r/TrollCoping • u/Astromnicalbear • Aug 25 '26
Trigger Warning. This post contains the subject of transphobia and racism. We advise that you do not read this post if you are experiencing extreme dysphoria or if you are currently unable to consume this content.
We have noticed an increase of submissions containing 4Tran content. As a result, we have decided to make a public statement containing our stance and what our future plans are for this subreddit. We, as the mod team and subreddit, do not support 4Tran in any shape or form.
For those who have been lucky enough to avoid this side of the internet, 4Tran is the /tttt/ imageboard of 4chan. In simpler terms, it is the Trans community of the LGBT board on 4chan. Many users who fall down this pipeline end up in a toxic mindset and participate in harmful imagery, “terminology” or ideology. Whilst we acknowledge that many users who are in these communities suffer from extreme dysphoria and self-hatred, it does not excuse the slurs created and destructive behaviour inflicted onto others.
Due to the increase of 4Tran gaining more attention, we refuse to allow any 4Tran content onto this subreddit. If a user refers to themselves as a slur, or a term commonly associated with 4Tran, the submission will be removed under “Other Reasons”. If we notice that the user submitted a vent post containing this terminology, we will contact them via modmail and ask them to alter the terminology used. Allowing users to call themselves slurs is causing further dysphoria and self-harm. If we catch a user using a 4Tran slur towards another, the content will automatically be removed and appropriate action will occur. We do not tolerate bigotry.
Posts that are venting about 4Tran, 4Tran content / interactions and any harm that it has caused, etc., does not fall under this rule. 4Tran slurs / terminology is allowed under scrutiny- it can be mentioned, quoted and vented about but if you are caught using it for its harmful purpose, you will face appropriate action.
We have managed to compile a list containing some of the most common slurs / terminology that we have come across. We will not be providing definitions as we do not want this post to be weaponised. If we have missed anything that is not on this list, please inform us so we can update it. Please read this at your own risk.
We are aware that the origins of Foid and Moid are not from 4Tran. However, we have noticed an overlap of the 4Tran community using incel terminology within their submissions. As a result, those terms are also banned unless you hit the exception mentioned above.
Edit; It has been mentioned that "Clocky" does not have the same weight compared to a mass majority of the words listed above. I wanted to make a note stating that we are aware that "clocky" is not necessarily a toxic term in and of itself but a lot of the context that we have seen it in has been derogatory. As a result, it was added as a safety precaution. However, I would like to make it clear that the term "clocky" will be approached with nuance and would only be removed if the contents show that it is done in a harmful / derogatory manner.
Edit 2; I acknowledge the error made with the term "clocky" and have recognised that it was not appropriate for me to lump it with slurs. For that, I deeply apologise and will expand upon additional context I failed to provide during the drafting process.
The term 'clock/y' is not a 4Tran term nor is this term outright banned. This term will be strictly monitored due to past subreddit history due to many bad faith users and the context we saw it in 4Tran spaces. Clocky can be used for its purpose - if you vent and call yourself clocky, that will be allowed. Mentioning the term and discussing it is also allowed as long as the contents of the submission doesn't weaponise the term. Any comments where people use the term in order to project harm onto others or to create a reaction will be removed.
Once again, I deeply apologise for missing this crucial error within the drafting process. It will not happen again.
r/TrollCoping • u/coolfunkDJ • Jul 14 '26
Greetings folks,
We are once again opening up our applications for new moderators. Since our last push for moderators, we've had many great new staff members join the team and help contribute. However, as the subreddit has grown in size (and some staff have resigned), we are now looking for extra moderators who can put aside free time to help keep the community safe.
