One day I'll figure out what to do after tying a pet up.

Edit: this caption was half joking, but seeing peoples advice is kind of cute ^_^

I started my gender self-reflection journey years ago and flipped flopped between masc and fem before settling on fem earlier this year. before that i wore binders, cut my hair, didn’t wear makeup, and involved myself into more “traditional male” hobbies.

but i didn’t want to restrict myself and i felt insecure in my femininity (because i never hated the concept of femininity to begin with) so i decided to wear dresses again, do makeup styles, and not flatten my chest. and because im not too sure about my gender identity i don’t give anyone grief for seeing me as a binary woman. i like to see gender as fluid. 

but i have people saying because i “have my tits out” or i am curvy which means i make no effort to “pass as nonbinary” whatever that means. 

my self image is very complicated and personal and i‘d rather not dive into my relationship with it online. but if you’re like me and have a big chest or curves: just know it doesn’t disqualify you from identifying as whatever feels right for you.

Respect yourself!!