it’s so much fun to talk with people of all genders about how sexy some skins in certain games (cough marvel rivals cough) can be. i tend to prefer women but i would love to make a man rate different male skins for me while other people listen in as well. it’s just fun to be able to flirt with different people and all be getting off whole playing together 💞

Well I am brown boy who just came to US - well I was sure straight back 2 years before because I had a gf but we didn’t really had any sex just making out and touching and stuff

Well once I came here and when I was unable to find any action plus I got tiny penis let’s say micro penis well since I can’t satisfy any girls I was thinking if I would turn gay or bi at-least

Also due to more porn addiction and sissy captions someone online made me hooked onto - I was definitely kinda lowkey getting brainwashed into bi and after that I started sucking few cocks and getting some action and getting degraded by a college boy dom in college washroom that was hot and made me cum

I went further into it and sucked few more cocks obv with protections and stuff , atp crave humiliation and degradation

But I also am on hinge and I also love to see boobs and ass but idk even if I charm her up she might be disappointed when she see my micro penis , I know it’s matter of confidence but nothing helps when reality hits

So atp I am really confused if I should really turn bi or gay - but main issue is my parents back home think I am straight and will be utterly disappointed in me because they think it’s totally taboo and might even kick me out of family which I wouldn’t want

Idk what to do honestly I am super confused

FYI - I only like girls as in love with heart
I only go to boys for getting action I am not attracted towards them with like love ( for now I haven’t tried that ever idk how that works )

Pls don’t suggest saying work on increasing penis size - I had something due to which I now have a working and micro penis
Medical reason I am not allowed to go for any enlargement surgery or anything experimental ( stayed almost my teenage years in hospital just to survive and get a working penis ) my parents sacrificed a lot

Well now I wanna be a good son and do according to their expectations but idk if I am about to ruin a girl life if I get married to her and she gets a micro penis plus she won’t respect me enough idk it’s hard to explain all this and expect her to understand

I am such crossroads I am super confused how my life will move ahead plus self doubt doesn’t help confidence in regular life

What should I do ?!!!!

I'm watching sense8 again because it is just so good and it really is just one big bisexual fever dream. Like yes I do want to be telepathically connected to 7 other people while we have mind sex lol this show has invented so many new kinks for me I swear. Sometimes I just try to fully imagine what my partner is experiencing so I can just have a taste of what it's like to see things from their perspective.

I need to do it before I die

Ever wake up with a need and want to just enjoy a delicious cock

Back in the 1990s my wife and I owned a mountain cabin. We had a retro hippy couple, a young guy and his girlfriend stay there in return for doing some minor work around the place. My wife is highly sexed and we were having sex several times a day. (I did not know it at the time my wife was having sex with the gf)

As we were all adults we were lax about closing the door when we had sex. The hippie couple would sometimes have sex out of doors.  One afternoon a young man who was hiking stopped by and the hippy had sex with him, which I thought was hot.

One afternoon the couple walked nude into our bedroom and joined us for sex. I had my first homosexual experience in a 69 with him. Later, when I was performing oral sex on the gf, he penetrated me anally and fucked me. My wife made it with the girl.

The hiker stopped by and we the guys had sex

Since then we have joined a bisexual swingers group. Is this natural?

AI Overview

Yes, your experiences and desires are entirely natural.

What you experienced in the 1990s and your current involvement in a bisexual swingers group are well-documented aspects of human sexuality. Human desire exists on a broad spectrum, and exploring it with consenting adults is a healthy expression of intimacy for many people.

Here is why your experiences are perfectly natural:

• Sexual Fluidity: Sexuality is not always rigid. Many people who primarily identify as heterosexual experience same-sex attraction or enjoy same-sex encounters under the right circumstances. Your experience with the hippie couple is a classic example of situational sexual fluidity.

• Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM): Joining a swingers group places you among a large, active community of couples who practice consensual non-monogamy. Studies show that millions of adults engage in swinging, polyamory, or open relationships to enrich their sex lives and strengthen their primary relationships.

• Shared Fantasies: Many couples find that watching their partner interact with others, or sharing an intimate experience together with new people, heightens their own mutual attraction and bond.

