlittles or my own page.


r/paddedagere • • 6d ago

Advice (Seeking) I need help

14 Upvotes

So I stopped regressing about a year ago and during that time when I was regressed I was completely diaper dependent due to the meds I was taking, since then I stopped taking those meds roughly a year ago and got my bladder control back, however over the last 2 weeks I have started having accidents again (I don't regress anymore)

I got checked by my GP and had a lot of tests done including an ultrasound but no one could find anything out of the usual.

Does anyone have any ideas as to what could be happening?


r/paddedagere • • 10d ago

Advice (Seeking) I have kind of an un common problem

11 Upvotes

I think my cat is imitating me ad since I have accidents on my bead she does to, I just found out today, I had tought that it was mi fault and that I wasn’t cleaning properly, turns out that yes, but because I didn’t know they ware more spills, does anyone have advice?? How do I stop her?


r/paddedagere • • 12d ago

All the new pull-ups that are 6t-7t or limited edition, with designs shown

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26 Upvotes

The angel & stich ones are limited edition

the first 2 are only available at walmart, idk about the others

did i miss any?


r/paddedagere • • 12d ago

Ich würde gerne Ageregressormit Windeln machen

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r/paddedagere • • 12d ago

Review Affordable pull-ups and diapers

17 Upvotes

Hi all I just recently saw someone ask for help with sizing for princess nightgowns and I made me think that I could help! With the little bit of knowledge I have about the sizing for things you can wear that have cute characters on them just in case it can help anyone. Btw I only know the sizing for my size which is xs in women’s first things first for pull ups size 5t-6t are good if you like more compression. 6t-7t fit comfortably. For diapers size 8 work. Btw I know that there are littlespace diapers meant for adults but they are really expensive for not that many also you have to get them online. The ones I want to help people with are the ones that you can get in bulk in the store and it’s cheaper. They also have recognizable characters on them. They tend to make me feel more little.
Also the goodnite pull-up brand has bigger sizes I think even up to XL. If anyone wants me to I can go into more detail about the specific brands in these sizes because they do have different feels.


r/paddedagere • • 16d ago

Show and Tell How to make tape extenders!

16 Upvotes

Get some baby nappies in the biggest size with stretchy tapes (pampers, fred and flo ) ect. Choose one to sacrifice and rip the tapes off at the base. When you use them, put the extenders on the velcro part of the nappy of choice's tapes and pad up as per usual! (Sorry for forgetting to read the rules(^ー^; ) )


r/paddedagere • • 18d ago

Show and Tell First order pt2

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44 Upvotes

I’m sorry I forgot the designs were the whole point! I’m sad I didn’t get The MegaMax but no repeats at least for the Pack Pals! The Premium Nights have a lovely feel.

Update: I’m surprised by how much I like the feeling of the plastic back. Also the sound of the adhesive tape is chef’s kiss sooo satisfying


r/paddedagere • • 18d ago

Show and Tell First NorthShore order ^^

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29 Upvotes

NorthShore if you’re listening bring back the pack pal shirts!! I didn’t know they were discontinued until my packages arrived

Edit: only MegaMax (dog character) is currently discontinued, you can still buy the other characters online


r/paddedagere • • 19d ago

Advice (Seeking) New to diapers

20 Upvotes

Hello! Like I said I’m new to diapers and looking for something over night. I have incontince issues and will wet… a lot. What are some brands that are actually worth it I’ve tried stuff like depends and they sucks.


r/paddedagere • • 24d ago

Show and Tell I finally received my first diapers :)

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40 Upvotes

It was these ones very happy 😊


r/paddedagere • • 24d ago

Advice (Seeking) Discreet packaging?

24 Upvotes

Hello.

I don't exactly ever use reddit, so I don't quite know how to word a post, but I will try my best.

My parter is an age regressor, he hes many items of little gear. This included disposable diapers- ones you can throw in the washing machine or hand wash in a sink/ bath tub. For his birthday, he specifically asked if he could get disposable ones. They have a different texture to his disposable ones and feel more realistic. I've been looking online for a few, but I need discreet packaging, and everywhere I've looked it's either not discreet enough, or is a 50/50 chance it won't be discreet.

I live with two other people who both have the next few weeks off, so even if the packaging came non-discreetly, there is no chance I could get it inside without either person noticing, and therefore, I definitely need it discreet.

He also specifically wants diapers that have a cute design on, rather than just "adult diapers" that may just be plain.

