About me

I’m childfree by choice. I don’t believe in having kids for the sake of having kids, and I think the partner you choose to settle down with has a profound impact on the quality of your life.

I’m a shy romantic at heart. I have about 12 tattoos. Foodie. Have my own place. I cry easily at dog-rescue videos.

I’ve lived in Germany, Taiwan and the UK. Neurospicy. I love art, history museums and Japanese stationery shops. Love a walking tour. Proud of my graphic novel collection.

I like listening to true crime podcasts and video essays dissecting shows like Madmen and Bojack. But I also like Rocky Horror, drum & bass, and reggaeton.

I speak four languages and am currently learning Spanish. I travel to feel like a local. I find it immensely interesting how different people see the world and how that shapes the lives they build.

I’m trying to be more present and appreciate life’s little joys. It would be lovely to share the quiet, ordinary moments with someone.

I also have a derpy pug who snores a lot and means the world to me.

About you

I would prefer if you’re 30–48, taller than me (I’m 5’2”), active-ish, and a non-smoker.

I’m drawn to intelligence, emotional maturity, excellent communication skills, financial stability, and a good sense of humour. I want someone I can grow alongside.

I value people who take responsibility for their choices, reflect on their mistakes, and focus on what they can change rather than blaming everyone else.

I do my best to hold myself to the same standard. I’ve learned that it’s easier to be calm, upfront and honest about emotional needs and find a way to compromise with your partner.

I’m open to an international connection if we’re both intentional about making it work. No strong ties to where I am now, except for my pug.

Ultimately, I’m looking for a friend I’m attracted to and can build an interesting, stable life with.

Hope you’re out there somewhere.

Wanted to give this a try and hopefully meet someone I can build a real connection with. I’m 25, based in Germany and thought I'd start by sharing a little bit about myself. I'm 180 cm tall, with a muscular build, dark hair. My dress is usually just clean and casual, nothing flashy. Personality wise I'm easy going and reliable. My humor is sarcastic but I can sometimes be goofy. Grew up religious, left that behind, no issue if you didn’t.

Things I'm interested in: * Languages (fluent in German, English Russian and French, trying to learn Korean) * Favorite animals are birds and cats * Astrology (I'm a Taurus sun, Gemini moon, Scorpio rising) * Spirituality (mainly interested in Hinduism and Buddhism) / meditation and yoga * Watching movies and shows: horror, crime, thrillers, into kdrama as well * Gaming: Mainly playing single player games when I have free time * Reading: (rare, but when it happens it’s about science and philosophy) * Music (I like all kinds of music but I'm especially drawn pop and rnb) * Some interest in martial arts and gym

Looking for someone who actually wants to date, not just chat forever. Kindness, curiosity, and the ability to laugh at yourself go a long way. Prefer starting online, maybe calls later and meeting up if it feels right. Open to LDR if there’s a realistic chance of meeting.

Dealbreakers: * People who only want surface level chat * People who are only looking for friends * Being disrespectful * Wanting children

If you’re 18+, can handle an introvert with niche hobbies, and think we could be a good match, feel free to dm me, tell me something about yourself.

Hey everyone, after lurking for so long I decided to put myself out there. I’m 27 originally from Texas but moving do a semester in Poland in January then moving to Australia (because of this I’m primarily looking for someone in Aus/NZ or Europe).
I currently have a full time job and take classes. One thing that is very important to me is my faith, I’m an orthodox Christian and finding someone child free in that community is extremely hard.
If you’re any kind of Christian that’ll be amazing but ultimately I’m ok with you not having any faith at all I just ask that you respect and understand that I’m involved and help out a lot at church and to be ok with that.
As for me I’m a traveler, shopaholic, dog lover, metal head, history buff, art lover, and football fan (socccer)
Don’t want to write my whole life story on a post but if you’re Interested look forward to talking 😊

Hi! First time posting here. I am located in the USA, east coast. Looking to build something genuine. Someone nerdy, kind, and who enjoys some banter. Also would love a gym companion. Most importantly though, I would like my partner to have a passion of their own.

I like to believe i have good communication skills, am witty, and a good listener. For hobbies, I play the one piece tcg and often travel if I can to compete. I like volleyball, video games, and reading. Just finished the fourth wing series!

I will say that I am temporarily staying with family due to health issues they are experiencing. Then looking into buying a house. I own my own business that is slowly building itself up. I also love animals and often relate more to them.

As for politics, I am a liberal. Part of my job is fighting for individual rights so this is a passion of mine.

Feel free to ask any more questions as well! I like to consider myself an open book.

Hello, I'm James, and I’m hoping to meet someone I can build a meaningful connection with. I'm not necessarily looking to rush into a relationship. I'd much rather find a genuine friendship that naturally develops into something more. I believe the best connections are the ones where things feel comfortable, effortless, and mutual, where neither person has to force something that isn't there.