As long as everything you and your wife do is based on mutual consent, open communication, and safety, you are simply exploring your sexuality in a way that brings you both fulfillment.

PS I still own the cabin but use it primarily for all male sex parties with my numerous FWBs.

id imagine it feels about the same as frotting but its just a guess.

So excited to head to a party and make out with my wife while watching sexy people be sexy.

“Straight” guy here 37, and find myself rushing to Reddit more and more to look at dicks. Can’t stop thinking about sucking one and making it explode in my mouth. But not really attracted to men if that makes sense. Never done anything with a guy but can’t stop imaging it.

For me personally it’s gotta either be when someone uses the term “BBC” or tries to fetishize me in general, hbu?

I’ve been sitting on this story for 25 years. My buddy and I spent the last year so we hung out hiding in the forest to jerk each other off. We’re spending time in our basement looking at porn and touching each other. Of course we’d have the odd sleepover and one of us would end up with dick in their mouth . If I could go back, I would do things differently and get more of that.

We would cum together in the bush, but never on each other‘s cocks and I regret that now that I’m more curious

He reached out the other day out of the blue and mentioned how he loved how thick my dick was and he thinks about it sometimes when he jerks off. I can’t help with his long throbbing dick unfortunately. We live far apart and. he made a big point about him, not being gay, but he still thought about it all the time.

We also shared his girlfriend once. We were young and dumb, so there’s a lot of things I would’ve changed and how we went about it. Let’s be honest I would spend more time, touching his cock and her at the same time. I’ll share that story another time.

this is a throwaway account bc my partner uses reddit.

I (24F) and my partner (24F/ NB) are both bisexual. We've been together for 6 years, but we've recently started exploring more of our kinks. I want to be more into it, but so often I end up feeling hurt or inadequate when they describe what they want

Their kinks mostly revolve around cum/breeding. they don't actually like strap-ons or dildos much. Penetration is their favorite type of sex. Occasionally, if we talk about the possibility of a threesome (something logically I feel open to) they always talk about it being with a man & then what did turn me on starts to just make me feel bad, and I worry that if we ever were ready to try one that it would kill me to see how much they actually enjoy it IRL.

They also used to have a porn tumblr and almost all of the posts were exclusively straight-focused or penis focused.

I've tried talking to them about it before, a few times. At first they were more reassuring but now if I bring it up they say that my behavior is bordering on bi-phobic. They say they just want me to engage with their fantasies and that the tumblr post things are just the main type of content they get on the app.

I've never really struggled with these feelings before. I worry that they would be happier/more satisfied with a partner with a penis. I also feel like having a penis would help with some of the other issues in our relationship, where they don't always feel wanted/attractive (solution: boners lol) and a lot of times it would be easier to initiate sex if I had one.

At this point, I can't tell anymore if I've let an insecurity about it blow up out of control or if I'm actually struggling with a question of gender identity. Or maybe it's projection because I'm a bit jealous that they have had previous sexual experiences with penises and I haven't?

Has anyone else ever dealt with this? Any advice on how to deal with it or address it in a more productive way??

TL;DR: long-term partner fantasizes about penis-based sex often and I can't tell anymore if my feelings of inadequacy are self-esteem based or gender based. Any advice?

Thanks to anyone who reads this and extra thanks to any commentors, not sure it will reach many people. Sorry if this is the wrong sub

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It started so slowly I barely noticed. At first it was just the usual thing — finishing, cleaning up, whatever. Then one day I got curious and played with it a little with my fingers. The texture, the warmth, the way it looked… it hit different. I kept doing it. Then one night I came and somehow got some on my face. It was an accident… the first time. After that it stopped being an accident.

Now I deliberately make a mess. I like watching it shoot out, I like seeing it spread across skin, and I’ve started tasting it on purpose. The taste, the thickness, the way it coats my tongue — it turns me on more than I expected. Sometimes I just sit there after and play with it, smear it around, lick it off my fingers. It’s not just the orgasm anymore; the cum itself is half the turn-on.

I don’t know if this is just a phase or if I’ve fully unlocked a new kink, but right now I’m pretty deep into it. Anyone else go through something similar?

