Hi. New to this sub and wanted to introduce myself and my situation… possibly get some advice?!? Here it goes:
I’m physically disabled (CRPS) and have lived with my parents since the onset back in 2015.
I cannot cook, as I have limited function of my hands due to the disability. My parents have to cut everything into bite-size pieces for me.
Mom has borderline personality disorder.
Dad was recently diagnosed with Alzheimer’s. He was my caregiver, now I’m his.
I have attempted on NUMEROUS occasions over the past few years to adapt to different types of diets (WW, Noom, Dietician, FodMap, the list goes on). Since my mom is the primary cook (no one is allowed in her kitchen) she’s hops on the bandwagon for a few weeks, then she starts in with her cravings and next thing I know she’s making changes to the recipes I plan. Plus, she’s getting older and cooking is very difficult for her. So, I lean heavily on heat and eat prepared foods from Hy-Vee (our local grocery store).
My doctors have encouraged the Mediterranean Diet to help me with my inflammation and since his diagnosis my dad’s doctors are encouraging it to help with his heart and brain health.
Challenge is how to make our meals practically cook/preparation-free without the added expenses of a personal chef and/or mail order. As I’m assuming most of you can relate, we are on fixed benefits so not a lot of wiggle room on where we can get our foods without causing a financial deficit.
Am I just screwed?!?
Thanks for reading to the end and hope you have a blessed and joyful day.