I'd describe myself as introverted, easygoing, and fairly intentional in how I approach life and the people in it. I try to be principled, mindful, and attentive, though I also have a pretty silly side once I'm comfortable with someone. I enjoy meaningful conversations, but I also appreciate being able to laugh about absolutely everything and nothing altogether.

I work overnight shifts, so my schedule can be a little wonky. Outside of work, I'm very much a homebody. I tend to enjoy my own space and quieter activities, but I'm certainly not opposed to getting out, traveling, trying new things, or making memories with someone. I think experiences become a way more meaningful when you have someone to share them with.

As far as interests go, I enjoy gaming, cooking, reading, and generally learning about whatever happens to catch my curiosity. I have a particular love for storytelling, whether that's through books, games, or conversations. I'm also fascinated by astronomy and biology and all the little things that make our world interesting. Lately, I've found myself increasingly drawn to psychology and sociology, particularly understanding people, how we think, and why we behave the way we do.

More than anything, I'd like to meet someone who genuinely enjoys getting to know another person. Someone who appreciates the process of building a connection rather than feeling like there's a checklist or timeline we need to follow. Communication and transparency are especially important to me. I believe being able to express ourselves openly, understand one another, and approach things with honesty goes a long way toward building something healthy and lasting.

I'm also someone who really enjoys the everyday aspects of companionship. The little conversations throughout the day, sharing something funny or interesting, spending time together doing an activity, or simply keeping each other company. I don't think every moment needs to be exciting or extraordinary. Sometimes, just being part of someone's ordinary day is meaningful in itself.

Ideally, I'd like to find a friendship where we genuinely enjoy each other's company, grow comfortable being ourselves, and see where that connection takes us. I'm looking for something that feels reciprocal, where we're both interested in learning about each other and making room for one another in our lives. I'm hoping to meet someone between 27 and 38. I'm located in Texas, but I'm open to long-distance connections with the right person.

You don't need to come up with some elaborate introduction. Tell me a little about yourself, something you're passionate about, or even something random you've been thinking about lately. I'd be happy to see where things go. Thanks for reading, and I hope to hear from you.

Hi! I’m a 43-year-old child-free woman looking for something genuine and monogamous. I work, I don’t drink or do drugs, and I’m happiest nerding out over history, science, and fantasy (The Last Unicorn is a childhood favorite). I’m an omnivore, I like all kinds of music (though I’m not a musician), and I’m not into sports, hunting, or fishing, so my ideal day is quiet and a little bit indoorsy.

I’m plus sized and working on losing weight. I tend to be attracted to tall guys in their 40s with similar interests and a laid-back lifestyle.

I’m vanilla, so I’m not looking for hookups, sexual chat, or kink and role dynamics. I’m also not a match for anyone who’s married, polyamorous, or wanting kids. If we’re not a match on the basics, no hard feelings!

If this sounds like you, tell me what era in history you’d time travel to if you had the chance, and please include the word “purple” in your first message so I know you read this far.

P.S. If you don't hear back from me right away, I likely went to bed or got busy and will respond when I get a chance!

Chapter 1: About Me

Now I see the funny side, now I'm always smiling. That's my philosophy of life!

I have recent photos to share. In the meantime, you'll have to use your imagination as you close your eyes and picture me—6 feet tall, overall thin build, short salt-and-pepper hair, glasses, clean-shaven face, and Italian ethnicity. I get a lot of compliments on my smile, as you can see.

An energetic guy after losing 40 pounds and maintaining my weight for the last 9 years by eating nutritiously and exercising regularly, I'm striving to be the lightest urn in the crematorium. It's important to have goals. I'm making Death work for it, too, by not smoking (tobacco or pot), drinking alcohol, or doing hard drugs. Part of my healthy lifestyle also includes responsibly taking medical-grade cannabis gummies as needed (medical cardholder).

As you're looking at my post, I'm sure you're thinking, "He's talkative!" I bond through conversation. You'll also notice that I'm honest and open. I highly value these two traits in a partner along with consistent communication—all necessary for forming the trust we need for developing a genuine friendship, which is the foundation of a lasting romantic relationship.

But before we get that far, you need to know that I'm child-free. I can't have kids, which I'm grateful for. What I enjoy most about being child-free is the freedom—more time, energy, and money for myself, my passions, and hopefully one day the partner I love. I also value my independence, the peace and quiet of an adult-centered home, and the ability to structure my life around what fulfills me.

I'm not religious, either; I've been a non-believer/free thinker since I was 12. So, what do I believe in? I believe in myself, whatever doesn't kill you simply makes you stranger, and in the healing power of laughter—unless you get shot or stabbed, then going to the ER is best. I can't help but laugh often with my dark, warped, sarcastic sense of humor! I also have a fuckin' foul mouth, but I know when to be respectful.

