r/TopCharacterTropes • u/goonbrarian • 11h ago
Characters (Sad trope) Character can’t relate to their own culture.
Sopranos, Paulie in Italy: The guys go to Italy and they’re all pretty excited, especially Paulie who has a very romanticized idea of Italy. So when he finally gets there he’s expecting a spiritual homecoming only for reality to come crashing down that he’s extremely out of touch from his own homeland. He greets everyone by saying “commendatori” under the assumption it’s a friendly greeting and gets blank stares from the locals before ultimately ignored. When he tries to order food the servers have no idea what he’s talking about since everything he grew up eating in New Jersey was a bastardized of the original, so they serve him the original dish which he finds disgusting. Eventually a disillusioned Paulie gets so desperate for cultural connection that he hires a local sex worker and tries to relate to her, only for her not to be interested at all.
Bojack Horseman, Diane in Vietnam: After her divorce from Mr Peanutbutter, Diane flees Los Angeles to go to Vietnam under the guise of reconnecting with her roots. When she gets there however she realizes she’s basically a tourist, having grown up in Boston and never actually learning how to speak or understand the language. The most poignant scene of the episode is when she’s puts on one of the traditional dresses, she comments on how it feels like a costume to her further showing the discontent she has with her own culture.