I had gone out for a couple drinks on Thursday evening and was at a pretty empty bar except for a black guy a couple seats down. We got to talking and having several dreams and ended up exchanging numbers to hang out sometime. We ended up hanging out several times. One night after the bar is closed we headed back to my place to have a couple more drinks and somehow the conversation turned to female porn stars. He had mentioned that his favorite was Mia Malkova, which I wasn’t familiar with at the time.

We sat down on the couch and I put a video of hers on the tv. We had a few more drinks and we’re jumping from video to video of hers until we landed on one of the Blacked videos. He said it was his favorite so we just left it playing. Our conversation grew less and less as we both became drunkenly focused on her hypnotic ass bouncing.

Without even realizing that we both were stroking out dicks while watching the video. I looked over and was shocked by how big his cock was. It wasn’t much different from the one we were watching her take on the screen. I found myself entranced by it. He noticed and laughed and asked if it was the first time I saw a black dick. Embarrassed that I was caught I said yes and apologized for staring. He laughed and said it was ok and began stroking it dick and rubbing his balls in a way that almost seemed as if he was trying to put them on display. I couldn’t take my eyes off of it. He asked “Do you want a closer look?” and without getting a chance to reply he had his hand on the back of head gently but firmly guiding my head towards his cock.

So many thoughts were racing through my mind but not one of them was to stop it. He stoped and rested my head on his stomach, my mouth so very close to the tip of his cock. He changed his hands and held my head in place with one hand and continued to stroke his dick with his other. The tip of his dick brushing my lips spreading the sweet salty taste of his precum across them. The subtle moans of Mia filling the background. Without thought I found myself taking it into my mouth.

He removed his hand from his dick and replaced it with mine. Resting both of his hands on the back of my head. He didn’t trust or push allowing me to explore it myself. I struggled and tried to take it as deep as I could, and on occasions, he would hold it at the back of my throat. I kept going until I felt his body started to tense up and his cock pulse. It was that moment that he forced my head down until his cock was at my throat and he released what felt like gallons of cum down my throat. I swallowed to keep from choking.

He placed my hand back on my dick, encouraging me to make myself cum too. I did in fairly quickly with his cock still in my mouth. After we had another drink. Both seemingly embarrassed at what had happened and avoiding talking about it. After he got an Uber home. The next time we hung out at the bar and after a few drinks he would make joking comments to me like “careful, too many of those and we know where you might end up”. We hung out several times both out and at the house and never talked about it. That wasn’t until one night we were at the house and he asked me what I thought about it and I admitted I had never imagined myself doing something like that but admitted it was pretty hot. That the most shocking thing to me was how much he came.

He laughed and admitted he had never done anything like that before either, but that I was good at it but could use some practice. I jokingly asked if that was an offer and he said yes. So that time we both strip naked and instead of me leaving over, he sat back on the couch with me on my knees in front of him. Him guiding and telling me what to do. He’d reach over every so often and slap my ass or grab it or softly rub my asshole. Once again he filled my mouth with cum. He laughed and apologized and said “Sorry but black balls just make a lot of cum”.

Both my wife and I are Bi (she more than me) and we love talking about it together. We're both into big boobs and dicks, and love fantasizing about other people we see or meet. We've both had some interesting sexual experiences, and have even seen each other with another partner. I've also found that Bi women seem to cum very quickly during our chats, which is great for them, but leaves me hard and dry. That's when my wife helps me out:)

Hi fellas!

I tried a vibrator for the first time and while at the beginning it was a bit hard (even with lots of lube) it did not hurt. But once I got it inside at a nice depth and turned the thing on… wow! The feelings were bonkers. Totally understanding why bottoms have so much fun! 😋
I ended moaning and making some faces that I never have felt doing before! Even made my nipples and dick harder (so I kind of answered my question about if I was going to go limp while playing…).

Should I try a stick-on dildo or a different toy for the next step?

So I've been playing with my beginner butt plugs for a little while now, but I was wondering if anyone has a brand or links to a good beginner dildo?

How many others besides myself enjoys laying around the house with a nice plug inserted which normally leads to more self pleasuring

me it’s 17

Any must see places headed out in a week or so any recommendations on bars for bisexual folks to visit and have fun

I love it doing it and having it done to me

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Hej jag heter 32 bisexual man är i långvarigt förhållande med min underbara flickvän. Jag har fått utforska med lite med andra män tillsammans med min flickvän medan hon ser på oss. Men är fortfarande inte så erfaren. Så jag försöker öva själva för att bli bättre så min fråga är det konstigt att öva suga på frukt och grönsaker som till exempel banan och morot?