We are looking for people who can handle heavy topics, have good interpersonal skills and approach situations with nuance and maturity. We must ask that you are over the age of 18 and don't hold any bigoted views against groups of people. If you have bias towards any subjects and are unable to remain civil, then this role is not for you. If you have any triggers, that's okay! Not every topic is trigger free but please let us know about the trigger if you are accepted onto the mod team
If this sounds like the job for you, we would absolutely love to hear from you! By joining you would be helping give a community of vulnerable people a safe space and hopefully making a difference for those within. :)
r/TrollCoping • u/Savings-Fun-461 • 2h ago
Image belongs to Employeepractical514
This is obviously a strawman but, I just wish there were an equal amount of fanservice for both men and woman
r/TrollCoping • u/neurotoxin_69 • 12h ago
I'm glad to finally have a psychiatrist who does her fucking job and doesn't just sit and gaslight and laugh at me for thirty minutes to an hour, but I also want my ADHD under control so I can actually be focused and able to remember things and to be able to sit down and do something productive with my time without needing a million breaks. I also find it incredibly annoying how she acts like it's impossible for someone to have ADHD if they have depression and anxiety.
I'm willing to try the medications she's prescribing me with, but it feels like a waste of time when I already know what's safe and effective for me.
For why I told her about my diagnoses to begin with, she asked me for some background information, including pre-existing conditions, when we first met which was over a year ago. I'm getting really sick of the psychiatric system but I genuinely need to be medicated. I'm thinking about getting a new psychiatrist if I can't convince her to take my ADHD seriously.
r/TrollCoping • u/_CaptainAmerica__ • 1d ago
Too mentally tired to even add anything about it in the caption, I just feel exhausted and empty
r/TrollCoping • u/bushroseie • 17h ago
He tried to violently drown me :( a adult was there but she didn't care. He only let me go because my mom was coming back.
r/TrollCoping • u/Electromad6326 • 10h ago
I've already gotten into a spiral because of this whole thing along with my OCD making things worse for me.
Not only will it result in me no longer being able to access the internet (which means I'll no longer be able to talk to my friends or share my work) but I'm also worried about what will happen to me if I submit my ID and it results in me ending up in a situation I don't want to be in.
I'm not sure if this post might also be used against me as well but I'm genuinely concerned about the ID Verification laws and how it will lead to you needing an ID just to use it and who knows what they'll do with your information.
So for context, my country recently passed this ID Verification law to improve children's safety which makes the internet practically unusable for people who can't submit an ID to prove their adulthood. But I feel as though the whole practice is inherently invasive and knowing how it all works elsewhere and from hearing about the reality of such measures being implemented elsewhere. I have a rather bad feeling about this.
It doesn't help that opposition against it is pretty weak and I don't have the means to organize against it either. I feel like my days on the internet are rather numbered and I have so many plans with others yet those plans would have to be cut short because of this.
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r/TrollCoping • u/Stupid-Cat- • 15h ago
the thought randomly popped into my head a couple days ago and has been so persistent that i have come very close to doing it just so its over and i can rest. i feel like im going crazy lol
r/TrollCoping • u/Life-Award4261 • 1d ago
This is your sign to give yourself some patience today
r/TrollCoping • u/Dae_mon7 • 11h ago
Like, at least he didn't worst as her (my mom), but still, if I cried for this, what will happen to me when that time happens? When I am away from their abuse they inflicted? Will they even mourn me as their real son as I probably would for them?
...
I don't know, I am just sensitive tonight
r/TrollCoping • u/Dae_mon7 • 11h ago
Yes, I sometimes hate myself for how that dependent I am to other's opinions, I mean, why I am even like this?
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r/TrollCoping • u/HappyCatPerson • 14h ago
I’m not even particularly upset tbh I’ve just been ruminating hard core on these things.
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r/TrollCoping • u/kotoamatsukami_me • 1d ago
So i got obsessed with this guy let’s call him ‘S’ NOT ROMANTICALLY THIS IS NOT A ROMANTIC INTEREST ‼️ i mean, at least i think it is not, do correct me if i am wrong?
We clicked instantly, and i looked forward to chatting w him everyday(we met online)
My entire mood was dependent on S immediately after meeting him, i can’t control it, he has my emotional regulation in a chokehold, i do believe i’m easily emotionally dysregulated idk why
So when he was unavailable I get distressed and panic and it’s *all-consuming,* it is irritating bc i can only think of him and i can’t study, i was even thinking of him during exams
When he gives me attention it feels like i am in heaven even if he was being very mean and rude 😭 yes he got rly angry later on in our friendship
How S thinks of me matters sm i think “he either hates me or doesn’t care abt me” and it makes me suicidal and i try so hard to get his attention but the more i talk the more i fumble and say terrible things, and when he make me feel like i meant nothing to him it makes me want to kms. I overanalyse and overthink a lot about ‘us’
He makes me want to commit just to get his attention, and lie and say things for shock value just for a little bit of attention, thankfully i never acted on anything too serious bc i was aware it wld scare him away, yet he still pulled away eventually⁉️‼️⁉️
I even grovelled to him just to get him to take me back, shame a lot of shame ik it sounds pathetic, i never grovelled, ever. But i poured my heart out for him just to be ignored???????
