r/Random_Acts_Of_Sex • u/ExcitingishUsername • Sep 06 '22
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The menu options are divided up based on activity on Reddit communities similar to this one; areas that get a lot of posts have lots of divisions to make them practical to search, while regions where Reddit is not popularly used may be divided only into continents. Once this has been operating for a while, we will review the search divisions to see if any improvements can be made.
For example, if you're a woman seeking a guy in Calgary, you'd start by picking Canadian Prairies from the Americas region menu. When you find an appropriate M4F Alberta post, tapping on its flair will show others like it, with the exact R4R tag and province. Alternatively, you can edit the search query after selecting a menu item, to keep only the desired flair:"Alberta" search query.
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Due to severe space limitations in the menu, some of the names are difficult to read, so here's what they mean:
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r/Random_Acts_Of_Sex • u/ExcitingishUsername • Oct 14 '24
r/Random_Acts_Of_Sex • u/Zane_Sway • 6h ago
21M looking for women in Georgia (age range 19-30) casual, no string attached hookup. Preferably open to trying anal (I’ve wanted to try it), BJ (on the condition I eat you out otherwise I will feel bad).
r/Random_Acts_Of_Sex • u/Empress1978 • 7h ago
I'm a normal, professional, well-adjusted, intelligent, funny WM with a 7 inch and thick BWC looking for regular passionate and amazing sex.
I ask you be clean and drama free. I love getting deep and breast play, as well as paying attention to your entire body. I derive a lot of pleasure from pleasing you, so the more I can make you cum, the better. I'd also like to learn more about you and have a connection - it makes the sex so much hotter.
More about me: I'm 38, 6'1, HWP, 175, short dark hair, brownish hazel eyes, disease free, vaccinated, drug free. Recently divorced, so looking for casual fun but a connection too.
I’m located in Southern Maryland. Let me know if this is something you'd be interested in and we can go from there. I am happy to exchange pics as well once we connect. Looking forward to hearing from you and learning more about who you are.
r/Random_Acts_Of_Sex • u/invisibleman25 • 7h ago
I am mainly looking for someone that's local in the WNY area. I would be open to online too though if we clicked.
A bit about me: I am a 44 year old dude in the Buffalo NY area. 6' tall, dark hair, dark eyes, trim beard and athletic body. I play sports and keep active. Also love to play guitar in my spare time.
A bit about you: Loves men with dominant personalities. But also enjoys a man that can be sweet and caring.
r/Random_Acts_Of_Sex • u/Youngbobaphett • 11h ago
Late 20s, 5’10”, average build, corporate professional. Currently staying in a luxury hotel in Central London (Sunday–Thursday) and looking for a submissive girl who wants more than just a quick meet.I want to start by taking you toy shopping in Soho or around Tottenham Court Road. Walking around, choosing things for you and with you, deciding what goes in the bag, building the tension while you’re already wet knowing exactly what those toys are going to be used for later. The shopping is part of the scene, control, anticipation, and making you wait.Once we’re back at the hotel (or yours if you’re hosting), I expect you to be ready to be used. I’m a natural dominant. Bondage, impact, orgasm control, light humiliation, service, being told what to do and when you’re allowed to cum for me.I’m open to an afternoon, evening, full night, or a few days if we click. Happy to make it regular if you’re good. I can travel to you or put you in an Uber.
Aftercare is very important to me and always happy to wind down after with a few drinks and a movie.Outside of play I’m into sci-fi movies and books, combat sports and motorsport. Easy to talk to when the scene is over.If the idea of being taken shopping, chosen for, and then properly used afterwards turns you on, message me. Tell me a bit about yourself, what you’re into, and what you want done to you. Pics and chat first so we both know it’s mutual.Looking forward to deciding what ends up in the bag… and what ends up in you.
r/Random_Acts_Of_Sex • u/PlaneTakingOff • 12h ago
I’m looking for a friendly woman who can teach me how to pleasure her. I’m a somewhat inexperienced guy and a late bloomer. However, I’m a patient person, and I like to listen and learn. I enjoy giving shoulder and neck rubs too. I like to make people feel good.