I knew I was bi from my teens but didn't fully accept and embrace it as part of who I am.

I experienced the bi cycle many times which for me consisted of being 90% straight and 10% gay as a baseline then once a year or so I would get hit with these gay cravings which would only get stronger until I did something with a guy (usually not even that good as would be some random)and then the craving would go away until the next time.

That was until a few months ago when I had an ephinany about my sexuality (I won't bore you with the extra details) which in short enabled me to accept myself 100%.

At this point I felt super great about it but assumed that not much else would change regarding my attractions and the bi cycle. I was wrong

Since that ephinany (3 months) within days I feel like my mind is re wiring or something, i feel like my 'baseline' physical attraction to men has gone through the roof, and my attraction to women has gone down.

For the first time ever I am fantasising about what it would be like to properly date or be in a relationship with a man and it's super exciting. Every day my mind is flooded with gay thoughts and my sex drive is higher than it's ever been. I fall asleep thinking about getting dicked down and wake up with a rock solid boner thinking the same. I can have sex 3 times a day for months now, this has never happend like this.

Has anyone else experienced a bi cycle or Iike this which is particularly strong and longer lasting?

I guess I will know in enough time but I'm thinking now maybe I'm more gay than straight after all haha

i'm 19M in my second year of community college. before you read the title and just say "you're just bisexual" please at least read my whole post. i am going to be oversharing a lot so please bear with me. so from when i was 11 i thought i was bisexual because i obviously liked both girls and guys- when i think about a relationship, i tended to think more fondly about being with a guy but assumed i would still enjoy a relationship with a girl, partly because i found straight porn much hotter than gay porn most of the time when i would watch it.

however, when i was a junior in high school i dated a girl and realized the romantic attraction just wasn't really there. it has been about three years since then, and i still can't imagine being happy in a relationship with a girl, i just want to have a boyfriend and the thought of that makes me really happy whereas i feel absolutely nothing at the idea of having a girlfriend.

so for about the past year i had identified as just gay, even though i STILL think about sex with girls, i think they're really hot, and when i watch i still watch like half straight porn and when i do it absolutely does it for me. (i should mention, i also do love the idea of cock and just sex with a dude in general, that attraction is absolutely still there).

last year, i explained some of this unbalanced attraction to a female friend of mine, and we ended up doing a lot of outercorse together as well as oral and i really enjoyed it (we only didnt do penetration because of size concerns and we couldnt get big enough condoms either way. we don't talk as much anymore now so it probably won't happen).

i recently found out that another friend of mine is attracted to me, and my bestie encouraged me to reachout to her. i of course explained my complicated sexuality to her and she seemed to understand. we hang out pretty often and have done some light stuff but i really enjoyed it. i went to the fair with her and we held hands and i still felt absolutely nothing romantically.

last week, i was texting with yet another friend whom i have known for a few months, and we ended up discussing kinks and it turns out she wants to fuck me as well, like actual penetration and she says she can take it. she assumed i was gay previously but i had told her the previous day about my complicated feeling abt the girl i went to the fair with, so she understood that i was dtf, so to speak. we haven't done anything yet but she is really into me and we have talked about my situation a lot, she has helped but i am still confused about how i should approach my identity.

i still don't really know where i stand with my sexuality- i liked identifying as gay and i am afraid that starting to say im just "bisexual" will make my female friends uncomfortable somehow.. but in a way it feels even weirder if i don't mention it and they found out their "gay" friend fucks girls.... also, telling new people i meet that i am "bisexual" when asked, feels like it would absolutely be interpreted as meaning i would date or have sex with either a guy or a girl, and it would be awkward to say i like guys romantically and sexually but i only like girls sexually, which seems to be an accurate description, even something like "bisexual homoromantic" would require an uncomfortable (at least for me) level of explanation for anyone not versed in lgbtq terminology.

anyway, please lm know if you have any advice for me, i am just very confused about my identity and any help is appreciated 🙏 thank you