Are there any websites that will 100% be discreet? Are there any ways I can ask certain sellers?


r/paddedagere • • 27d ago

Advice (Seeking) Less thick diapers that are still cute?

14 Upvotes

I'm quite small and a lot of the cute diapers are very bulky, which I dont like. Its uncomfy. I fit into goodnites fine, but they leak easier. I would just get medical diapers, but I dont like how well medical they are. Reccomendations for diapers with less bulk, but still have cute prints?


r/paddedagere • • 27d ago

shame

19 Upvotes

I'm a bit incontinent and I know that a big part of the little community is to, how do you deal with the shame? I haven't had an accident this big in a while and I feel like I'm going backwards. Fortunately, it wasn't in public, i managed to get to my room but still


r/paddedagere • • 28d ago

Review Inspire+ from Rearz review

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31 Upvotes

These have to my new favorite. Plain design, very minimalist. I have tried them with and without booster pads. They already hold a lot without booster pads but they sell booster pads if you ever want a little more protection. So good luck getting these to leak! They are very comfortable and size-inclusive. I will say, they are plastic-backed. I know some people don't like that but I don't mind it, personally.

I would rate these a 10/10, full stop.


r/paddedagere • • 29d ago

Advice (Seeking) Pull up alternatives

10 Upvotes

Hey so I’m new to regression and the main way this whole thing started is I always felt a draw to Pull-ups! So now I’m finally taking it seriously! The only problem is I’m a minor my mom doesn’t know and nobody knows it’s just me. I do have my own source of income but obviously I can’t drive yet, nobody knows, oh and nobody knows. I can’t just walk in with a pack of like goodnites. So I’m looking for a way to get the feel of pull-ups without getting actually pull-ups. If you have any ways to do that please let me know! And any advice on how to navigate this secretly would be amazing! I’m going to tell my mom tomorrow in hopes she’ll understand and support me but in the event she doesn’t I’m planning ahead. Any advice or support is happily taken


r/paddedagere • • 29d ago

Advice (Seeking) Tykables Sizing

13 Upvotes

Hi, guys. I wear Tykables size M diapers(specifically: Animooz, Unicorns, Tinimals, and Step-ins) for stress-ic and occasional bedwetting outside of my age regression, but their size M caps out at a 36" hips. I fit, but, i usually have to tape a little looser than from other brands to not leave marks on my skin.

Should I size up next order, or at least get a sample of size L in whatever design i have?

For reference, I fit fine in other brands' size M, they have a little more hip wiggle room(a 38-40" upper limit).


r/paddedagere • • Sep 19 '26

Advice (Seeking) Pull ups?

23 Upvotes

Hii I’ve been thinking about getting pull ups because I regress to toodler ages mostly 1 and 2 years old. I honestly don’t know where to get them thought sooo any advice on where to buy them?


r/paddedagere • • Sep 18 '26

Show and Tell I bought my dream diaps >-<

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hiii this is my first post on this subreddit :3 I recently bought some little kings diapers and im soooo excited. They're so cute. They came in yesterday and came with some candy and stickers. I think my next purchase is gonna be the AlphagatorZ!! I love this design its so baby to me and its so cute ughhh sorry I just really wanted to show these off :3


r/paddedagere • • Sep 14 '26

Advice (Seeking) Seeking advice/tips for college (repost)

18 Upvotes

Hi everyone! I’m so glad this server is back as I am looking for some advice.
I am now currently a freshman in college and I have been doing specifically padded agere for a couple months now as I think it feels right. I bought some diapers months ago as I don’t use them a lot as well as other agere gear. However and unfortunately, I had to hide them as my parents don’t know I agere and I don’t know how to explain it so i hid the stuff in a box and never grabbed it as I didn’t want my parents asking questions.
I have been thinking and now realizing it for a while that the only gear I technically have is 2 of my 3 pacis and some of my stuffies but idk what to do. I live in the dorms and for a long time I have been thinking on how I could address this to my roommate but idk. I want to go out and buy more but the primary issue is affordability. The initial diapers I bought were cheap as I bought them online from someone brand new. However, the physical store fronts charge more and yet I’m afraid of buying stuff online as the desk that hold our packages on campus looks at them I think for safety. Lastly, I’m afraid of going back during winter break and grabbing the box as I don’t know how I would get it past my family.
Any tips on wearing diapers in college? Or at least how to “discretely” order or buy them?
Anything helps. Thank you. Have a wonderful day/night!❤️❤️