I’m single, in San Diego, California, about 5’8” and 200lbs.
I have May STI test results (all negative).
If you have any questions, please let me know :)
(I’m open to people all over socal)
r/Random_Acts_Of_Sex • u/Gold-Listen4981 • 13h ago
Life has all gone well, but I’ve been too focused on work to take the time to find someone to play with.
I’m a 6’2 white guy with broad shoulders, lots of tattoos, brown hair and blue eyes. I travel a lot, keep an exceptionally clean house, and like to live in the moment.
I’m seeking someone with personality, good banter, who is active, clean, and doesn’t mind spontaneous adventures.
If this finds it way across your desk, reach out with a little about you and let’s see if there’s a spark 😏
r/Random_Acts_Of_Sex • u/wildworldworldwide • 18h ago
Anyone interested in riding a BWC tonight, 8 inches and thick, willing to drive and or get a hotel if needed, tall with a lean/fit build, interested in single ladies only, maybe couples focusing on the girl in a cuck, bull hotwife situation, don't be afraid to say hi, looking forward to meet you. Pics on my profile
r/Random_Acts_Of_Sex • u/reddragon879 • 1d ago
Hey! Thanks for stopping by.
I'm 25, East Asian, 5'8", 150 lbs, average build, clean, respectful, and easygoing.
I'm looking for the kind of FWB where we're just as excited about grabbing dinner or boba as we are about getting each other's clothes off. Ideally, I'd love something ongoing where we text during the week, flirt, laugh, hang out, and build real chemistry instead of feeling like strangers who only meet when we're horny.
I'm especially hoping to find someone who's a bit of a nerd. Not necessarily stereotypically nerdy—just someone who's naturally curious, gets really into random interests, enjoys going down rabbit holes, and thinks "wait, what if we tried this?" is a fun sentence.
And yes, that applies to the bedroom too. I've been getting interested in experimenting with different techniques and seeing what actually works, including some personal goals around increasing my volume. I'd love to find someone who's amused by the idea of being my enthusiastic research partner—and I'm more than happy to return the favor. If you're curious about figuring out what makes you tick, experimenting with different approaches, or seeing how far we can take our little science experiments, I'm game.
No spreadsheets required.
...Although I can't promise I won't eventually make one.
Outside of the bedroom, I have not just a touch, but a full whack of AuDHD, so I have a ton of hobbies and nerdy interests we can talk about and maybe explore together. I'm into photography, cooking, trying new restaurants, boba, walking, random drives, exploring new places, Genshin (I sorta play), 3D printing, and generally getting way too interested in whatever happens to catch my attention.
My ideal Saturday is probably finding a new ramen spot, wandering around somewhere we've never been, getting distracted by something random along the way, then spending way too long arguing about what movie to watch because neither of us can decide.
I'm happy to chat and get comfortable beforehand, but I'm ultimately looking for something in person. If we seem like a good match, I'd rather actually make plans—grab boba, get dinner, go for a walk, whatever—and see if we click than spend weeks texting without ever meeting. No pressure to rush into anything; I just want the conversation to eventually lead somewhere in real life.
I'm naturally a pretty giving and attentive partner. I really enjoy focusing on my partner's pleasure and taking my time rather than rushing through things. I'm big on making out, plenty of foreplay, and figuring out what my partner enjoys because everyone is different. Good communication, mutual enthusiasm, and feeling comfortable with each other make everything so much better.
I'm open-minded and enjoy exploring new things together. If you're the kind of person who likes experimenting, communicating about what works, laughing when something definitely doesn't work, and trying again, I think we'd probably have a lot of fun.