On a somber note, I've been pet-free since my beloved tabby passed in 2022. But on a happy note, since August of 2026, I've bonded with a friendly neighborhood cat—a tabby/white mix—who comes by when she sees me outside. I sit on a camping chair in my courtyard and she sits on my lap while I pet her. Despite my allergies, I treasure these moments.

As for my house, I've lived here for 22 years, but I don't consider it my forever home. In the meantime, I love how I've decorated it—Star Wars, Marvel, DC geek—and I'm grateful that I live alone.

While predicting the future isn't one of my superpowers, I foresee Vegas being my home indefinitely. I've been here for 30 years from Jersey, love the weather among other things, and I'm content living here.

One prediction I can make with confidence is that I'll self-publish my first book either later this year or early 2027. It's a fantasy erotica love story, and it's nearly ready!

Speaking of erotica and superpowers I do have, I've been giving memorable oral, anal, and foot pleasuring with my talented tongue and skilled hands for almost three decades. It's crucial that my partner enjoys receiving all of these sexual acts (often is ideal). Regardless, I want friendship first, and we'll definitely discuss our sexual health before physical intimacy.

Chapter 2: Relationship Stuff

So I know it's hard to believe, but I've been single for two years. I had a one-year post-divorce rebound relationship that ended, and my ex-girlfriend is out of my life. I learned that polyamory isn't for me.

Regarding the divorce, it's been three years since we filed, after a nearly seven-year marriage. With my ex-wife also out of my life, I'm emotionally available. Out of everything I learned from my marriage, the two most life-changing lessons were: romantic love needs to be cherished, honored, protected, and fostered by both people for it to be sustainable, and stepparenting isn't for me.

In case you're wondering, I'd be open to a second marriage, but I'd also be okay if it didn't happen and we were life partners instead. Regardless, we'd need to live together for at least a year first before I'd make either of those lifetime commitments.

If you're also curious, I have age-gap experience. Yet whether there's a gap or not, I'm looking for a partner who complements me. I'm not interested in power dynamics or someone who wants a man to complete them.

What attracts me to a younger woman is the different energy she can bring into my life. I'm drawn to optimism, enthusiasm, and a sense of adventure that complement my more grounded, direct nature. Different perspectives and cultural touchstones keep us curious about each other's worlds, creating opportunities to share new things, learn from each other, and grow together.

As a hopeless romantic, I want a long-term monogamous partnership that feels like I'm spending every day with my best friend. We'll have shared laughter, talk about everything and nothing, be completely ourselves, and feel accepted for who we are—a love that feels easy, safe, playful, and like home.

We'll maintain our individuality in the relationship, too. I'll need time to myself. That, in turn, will give you a much-needed break from me because while you'll drive me wild, I'll drive you crazy. It's also highly unlikely that all of our interests will be the same, so it makes sense that we'll do some things separately.

Chapter 3: About You

I'm not asking much.

Most importantly, please read my entire post so you can get an idea of the type of woman I'd match well with.

Beyond that, you should live in the Las Vegas metropolitan area because I don't do long-distance relationships. You should also be child-free (you don't have children and you don't want children), be a good person, be emotionally available for a romantic connection, and not use any tobacco products.

Finally, I can't emphasize enough that you should know how to hold a conversation and be willing to share more about yourself because you sincerely want us to know each other better.

Chapter 4: Reasonable Expectations

After messaging on the app for a bit (let's not spend forever here), talking on the phone or video chatting before meeting in person will be necessary.

If that interaction goes mutually well, we'll plan a first date. If our first date is a success, we'll continue dating to see if we're compatible for an exclusive partnership—making that determination together when the time is right.

The End

You made it! Congrats!

Don't worry, there's no book report due—just an optional icebreaker.

What do you miss most about being in a committed romantic relationship?

Okay I don't know how funny I really am but I do like to make people laugh!

I'm at a stage in my life where my job keeps my busy, my family keeps me happy, and my friends keep me sane. So I guess I'm just missing you.

I enjoy cooking and have gotten much better at it since I changed my lifestyle and started to lose weight. Baking has been fun as well although there's still a chance I'll burn myself on that stupid oven 😩Either way it's fun to make things that taste good! Even more fun when there's someone to taste test.

Now I am a big nerd. Like the messy hair and glasses type. Grew up around computers, always loved gaming and I've always been a really curious person. Nowadays it's very casual. I play WoW here and there otherwise mostly single player games, just stuff to destress. No kids yelling in my ear, ty.

I also like my sports, I like to play ping pong, I like to watch random people on Youtube build things, and especially the backyard science videos, because who doesn't wanna see a baseball turn into liquid as it hits a wall being shot out of a cannon at 1000mph?? Maybe I can add watching a fun show with you to the list?

