I'm 31 and a software developer in Indiana. Outside of work, I love games of pretty much any kind; video games, board games, card games. I shoot recurve archery, and I sketch. I'm on the liberal side politically, I'm a little curvy and working on being healthier, and I ultimately just want to find my person and fall in love. I'm not trying to force anything or rush into a relationship, but that's what I'm hoping to find eventually.

I'm attracted to East and Southeast Asian men, and I tend to prefer a slimmer build. I have a huge weakness for Korean guys.More than anything, though, I want someone I genuinely click with, someone I can talk to, laugh with, grow with, and who brings out the best in me while I bring out the best in him. If that sounds like something you're looking for too, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself. There's a current picture of me on my profile.

A quick note about messaging me:

Please include your age and ethnicity in your first message. I've clearly stated my dating preferences in my post, and I include them so people can determine whether we're compatible before reaching out.

I've noticed that when this information is omitted, the person often turns out to be outside my stated preferences.

To save us both time, I won't respond to messages that don't include this information. Please respect my preferences just as I would respect yours.

Hi, I'm in SF I'm looking for someone to talk to, either short or long term. Maybe even meet up if the vibe is right. About me:

- Plays video games (big plus if you play Destiny, Marvel Rivals, or Valorant)

- Likes to go workout, and trying to start Muay Thai / kickboxing

- Likes to go dancing, especially salsa/bachata, but l'm not very good at it

- Likes to go traveling/exploring around cities and the beaches, so if you know a cool spot, hmu!

I'm also open to NSFW topics in case the convo goes there. I'm generally a pretty open book, so if you have any questions, feel free to ask. I can send a pic of myself if we vibe. I hope to hear from you soon!

I’m charming, friendly, witty, open-minded, and enjoy playful banter with someone who does not take herself too seriously. Relax, I want you to be in your own skin as much as possible. I’m a homebody by nature, but the right lass can make staying in feel like an adventure. Plus, it's your company I am after all, the activity, indoors or outdoors, is just the pretext to spend quality time with you.

I appreciate someone on the same wavelength, brimming with confidence, warmth, curiosity, and genuineness. I’m affectionate and attentive, with a naturally sensual side that shows when the chemistry is right. If we click, I’ll make sure you feel it.

I like food, either cooking up my own or scoffing down new delights I've yet to try. If you love cooking, my stomach will definitely give you it's thanks. I have numerous interests: tennis, table-tennis, pickleball, cycling, piano, drawing, content creation, co-op video games.

I would love a woman who is tall as me (or more!) as I stand at 6 feet. Ladies who like tall asians, perhaps your palate for oriental cuisine will be satiated. I have a soft spot for white females, having studied overseas and found their outlook in life as well as personality, admirable and refreshing.

At the end of the day, it all boils down to whether you and I have an affinity. Yes, a relationship can be built, but having a natural spark, makes it all the more valuable.

If you’re curious, slightly mischievous, and would love settling here in this tropical paradise, come say hi! I don't bite (not hard anyway, perhaps a nibble, it can't be helped if you are a tasty treat no?)

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Let's see where the vibes take us— open to friend, dating, short/long term relationships.

I want to meet men who like to chat often, hang out, go to movies , try new foods, museums, conventions, concerts, city events, etc

I'm cool with friends from anywhere but I'm primarily looking for local people to actually meet now and have fun !

Open to ages 25 and older but prefer men similar to my age group

Must be drug/std free

Never married no kids

I'm 5'8" tall curvy/average build busty blond hair brown eyes