I can sometimes host depending on the situation, but if you're able to host, that's definitely a plus. Otherwise, I'm happy to split a hotel.
I'm East Asian, wear glasses, and I'm happy to exchange photos early on so we can make sure there's mutual attraction. Attraction is subjective, so no hard feelings if we're not each other's type.
If you've made it this far, send me the word "peach" in your first message so I know you actually read the post. I'd also love to hear what you're nerdy about, what you enjoy doing, or what random topic you could talk about for three hours without realizing it.
I'm not necessarily looking for a relationship, but I am looking for something genuine and ongoing—where we actually see each other, enjoy each other's company, have great chemistry, experiment together, and look forward to hanging out again.
If you're a quietly nerdy woman who thinks this sounds more fun than a conventional FWB setup, say hi. :)
P.S. Yes, I speak Chinese.
r/Random_Acts_Of_Sex • u/Square_Swimming_7880 • 1d ago
One of the most erotic experiences of my life was getting this amazing handjob
years ago from a married girlfriend. I think what made the experience so hot
was how ishe was totally turned on and lost in the moment. I remember her
sitting cross-legged on the bed with her hair spilling over her face and biting
her lower lip. She just used one finger, sliding it over the sensitive spot on
the underside of my cock, watching it get harder and dribble pre-cum.
Eventually I got so turned even though she was only rubbing the spot on my cock
with one finger, slowly, watching it closely as it trembled and jerked.
Eventually I couldn't stand it anymore; I lost all control and started to buck
and spurt hot sperm all over the sheets, all the while she was just watching,
stroking, and biting her lip. Can you help me do that again?
r/Random_Acts_Of_Sex • u/Playful_Challenge594 • 1d ago
Back in Seattle, such an amazing city! It's my last night Seattle before I fly out. I travel here often for work and do not get a lot of time to play. That's where I hope a sexy fellow Redditor can help out!
I'm 49, clean, ddf, and looking for a sexy woman to get sweaty and naughty with! I can host ( have a great hotel room). Send me a message, come on over, and...... 😈
r/Random_Acts_Of_Sex • u/distantskies • 1d ago
Heyy, I'm a 26yo lesbian looking to meet some like-minded people to see where it leads. Open to one-off meets or something long term if we hit it off.
5'2, average build, short hair and kinda nerdy. I'm kink-friendly and am a switch. I'm happy to share more info regarding my links if that's your thing - totally cool with all things vanilla too though.
All women welcome (cis or MtF), just please be 21+ and willing to exchange face pics after chatting a while.
Can't host but willing to travel within reason and can make accom arrangements if needed.
Drop me a message :)
r/Random_Acts_Of_Sex • u/Ok_Pianist6052 • 1d ago
It's natural, what's not to like? I’d guess something like 30-40% of guys prefer women with body hair... the haters are just more vocal, sadly. Add on that everyone is so porn brained now and actually finding a nice bush in the wild feels like winning the lottery.
So if you’ve got a full bush it’s like an oasis to a man dying of thirst, and I’m diving in face first.
I'd love to build an ongoing FWB relationship where we can chat comfortably about whatever, in between satisfying each other with explorative and erotic play sessions.
Kink not a requirement but it can be fun! I enjoy talking about likes/dislikes so don't be shy to express them.
About me: I’m a chill normal guy with a job, friends, and creative/nerdy hobbies (feel free to ask). Play safe and test regularly. Able to host in Oakland. Generally easy on the eyes, blond hair, blue eyes, above average height and muscular - not skinny enough for a six pack but I’m in good shape from lifting heavy 3x/week. Sexually experienced giver with lots of stamina and a nice thick cock for you to enjoy.