I'm looking for something serious. It doesn't mean we need to meet up next week, but it does mean I'm doing things with intent. I'm not looking for just a quick fling and hope you're the same. Once I click with you, I'm only going to be talking with you. The grass is only greener on the other side if you don't water your own grass! I just can't imagine trying to juggle multiple conversations.

So with that said please don't take it the wrong way if you really put effort into your message and I don't respond. I do at least promise to take my time reading your intros and profiles.

You don't have to be local, but please be in a similar time zone. I'm very affectionate and a little touch starved but even so, I'm patient and I do enjoy my peace. I'd want to make sure we're comfortable with each other and you especially can feel safe with me. I want to prioritize the right person, where we're improving each other's lives. If we click, I'd like to spend time together online.

I'm happy to share pictures early, especially given my weight situation, I think expectations are important. But with that said, if you're into strictly bigger guys, I'm sorry to say but you'll be disappointed in a year or two as I'm entirely committed to my health and have already made great strides 😌😌

Please do not contact if you're into: ICE, MAGA, AI art slop, gender and race wars, and any other overly negative and hateful communities.

Hello! I'm a 36 year old guy from central Ohio. Been single for a while so I'm hoping to form a real connection with someone. I work in legal affairs.

I'd say my personality is split between nerd culture and sports. I love D&D/books/theatre/museums/anime as well as football (both kinds). I have a dog who is the bestest girl (no debate). I also love to travel and have already been to Europe a few times. I'm not interested in kids or having any in the future.

I'm looking for someone who is ready to find a relationship that lasts. Looking forward to hearing from you!

Hey! I’m Noah, 29, living in Seattle, WA. Figured I’d put myself out there and hopefully meet someone who wants something genuine and long-term!

A little about me:
I’m 5’9”, work in finance, and outside of work I’m a DJ and music producer under the name Somber. Music is a massive part of my life, and my taste ranges from electronic and emo to metal, alternative, and just about everything in between.

I’m also a huge gamer, especially RPGs, love exploring new places, traveling, going to concerts, finding good food, and occasionally spending an entire weekend doing absolutely nothing. I have one very spoiled cat who contributes nothing to rent.

Personality wise, I’m affectionate, sarcastic, curious, a little nerdy, and definitely a romantic at heart. I love deep conversations, playful banter, random adventures, and those little everyday moments that make being with someone special.

**What I’m looking for:**
Someone kind, emotionally available, affectionate, and genuinely interested in building a serious, monogamous relationship. I want a best friend I can fall in love with. Someone to laugh with, share music with, travel with, game with, and build a life with.

I’m open to long distance if there’s genuine intention to eventually close the gap.
**Physical attraction matters to me**, so I’d love to exchange pictures early! Bonus points if you include one with your first message. I’m more than happy to reciprocate.

If any of this resonates, tell me a little about yourself, what you’re passionate about, and what you’re looking for.
Hopefully we can give each other a reason to delete Reddit dating posts for good. :)

Trying this again. Thought I met "The One", but she couldn't find the time for me so I'm back.

I'm ready to get back out there. I'm looking for my next adventure, if something special comes out of it, great. Dating apps have sucked, I'm not expecting much from here, but figured I would try. I'm not interested in your Only Fans or Cam sites, don't ask.

I'm more of a homebody nowadays. I work 45-50 hours a week so once I'm off, I like to relax and unwind. I enjoy movies, TV shows, sports, pro wrestling and video games. I could talk for hours about any of those topics. I prefer someone close if all possible so we can actually meet.

I want someone who likes to talk and get to know someone, who enjoys good morning/good night texts, actually cares about each other's day and how they're feeling. Most importantly, someone who isn't going to just put me on the back burner because I'm 4th or lower on their priority list. I'm not looking for my Harley Quinn, I'm looking for my Morticia Addams.

I'm just a nice guy looking for my ever after and someone I could sing "I wanna grow old with you" to and mean it. If you understand the reference, you're off to a good start.

If you're interested, send me a DM and we can go from there, thanks for reading.

Hello! I am terrible at writing about myself but we'll give this a try anyway. Age range around 30-45 years old give or take. I'm open to talking to someone long distance but prefer closer. I'm looking to take things slow. Would very much like to have someone to chat with and enjoy some good conversations, maybe become friends or possibly (hopefully) more.

Some things to get out of the way:

Romantically I'm looking for an eventual life partner and a monogamous relationship. I'm childfree (obviously) and have never wanted kids. I am liberal and would need my partner to be as well. I am an atheist but open-minded toward other views. I am 6'0" and like to wear shoes that make me taller, but I don't personally have a height preference for my partner. I'm not athletic. I'm an average weight but slightly larger than I'd like to be so I'm working on that (25lb down since August). I am currently "California sober." I don't mind if you drink but would prefer it not to be too frequent or heavy. I have a dog and am an animal lover. My love language is quality time. Overall I consider myself open-minded and easy-going and would like to find someone similar.

