Hello! let me give you some context about myself.
I was born and raised within the metro vancouver, leaving very few times and being trapped. I was born with ADHD, and F.A.S.D. Being assessed from a young age. It is also very likely I have A.S.D., and am being assessed as we speak. I am 18 years old, a student in film school, and have an intense desire to leave Vancouver.
The reasons for me wanting to leave vancouver and specifically head to the GTA are as follows:
- Trauma and a desire to escape from my family (dysfunctional home, and they wont reach me in Toronto)
- opportunities in the film industry/more financial opportunities (at least so I heard)
- A desire to leave Vancouver in general (my steak is too juicy and my lobsters too buttery, i know)
- Starting a new life away from the shit that happened to me in vancouver. All of my trauma, mistakes, and disdain are trapped within the mountains. And leaving not just the GVA, but BC would allow me to bloom like a flower under the sun
Which brings me to Toronto. Ive been obsessed with it for the past few months, doing research, looking at house prices, learning about its neighborhoods, culture, and way of life. As well as annoying the shit out of my friend from southern ontario by asking her a million questions about toronto constantly. In some sense, I am a torontoboo. To me, Toronto offers an escape, an alluring promise to start a better life. My freedom.
Which brings me to the crux of my question. What is socializing like in Toronto? how easy/hard is it to make friends in toronto as someone whos socially inept?
the truth is, I am genuinely socially inept, and not in the "hehe~ im so awkward! ah eto bleh!" sense. But in the genuine, borderline inhuman sense. I cannot read social cues, I can mask, but barely, and neurotypicals can tell. I am eccentric by art student standards, which is INSANE. But making friends for me is possible, just an uphill and often tiring battle. I find people forming their own cliques, and I find it hard to truly connect with people. I feel like an alien in human clothing sometimes.
I heard that Toronto is easier to make friends than Vancouver, Thus Vancouver freeze so I heard. but how well does that apply to neurodivergent people? Im sure with neurotypicals its a cake walk, but that is not me. How accepting are people in Toronto? specific groups/places I should go to find people incase I end up moving there, or even before? Any pointers or advice? (give it to me blunt, I dont want sugar coated answers, long answers even better). Thank you toronto! ^^