I'm usually subbing, but there's a lot of switch energy here that I just don't really know what to do with I guess. I don't like sex, so I always end up on top in full guard knowing damn well I'm in control but once I get there I'm just...lost? Like what am I supposed to do now? Is it something I can learn or is there just some ingrained Dom energy I'm missing? I topped a wax scene once, and ngl I spent the whole time wondering what I was supposed to be doing. They swore I did great but I just feel like I was missing some sort of flair or something, idk. I probably would've been bored if I wasn't so busy worrying about my own perception of my performance. Any advice?