Some things I enjoy:

Horror movies

Video games- love cozy and story-heavy games

Reading- primarily true crime (I haven't picked up a new book in a while so I'm open for suggestions from pretty much any genre)

Punk and metal but I like a wide variety of other types of music as well

I have a handful of crafty creative-type hobbies that I rotate through depending on my mood and motivation level.

I am an introvert. I work in customer service so during the work week my social battery is often low. I haven't been in a relationship in several years and only have a few friends. I prefer to spend quiet evenings in most days. I enjoy going out once in a while on the weekends, especially trying new restaurants or going to see a movie or a show. I would like to travel more. I would love to have someone to go on occasional adventures with, then go back home and cuddle.

If you send me a message please share some information about yourself, similar to what I've shared above. I'm willing to exchange SFW selfies as well :)

Hello I hope your doing well as I'm looking for someone to make a meaningful connection and become something truly special.

I've been searching the lands far and wide for someone to really connect with, even if we start as friends and go from there but I'm wanting to have a committed relationship(monogamous) with someone. I'm looking for someone from the united states, you don't need to be from California as I don't mind long distance for now, but do intend to meet one day as I can go only so long without cuddling my fav person.

I'm a nerd and gamer at heart and have my fair share of video game knowledge, movies that I love to death, animes that have made me laugh and cry, books to recommend or get excited to tell you even just a little about it(no spoilers of course), tell you my fav songs ive listened to over the years or just my whole playlist. Besides the nerdy things I love to fish(even though I'm cursed to not catch anything),love to cook, draw, go camping, playing with my pets.

But as much as would love to ramble about my interests, I want to hear all about the things you enjoy or interests you have as I've I love hearing people intrests.

I love playing games as I do play them often(I mostly play pc but do have xbox and have played so many games, just some of my favs are mc, Stardew valley, borderlands 2,terraria,hades, grounded, schedual 1 but love most genres) and would like someone who plays as well, as gaming with somone has always been my favorite.

I'm always up to talk, call, hear you rant about your day, ask you questions, send you memes to make you laugh or make dad jokes as I'm a sucker for them or just talk about whatever comes to mind to make our days interesting.

as for what I'm looking for specifically I don't got some golden template, so a fun personality and jokester is a pretty good start, but I'm looking for at least 20-28 and someone who doesn't want kids. I don't mind if you smoke weed or drink as do that occasionally.

Basic info about me

as for me I'm white, 5'9 , curly hair, an introvert, I wear glasses, bit on the heavier side but actively going to the gym and loosing weight,kind, loyal, caring, funny(well I think I am).

Advanced info about me

I am on the autism spectrum so many of my quirky traits are cause of that, Ive had chemo at a young age so my memory isnt top notch so if I forget something I do apologize. Im a night owl that stay up till like 3 am on the norm as of years of sleep problems. Im just a smidge chronicaly online.

I hope to hear from you if this post interested you, but if your still reading this thank you and also sorry for it being so long, but if you could put glowing oreo into your message to show you that you read it or at least I hope so, if not intrested I hope you have a wonderfull day.

Hello cf4cf,

So, I’m trying trying my luck here! I’m looking for a genuine connection built on shared values and a mutual appreciation for the outdoors.
I work in environmental sciences and spend a lot of time in the field. Because I’ve spent many years working in remote locations, my social life and ability to meet someone romantically were naturally impacted.

Full disclosure; my work involves travelling…but not to fun new cities or countries. I travel into remote wilderness areas in Western Canada. I don’t have a job flexible enough to allow working from home/ online remotely. This means that I am limited to a relationship where I can stay in Western Canada and maintain my career, as it’s not very transferable to other regions.

About Me:

Age & Vibe: 39, warm, easy-going, and deeply appreciative of time in the great outdoors. I spend a lot of my time outside with my dog and I’m looking for someone who’s lifestyle matches mine. I hike, backpack, snowshoe, swim, rock climb and take my dog everywhere that I can. I have spent years working in wilderness settings, and have experienced some intense situations out there. I’m easy going, but that’s a by product of a few close calls with wildlife, and having a greater appreciation for living in general.

Looks: Blonde hair (with silver strands I wear proudly), green eyes, and an extremely active lifestyle. I’m 170.2cm tall, and 56kg.

Values: I’m left-leaning and childfree (I am permanently sterilized).

My Sidekick: I have a wonderful dog who joins me on all of my adventures.

What I am Looking For:

Age Range & Lifestyle: A man aged 33 to 37. I lead an active life and am hoping to find someone healthy and energetic who can easily keep up with me. If you love advanced rock climbing, hiking, backpacking and swimming, we will have plenty of common ground!

