Just bought my first truly masc shirt as I start collecting some clothes that help reflect my fluidity! It's a long sleeved collared shirt with a fun pattern I like a lot, and it was used and very affordable. I'm going to keep an eye out for free options at local nonprofits as well, so I don't have to spend a lot of money I don't have for clothes. But this one was a good choice that I can already tell will be giving me gender euphoria!

Bad news is i tried a wig and i do not look good in long hair
good news is i found a bow headband and i really like wearing it

Hi I’m Fello and I just need some guidance.
I genuinely don’t know what I’m feeling and would like other genderfluid’s opinion!
I Want To Be A Boy.
I don’t feel like one.
I do not know if this is genderfluid (I identify as genderfluid and have for the past year) autism (I have been diagnosed) or dysphoria.
On every social media platform my name has been Fello, or dude or something else leaning towards male, since as long as I can remember. I have memories wanting to be perceived as “male” kinda. Such as: wanting to be a king never a queen(afab). and barely any memories wanting to be perceived as “female”. When I was younger I just identified as me. I was (name). And that was it. I never felt uncomfortable being she/her, and never wanted to change. I was just a girl. A girl who preferred being a king. Now though. I still feel a girl half the time and a boy half the time. I get euphoric when I feel “female” because my body already is. And I feel dysphoric when feeling “male” because my body ain’t. But here’s my question. All of what I’ve just said is genderfluid. Except… I never want to be female. I dread feeling like one. I’d happily become a boy. I’d flick that lever any day. Do I still feel female though… yes. And that’s my issue is this dysphoria, autism(not understanding feelings properly Wich I do struggle with) or genderfluid/something else I havnt heard of. Also I do not feel nonbinary.
Everyone always ses your born with gender. You don’t get to choose. But I’d choose to feel fully male any day even though I sometimes do truly feel female and was afab.
I’m going through a rough time mentally and just want to get my gender straight.

Yes I will reply to comments and answer questions!

As the title says, im worried. I have a girl voice I’ve been training for a little over a month with a vocal coach and at first I thought it was good but then I heard it back once and I think it sounds so icky and I just couldn’t even. I want to start introducing myself in my girl voice to people, but I’m worried I’ll sound stupid.

For reference, to get my voice to a ‘girl voice’, I:

Raise my larynx, pitch up my voice, and talk with a slight smile to make the vowels lightened.

Any tips?

Thanks!

Eden

Clothing and makeup are fundamental forms of self-expression, identity, and personal freedom. When a boy or man chooses to wear clothing or makeup traditionally categorized as "feminine," it matters deeply to them for several distinct personal, psychological, and social reasons:

1. Authentic Self-Expression & Autonomy

Every individual has a unique sense of style, aesthetic taste, and personality.

* Personal Style Beyond Labels: Fabric, colors, patterns, and cosmetics are inherently neutral; culture assigns them gender labels. Choosing to wear what feels right allows a person to express their creativity and aesthetic preferences without being constrained by societal norms.

* Autonomy over One's Body: Having control over how one presents oneself to the world is a basic aspect of personal liberty and individual agency.

1. Mental Health & Well-Being

Living authentically has a direct impact on emotional and psychological health:

* Reducing Internal Conflict: Hiding one’s true preferences to conform to outside expectations can cause anxiety, stress, or a sense of living a double life. Embracing personal choices fosters inner peace.

* Boosting Confidence and Self-Esteem: Wearing clothes that make someone feel comfortable, attractive, or confident positively influences how they navigate their daily life and interactions.

1. Comfort and Functionality

Attire choices often come down to physical comfort and practicality:

* Comfort & Fit: Different clothing items offer different levels of physical comfort, cuts, and material feels.

* Cosmetics & Skincare: Makeup can be used for artistic expression, hiding blemishes, enhancing natural features, or simply enjoying the routine of grooming—benefits that apply regardless of gender.

1. Breaking Rigid Expectations

Throughout history and across different cultures, fashion rules for men and women have shifted dramatically (for example, high heels and makeup were historically worn by European male nobility).

* Choosing to ignore rigid gender expectations encourages broader acceptance of individuality.

* It sends a message that a person's worth, character, and identity are not defined by rigid adherence to traditional dress codes.

Summary

Ultimately, whether someone wears makeup, skirts, suits, or casual wear, it matters because personal identity and comfort belong to the individual. Being able to present oneself authentically without fear of judgment allows people to live happier, more fulfilled lives.

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZN8AgKygK/ (tik tok of me) HII i'm genderfluid and I knew it for many years but i've been scared to do anything about it, could you tell me what you think about my looks (as a girl and a boy) also how old do i look? i’m trying my best also sharing a link because i can’t add pics here ❗️