“Do you hate me?” “Do you like me?” “Did i do smth wrong?” “Please i will change” “im sorry” “please take me back” “why are you ghosting me?” ‼️‼️‼️
I wonder what he thinks of me now, why he left me
Also idk if he caused my depressive episode but while i was in contact w him i was super suicidal and sh’d a lot due to my inability to control myself, i always wished i cld send him all that but he’d probably block me 🤤
I didn’t want to be another ‘crazy friend’
Tldr: his rejection(perceived and real) makes me suicidal and up and down mood swings, his attention was euphoric even when he was mean to me, I was desperate for his attention, is this normal? Is this smth everyone feels?
r/TrollCoping • u/ImpressionClassic665 • 1d ago
"Talk to an mental health professional"! Nah, f- that. I already mentioned so many times that I struggle with suicidal ideation to my therapist and the psychiatrists at the day clinic. They only ask if you're planning to hurt yourself and if you say you won't jump off a bridge the next day, they completely dismiss you. They don't ask any other questions than that one and never mention an safety plan at all.
I don't know why I even bother. Hopefully the new SSRI on monday will do something. At least the previous one had (probable) (hypo)-mania as side effect/s
End of the vent.
r/TrollCoping • u/SaberToothBladeMastr • 1d ago
r/TrollCoping • u/Cytrynaball • 1d ago
Fucking Twitter again. I hate how my biggest special interest right now (a certain music genre) is currently the laughing stock and a lightning rod for hate because a cringe tiktok user made a racist remark, saying that the genre in question is better than rap. So of course now every fan of the genre is compared to them, we're being accused of being bigots, we're being called slurs, called larpers, and we are ridiculed for liking an experimental and alternative non linear music genre. Yes genres are under fire all the time from miserable twitter users, but I hate just how WIDESPREAD and COMMON the negative attention is. Like a pariah. Thousands upon thousands of likes on posts that shit on the genre call it trash and actively harass people who enjoy it. This is how the so called accepting community acts? Hating alternative, avant garde art because its different? Judging the entire community based on what a stupid racist kid said in a comment? All that, mindlessly liked and repeated by hundreds online.
I'm exaggerating aren't I? If these people only saw that I'm writing this post right now they would call me slurs and laugh at me for taking it this personally. Truth is I can't not do so, I have disorders, I fight my thoughts every day. I wish these neurotypical people weren't so bigoted and wanted to understand. But they hate, hate, mindlessly hate.
Sorry if some words repeat, or tenses are incorrect, I'm very frustrated and not a native speaker. It's hard seeing this much hate on something you feel so close to and love so much.
r/TrollCoping • u/Dae_mon7 • 19h ago
And if you're curious what happened to made me said this:
It's a soap opera that takes irl misfortunes in real life like crimes or misery and makes stories about it (and make it have a happy ending since why not) and somehow makes all their characters have this white and black dynamic (in being so good in everything with no defects, and being comically evil), and this chapter was about SA, which made a character that was comically evil, which, for rage, I said things like that, until I realized how shitty I was being to a character that could be easily a victim but anyone never acknowledged..
I mean, I know that it was the intention, but still, I hate myself for what I said, and I hate the fact this could be easily apply to me because my stupid parents were so happy forgetting me to even teach me was good and bad for how useless I am to them, even when she did what she did to me.. i don't know, I just feel really bad for what I said..
r/TrollCoping • u/They-Them_Moonwalker • 21h ago
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r/TrollCoping • u/Fancy_Development832 • 1d ago
r/TrollCoping • u/JimHogg1964 • 10h ago
I love her so much and I’m scared of her and I avoid her and I’m weird and I’m attention seeking please make this stop