Chemistry & Attraction: Mutual physical and romantic attraction is important to me for a lasting spark, so I'm hoping to connect with someone where that natural chemistry is there for both of us. One-sided attraction isn’t fair to either of us, and I’m looking for equal footing on that. Historically, I’ve been very attracted to men with the surf/skate vibe who have a love of good music.

Connection: Someone kind, emotionally available, progressive, and looking for something intentional and genuine.

If this sounds like a good match for what you're looking for, please send me a message telling me a little bit about yourself and add a recent photo of yourself!

Home all day so may as well see who’s on here. Looking for that one person who stands out and doesn’t mind chatting everyday to see where it goes.
- big history nerd. Love traveling to places that have alot of significance and overall enjoy learning about things.
-Love the 90’s and 2000’s nostalgia from the bands to Nintendo.
-very active and in shape. Try to get a couple miles of run time in per week.
- stable career in Healthcare helping others.
-Work remote so replying won’t ever be an issue.
- love trying new foods but the favorite hands down is Mexican food.
- Not into the NSFW stuff like most men are. Looking for someone who’s local but long distance is cool too so either worlds. Someone who clicks basically. Anyways hope everyone has a great Sunday evening and a great week ahead.

Hi! It's Sunday night and I'm finding myself with some time after a long week of running my businesses and doing all the things. Feeling like it's a good time to put myself out there for a long term, serious connection. 

About me?

Lots about me! I'm a curious person and I like other curious people. We'll get along if you're a question asker, a dreamer, and are generally goal oriented. I'm an entrepreneur by nature, or for the last 10 years, and am always getting into the next thing. Fellow careerist to the front of the line please. 

No kids at the moment, and not keen on being a step parent so you should be childfree too, in the childfree sub haha. ✨️

I'm established & stable. Willing to relocate eventually but would probably look more like sharing time between places I love and need to be (read: businesses still got to be checked on). You hopefully see yourself as intrigued by someone with similar amounts of freedom as yourself. 

My hobbies include building and consulting for businesses, reading, listening to music, going to concerts (I saw Beyoncé VIP bby), city adventures, experimenting with new recipes, trying all kinds of foods, seeing new places, appreciating art, etc. I also enjoy a good hang out at home and have a dance party type of day.

That feels like enough to get started. I'll let you take it from here with a DM :)

How funny I am considering giving up my search for a partner for the next few years and then I see this group pop up. So why not give it a shot right? To start I’m HSV2+ on daily meds. Doesn’t define me, but I like to lead with it to save everyone’s time and self esteem 😅.

Now onto the good stuff! I’m a lover of happy hours, live art (think concerts, drag, theatre, dance, cabarets, etc) scenic drives, walks along water with minimal inclines, using tf out of my regal unlimited pass (street fighter was so fun!) traveling when my budget allows, and rotting a day away with my bong and a bottle of bubbles. I’m equally as happy exploring temples and historic sites as I am floating in a lazy river on shrooms with a tiki drink in my hand.

I’ve been single over 5 years and am acutely aware of what I like and what I don’t. As a military kid I am no stranger to new people and places, and I enjoy being around people who are open and accepting of others. Nothing trump or red pill adjacent is going to fly around here. That said, if you can’t laugh at American Dad with me, this will never work.

I’m 5’8, focusing on getting healthier and stronger daily, I have a bachelors in logistics, I’m traditional in that I expect a man to pay for dates, but modern enough to be down to clown after only 1 if the vibes are right. I’d love to find someone who’s into all the facets of me as much as I’m into the many facets of you. If I’ve peaked your interest, let me know the last movie you saw and let’s get to chatting ☺️

Edit to add: if you just messaged me from Chicago can you please message me again, I accidentally declined the request and would love to chat with you!

Hey! Just putting myself out there, hoping to meet people and see what develops. I’d like to meet an equal companion who loves a quiet, deeply spiritual life and is also open to living childfree. I am introverted, soft-spoken, and gentle. I am a deep thinker, very intuitive, curious, well-read and well-traveled.

I love nature. In the forest, I feel peaceful and more alive. I have been hiking all over the mountainous part of my state. When I was in my 20s, I hiked sections of the Camino de Santiago (Spain), the West Highland Way (Scotland), and Appalachian Trail (eastern USA). Because of a chronic illness, my physical energy is more limited now; the hikes still happen– they are just shorter. Some recent medical treatments have improved my energy, though, and I'm hopeful for further improvement.

My inner life is vibrant and full. I love to meditate and read. My favorite genre is nonfiction, and my favorite topics are psychology, philosophy, and religion. I'm securely attached and have a very good relationship with my family. I really like children, and they really like me, but I thrive as an auntie. I love leading an ecumenical contemplative prayer group on Zoom, and I spend my days creating beauty through artistry and craftsmanship.

I consider myself a Christian and sometimes attend an Anglican church, but I'm quite open, egalitarian, and ecumenical.

