r/weddingswap • • Jul 27 '16

New inclusions on the sidebar! - Please read before posting!!

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Hello all! In an effort to provide everyone a place to find good affordable wedding stuff on Reddit, I've decided to include handmade items here in /r/weddingswap. I realize there are other subs that are available for these types of things but our sub is HOPPING and those subs...well...they're not.

The sidebar rules are for actual wedding vendors. We don't want the big guys squashing the little guys (and girls!). We want everyone to be able to have a place to come and sell their gently (or let's face it, BARELY) used wedding items. But I would also like to include the few who make lovely things by hand and may have an Etsy shop, and need an outlet. Go ahead. Bring them here. Let's be friends.

But...

IF YOU ARE A WEDDING VENDOR -- DO NOT POST YOUR BUSINESS HERE.

IF YOU MAKE MONEY BY SELLING YOUR SERVICES OR RENTING ITEMS TO PEOPLE FOR THEIR WEDDING -- DO NOT POST HERE.

IF YOU'RE NOT SURE IF WHAT YOU DO IS CONSIDERED TO BE AGAINST SUB RULES -- ASK FIRST.

STOP posting "Remove if against the rules." READ THE SIDEBAR. If you keep doing it, you will be banned from the sub. I'm done with it.

<3 Thanks


r/weddingswap • • 18m ago

Got scammed on here :(

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I wanted to post this to warn other people to be extra cautious when buying or selling on here. I recently posted looking for specific lace gloves/veils, and someone commented to message them. We discussed in detail over reddit, and then texted back and forth for a while. She sent me "photos" of her wedding day that did not look AI generated at all, the whole thing seemed completely normal, and for some reason I just trusted it. I ended up paying her over Zelle, and she kept me posted as she went to the post office, sent me tracking, etc.

It's been a couple of days and the tracking number is still not working, and her reddit account has now been banned. I know it was very silly of me and I am obviously kicking myself because I never fall for these things. I'm extra sad because the budget I had stowed away for my accessories is now gone. Hoping my bank will consider reimbursing me but that feels unlikely.

TLDR - I would NOT recommend directly buying something from someone on here unless you live local and can exchange in person. Have them post it on Still White or something similar so you're protected.


r/weddingswap • • 15h ago

Searching for Tomboy Toes shoes for my wedding! Wingtip Commanders in Coffee Brown, size 36 or 27

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Hi! I'm getting married next year (!) and there's a particular shoe I've dreamed of getting married in since I was in high school more than a decade ago...... but the company went out of business this year. 🤦‍♂️

As you might be able to relate to, finding masculine dress shoes in sizes that fit an afab person is a struggle. Tomboy Toes was the only company I've found that makes exactly what I want, in the quality that I want, in sizes that fit!

This is a shot in the dark, but if anyone out there is looking to sell a gently used pair of Tomboy Toes Wingtip Commanders in the Coffee Brown color, size 36 or 37, PLEASE send me a PM. You'd be helping my gay wedding dreams come true!

(Posting from a throwaway account.)


r/weddingswap • • 1d ago

SELL Selling my Cinq Louise gown

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Wore this for my wedding day and loved it. 🤍 It’s now dry-cleaned and ready to be shipped out.

Please see Stillwhite for details, more photos, and pricing.

https://www.stillwhite.com/539847-cinq


r/weddingswap • • 1d ago

Looking for Ulla Johnson set

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Looking for this set in a size M or if someone could share comparable recs!


r/weddingswap • • 1d ago

NEED Looking for this dress

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r/weddingswap • • 2d ago

Costum double breasted pentru o nuntă la castel în Olanda

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r/weddingswap • • 2d ago

Anybody have experience purchasing a wedding dress from Cao Tram Bridal?

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r/weddingswap • • 2d ago

After-Party Dress

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r/weddingswap • • 2d ago

SELL Selling $200 Revelry Gift Card

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Hello all, I am selling an unused Revelry gift card from my recent wedding. One of my bridesmaids ended up needing to purchase her dress from another company so I had this left over.

The card is valued at $200 and I am selling for $180. Payment via PayPal Goods and Services only please. All gift card information will be sent via email, which will look like the second picture.

Please reach out via DM with any questions!


r/weddingswap • • 3d ago

SELL selling my seema gujral wedding lengha

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25 Upvotes

for my desi (or not) brides. please forgive the horrible formatting below. there seems to be a glitch in reddit.

  1. Bought from : Frontier Heritage USA. Seema Gujral. Proof can be provided.
  2. Purchase cost: $4,100 USD including tax (I haggled, it was priced $4,800 before tax)
  3. Selling for: $2,500 USD inclusive of shipping in the USA, maybe Canada, let’s talk.
  4. Negotiable : Yes, but with limit

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5. Size: DM for measurements. I am 5’5”
6. Condition: worn once for 10 hours. there are some beads missing (not many), but I have a bag of extra beads included with the item. the very bottom of the lengha evidently kissed the floor, and is not pure white, but is still looking nice. pics on request please lulu DM me. I had the garment professionally dry cleaned with a steam iron.
7. shipping from the Bay Area USA. if you are nearby, try on is welcome. DM me.
I know that buying these pieces is like buying a car. You probably want to put a lot of thought into this and I am here to make this process as transparent as possible. I will provide any pictures you like and I’m willing to FaceTime if it would be helpful. there is only one photo on this post because it was too slow to upload more. I will provide many photos upon request!!


r/weddingswap • • 2d ago

ThomKat Fall Mother-of-the-Bride Boutique Flyer

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r/weddingswap • • 3d ago

SELL Artificial flowers for sale

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I have a ton of dark red roses and ranunculus flowers from my wedding that are very realistic! Some are still in their original boxes and never got used. There’s literally hundreds, so many I can’t count!


r/weddingswap • • 3d ago

SELL Six Teal & Orange Mini Floral Centerpieces ($40)

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Are these your colors? These brand-new latex foam floral centerpieces are all yours for $40. Pick up in San Francisco or I can ship them for $5.

  • Floral centerpieces x6 (Vases not included)
  • Each floral centerpiece measures 8.5 tall by 6 across.
  • Flower stems are wrapped with brown satin ribbon and a peacock green velvet bow. Stem is about 4" tall and 0.5" thick, and should easily fit into any simple centerpiece container like mason jars, bud vases, glass vases, etc.
  • NOTE: These realistic-looking flowers are made of latex foam. Please keep them away from the flame to maintain the shape of foam flowers.

r/weddingswap • • 4d ago

Never worn or altered wedding dress from 2021

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Antonio Gual, Jade Wedding Dress, size US 4- $1500

Never Worn- No Alterations Antonio Gual Dress. In Brooklyn, NY

Italian Silk Faille V-neck. Strapless sweetheart with pockets. Beautiful large train with buttons down the back. 100% silk. Bought in 2021 and never worn or altered. Comes with spaghetti straps to use if you'd like. Fits well a size 4. Light feeling material- with nice sheen. I'm providing my measurements but the dress hasn't been altered to my exact size. Welcome to fit on before purchase.

Height 5'3"with shoes

Bust 33"

Waist 28"

Hips 38"

Has been stored with protection for the fabric.


r/weddingswap • • 3d ago

SELL Selling custom dress

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Selling custom dress made to measurements - I ended up not needing it and haven’t worn it other than it being tried on in the picture. It’s too long on me. Featuring corset back. I didn’t tie the corset in the back so it’s currently not cinched in the picture.

Based in NYC and prefer to meet up to sell. Purchased for $1.3k and looking to sell for $1K

Measurements - 32” bust, 25.5” waist
Dress is long and meant for someone ~5’6/7


r/weddingswap • • 4d ago

NEED ISO Truvelle Assel!

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I’m in love with the Truvelle Assel but it’s made to order so very hard to come by second hand— if anyone here was considering selling theirs I’d be super interested!!! USA, sept 2027 wedding, size 16-22


r/weddingswap • • 4d ago

SELL Calla Blanche- new in bag with tags- size 10-PHL

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Updated/Repost: price reduced- got married a month ago (not in this dress) and dropped the price to close to half off retail/what I paid in May when I purchased it.

Please see photos on stillwhite.com link. Sale does not need to be through the site if more local. Feel free to message me on either platform. Thanks!

New April 2026: the Calla Blanche Branwen- style 126112 (see designer site) in ivory/light nude size 10- new in bag with tags.

Sparkle, strapless neckline, sheath silhouette.

So in love with this gorgeous dress chosen for our beach destination wedding that was scheduled for November. We have since made the choice to cancel and elope instead.

I am located in Philadelphia but open to shipping. Please let me know if interested with a reasonable offer. This dress deserves to be worn and admired!


r/weddingswap • • 4d ago

✨ Bridal Bags & Potlis 👛

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r/weddingswap • • 4d ago

NEED ISO Anne Barge Gloves and/or Veil

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Hi all! I purchased the Anne Barge Dakota gown and I'm looking to buy an Anne Barge veil and sleeves secondhand (buying new is out of my budget). I love the Wessex gloves and Wessex veil, and the matching Dakota gloves/veil. Open to other styles.

I don't need these items until August '27, so timing is flexible if your wedding hasn't happened yet. Thank you!!!


r/weddingswap • • 8d ago

SELL Selling Kyha Salacea Gown

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16 Upvotes

Selling size 4 Kyha Salacea gown. Worn once and dry cleaned. No signs of wear. See more info: https://www.stillwhite.com/541873-chosen-by-kyha


r/weddingswap • • 7d ago

ISO: Jenny Yoo Mackenzie Veil

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r/weddingswap • • 10d ago

SELL JENNY YOO x HOPE LAVINE - maren dress

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SELLING Jenny Yoo x Hope Lavine - Maren dress

Size 4

Dark Ivory color

No alternations. Original Box and designer tags. Worn once, dry cleaned.
$500 OBO + shipping (or free pickup in San Francisco CA)


r/weddingswap • • 10d ago

SELL Selling never-worn CINQ The Louise, size 6, $7k, NYC — come get her!

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Selling my CINQ The Louise gown for $7k (retail $8k). Plans changed, dress never worn and would love her to get the respect she deserves <3

  • cinq.la/thelouisegown
  • Label size 6 (I'm usually a 4, and the corset's been taken in to fit me)
  • Made to order in LA and picked up earlier this year. Receipt available.
  • Only alteration: corset at Nadin (KYHA's go-to tailor). Hem and length are untouched.
  • Listed on Stillwhite with more details and pics: https://www.stillwhite.com/542011-cinq

Very happy to do try-ons in Greenpoint, answer questions or send more pics, so message me!


r/weddingswap • • 11d ago

SELL Kyha sequin two piece set. Voss corset and Sauline skirt. Kyha size 5, US 6/8

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Reselling the outfit I finally found! Tried to dupe my way to this look and it never worked. Would love to rehome this beauty.

loved wearing this for my second look, if you know Kyha, you know the quality is unmatched!!

Kyha full sequin two piece set. Voss corset and Sauline skirt. Kyha size 5 US 6/8 details on still white

https://www.stillwhite.com/539355-kyha