Regarding politics, I find most issues are very complex and nuanced. For this reason, I typically cannot fully agree with either position, and I dislike the mudslinging, stereotyping, and villainizing of “the other side.” So I don't really care for politics or talking about politics.

But I will say that I am in favor of religious and spiritual people of all traditions, equal rights for women and men, and equal rights for gay people and straight people. Although I dislike identity politics, I am in favor of people of all cultures and phenotypes, treating animals and plants ethically, and using natural resources with respect and appreciation.

Feel free to DM - tell me where you're from and mention something we have in common :)

* No experience needed, applicant will be trained

* Paid in memes and pup pics

* Must work weekends and holidays

* Must be fluent in sarcasm

* Must come in early and stay late

* Benefits include being my bff and that’s about the best benefit ever.

I'm guessing you're wanting to know about me now huh? Well you're in luck because I feel like sharing some Fun Hobbies (lol jk they aren't fun at all, kinda sad TBH) I like to partake in, here there are!

Hobbies include...

* Switching between the same 4 apps for hours.

* Not speaking to anyone for days at a time.

* Listening to the same songs i listened to 15 years ago.

* Putting myself in situations that will never exist

* Long walks to the liquor store.

* Staying in my pajamas way too long.

* Staying up wayyyy too late.

* Being tired all day due to previous statement.

* Drinking everything but water.

* Putting stuff in my cart online but never checking out.

* Making lists of things i will never do.

So yeah! If that sounds like your type of friend, hit me with an orange envelope. Due to difficulty with trying to keep a conversation with someone with the opposite schedule, please be somewhat close to central time. Or just like…not opposite Lol. Mention the phrase Pineapple on pizza so I know you read the entire thing please 😊

Hey all. I'm 38 years old, 6'2 and 180 lbs. Location wise, I'm in western Washington. Kind of on the introverted side, but not so introverted that I'm stuck inside all day, and always willing to go on an adventure.

Have tons of hobbies, some nerdy, such as video games, MtG, and watching anime, but I also like to touch grass by going out for walks, bowl, bake some snacks, and hang with friends. I live by myself, have a good paying job and work schedule, working car, and a cat that doesn't like other people. (Sorry cat lovers/haters) I'm 420 friendly, but more of an edible enjoyer than a smoker, and I like making my own edibles, so more to enjoy.

What I'm looking for is someone from around 29-42, someone nearby, similar interests, don't mind if you're a yapper, if you don't mind that I'm not, doesn't try to attach to my hip immediately, and doesn't start trauma dumping on first site. (This has happened more than once, I appreciate openness, but time and place for everything)

If you think we'd be a good match, just hit up my inbox about yourself. I should note, I'm not terminally online, so don't expect a response immediately.

As a 32year old man, I’ve built a successful career and life, but honestly I’ve always known that the real wealth in life, a deep emotional connection and a true friendship, is where I actually want to invest my time now. If I look back, I’ve always been a pretty loyal and romantic guy at heart, hunting for that genuine bond ever since I was a kid. Life teaches you some tough lessons along the way, though. Between the previous experiences that showed me the hard way why boundaries matter, and a long stretch where I just poured all my energy into working, travling, and figuring out my own life out, I’ve been through a lot. But after taking the time to properly heal and focus on myself, I am finally stepping into a brand new chapter, fully ready to open up, trust again, and build something real.

I am really not looking for some rushed, traditional setup. What I want is a connection built on a solid foundation of genuine friendship, emotional safety, and open communication. I am looking for a true life partner, best friend, and lover all in one, meaning someone to share life with, coexist peacefully, and rediscover how amazing trust and love feel when they are actually mutual. On top of that, I am specifically looking for someone who is nonreligious yet respects religions, someone deep, thoughtful, openminded, and completely cool with differnces.

My vibe is serious, honest, calm, and fiercely loyal, and I definitely value substance over superficial stuff. That being said, I also happen to have a pretty great sense of humor and love a good laugh. If you value honesty and want to see if we click, my DM is open. Ask me whatever you want, and let us see where things go!

Hey, besties!👋😌 I'm 32 F SoCal. You ain't gotta be from California, as I love to travel 🧳and I've realized it's hard to find child free men in my area. I work in academia, but I'm not a professor. I realized a little too late that I appreciate law, so my goal is to return to school to work as a paralegal. And if I'm cocky enough, to become a lawyer. I'm looking for an emotionally available man to pop sh*t with. So, feel free to respond if you're riding the same onda.

Obsessions (in no particular order):

- Fallout, or anything produced by Bethesda

- world literature / poetry

- manual transmissions

- winter season

- writing

- learning Russian

- motorcycles

- long walks

- Thomas Sankara

- museums

- halloween

- swimming

- bed rotting

- dancing

- intellectual or thought-provoking conversations

- cooking

- politics

Tell me about the last vacation you took. Where did you go and what did you do? Did you enjoy yourself? What's the last album you listened to from beginning to end? If you had a warning label, what would it say? Recommend a movie to me that I should watch before I die.

Hey there! I'm a 36M. I'm from the USA and I am currently living in Arkansas. My hometown is Las Vegas where I lived for the majority of my life. Some of my favorite things/hobbies include: Film, Music, Photography, Vintage, Hiking, Traveling, Cooking, Thrifting, Reading, Astronomy, Urban/Abandoned Exploration, and so so much more! I very much like things of a gothic nature so horror media, occult, and just general spookiness is quite appealing in terms of media. That is just the tip of the iceberg in what makes up my favorite things (hobbies/interests). I'm very much a monogamous person and prefer an emotional bond with somebody first and foremost. I do not use any drugs nor any substances whatsoever. I'm all about being a team mate with my partner in any and every way. I'd definitely say one of my biggest strengths is my emotional intellect and the ability to understand. Composure and humility are key too. I very much value communication, consistency, transparency, and personal growth. I envision a relationship as something where you grow individually and even together as you float along this pale blue dot called Earth. Self-care and self-love are big for me and seeing them practiced by my partner is a really attractive trait I must say. I'm very easy-going and can be spontaneous. Life is too short for drama and unnecessary nonsense; so pursuing healthiness in every aspect of my life is very important to me. Quality time and adventure too. I am not bashful to clean, cook, learn new skills, and just be a sponge in absorbing new information about things I didn't know about before (learning). I'm anti-any and everything that has to do with Trump or anything alt-right. I'm pro-lgbtq+, pro-reproductive rights, anti-discrimination, anti-racism. There is certainly much more to learn but I'll save that for later, I look forward to hearing back from you!

Me: https://imgur.com/a/UJhSDQy

Sharing my life with an Aussie Shepherd, so you’ll have a little competition for my attention… but I’m willing to bet I’m the better cuddler. 😏🐶
Being a chef means I’ll never run out of date-night ideas, new restaurants to try, or delicious excuses to steal you away for dinner. The real question is whether you can handle me judging the food everywhere we go. 😂 Bonus points if you can recommend a spot that actually impresses me!
When I’m not in the kitchen, you’ll probably find me lifting weights, hiking a new trail, climbing a mountain, planning my next trip, or finding an excuse to take a sports car or motorcycle out for a spin. I’m attracted to a woman who takes care of herself, has a curious mind, loves a little adventure, and can turn even an ordinary day into a good story.
**What am I hoping to find?** Something real with someone who wants to be my favorite person, my biggest supporter, my partner in crime, and eventually my best friend. I’m a sucker for good conversation, playful teasing, genuine affection, emotional maturity, honesty, and the kind of chemistry that makes you lose track of time talking. I want us to challenge each other, cheer each other on, and build something that actually lasts. ❤️
I’m pretty laid-back, easy to talk to, and can probably hold my own in a conversation about just about anything. I enjoy a good Old Fashioned now and then, but I’m more interested in good company than a bar tab. 😉
I’m open to meeting someone anywhere in the US for the right connection. Distance doesn’t scare me if we’re both willing to put in the effort and eventually turn those messages into real-life memories.
**If you’re looking for something genuine, can keep up with a little banter, and wouldn’t mind being spoiled with good food and spontaneous adventures, we might just get along a little too well.** 😌
Come say hi. Worst case, we have a good conversation. Best case? You become my favorite notification. 😉❤️
*Just one thing: I’m here for a serious, long-term connection, not a pen pal with unlimited texting privileges.* 😄

Hey, thanks for clicking on my post, I’m 29 and from England UK, I’m looking for something long term, consistent, and someone who’s willing to put in the effort to keep a spark ignited!

A bit about myself? I’d say I’m quite the nerdy/easy-going guy, like most men I enjoy gaming (nothing serious) just a way to socialise and chat with friends! I love anything horror related and with Halloween coming its my favourite time of year, for work I’m in telecommunications as a senior store manager so I like to think I have a stead head on my shoulders but I mean hey.. you be the judge? When I’m not working I tend to just chill honestly, whether that be attending to my incredibly unhealthy addiction to Lego (it’s bad haha) or maybe meeting up with some friends and grabbing some food or seeing a movie, I’m really not the partying type of man, actually I’m quite introverted and shy at start, but get to know me and I’m sure you’ll see the goofball side of me haha, I’m only childfree by choice, and not looking to change that

Honestly, I’m not too sure what to expect from this, just throwing myself out there and seeing what comes of it, distance isn’t too much of a big deal for me given I’d like to get out and about from the UK, older or younger also fine, I just want to meet someone who’s genuine, kind, open and honest, and who isn’t going to just ghost after a few days 😅😅

I’ve rambled a lot here and don’t wanna give too much away, if any of this interests you then ping me a message and I look forwards to hearing from you 😊😊