That should be enough to get us started, so if you’re still reading this go ahead and message me already! Pics get priority, and some details about you go a long way towards making this fun - put some effort in, you're worth it.
r/Random_Acts_Of_Sex • u/goingdowntoearth • 1d ago
Hey hey,
Reddit might not be the go-to for this kind of thing here in Germany, but hey—I figured it’s worth a shot! 😊
So here’s the deal: I’m a bit of a late bloomer when it comes to the whole intimacy thing. Aside from kissing, I haven’t explored much yet. Not because I’m not interested—I definitely am—but more because I tend to get shy, especially when it comes to flirting. I’m not exactly the “walk up to a stranger in a bar and drop a pickup line” kind of guy.
What am I looking for?:
I’m hoping to meet someone who’s open-minded, kind, and maybe a little curious too. Age,body type, ethnicity I don't care too much abotu as long as you are 18+. Whether you're experienced and feel like showing someone the ropes, or you’re also just figuring things out—either way, it’s all good. I care more about getting to know each other, having a laugh, and seeing if there’s a vibe between us. Oh, and I’m mobile and alsocan host!
Now a bit about me: I just started working after finishing uni, so I’m entering that fun “trying to adult” phase of life. I’m not a gym rat, but I go for runs now and then and used to play some sports when I was younger. I’m caucasian, around 180 cm tall, about 75 kg, blue-eyed, and I guess I’d describe myself as cuddly-average—not a model, not a troll. Somewhere right in the middle 😄
If you’re even a little curious, feel free to slide into my DMs. I’m happy to answer anything, swap stories, or just chat and see where things go. No pressure, just good vibes.
Hope to hear from you soon!
r/Random_Acts_Of_Sex • u/TravelBluColTech • 1d ago
39 male here coming in town for work from the 25th-31st of OCT...
Im 5'10 about 210 pounds (workout regularly), blue collar guy...I have a great smile with dark sense of humor, love live music/concerns and festivals...kinda shy at first but I do open up after I get to know you alil more
I have some pics on my profile and will send more if interested...hoping to hear back from you, send DM ☺️
r/Random_Acts_Of_Sex • u/dlr359 • 1d ago
CD/t-girl hosting privately/discreetly in safe, quiet suburban neighborhood. I'm 5'7, 150, cute, fit, fem, smooth, clean, ddf, and discreet. I only host.
Looking for tall, attractive, dominant, straight/masculine and fit/muscular guys who top, 18yo to 45yo. Big cummers, gym rats, bodybuilders/powerlifters, and college guys a plus.
I'm into getting fucked raw and creampied. Clean/ddf here, you should be too.
r/Random_Acts_Of_Sex • u/Mysterious-Plan-2802 • 1d ago
just trying to find a woman to enthusiastically engage. Hopefully we can both explore some interests/kinks. potentially down for something consistent/fwb, and willing to put in the work. free on Wednesday and thursdays.
r/Random_Acts_Of_Sex • u/Middle-Tonight-9638 • 1d ago
Hoping for a discrete FWB I’m a 36-year-old, 6’0”, 195-pound guy living in Northwest Houston who’s really into fitness and staying active. I’m also a huge sci-fi nerd and love learning random facts, especially when it comes to ancient history and the Middle Ages. I’m naturally curious and enjoy going down rabbit holes on interesting topics, whether it’s science, history, or some completely random piece of information I’ve never heard before. I like staying in shape, learning new things, and having a wide range of interests that keep life interesting.
r/Random_Acts_Of_Sex • u/joshtheeater82488 • 1d ago
I love to eat pussy, looking for a selfish and even bossy female who needs a submissive eater. I want absolutely nothing in return at all. I just want to eat pussy until you tell me that you are doing using my mouth. I am 35 years old, Dominican and I am heavyset. Very clean, I always smell great. Use my mouth please
r/Random_Acts_Of_Sex • u/SoakedBeard85 • 1d ago
I’ll be coming back to Georgia for a week starting this Saturday 10/24 and staying through the following weekend. I will be there for work and personal matters, so a great distraction will be needed. If you’re in the Alpharetta, Cumming or Roswell area, let’s find a good place to meet up or even your place.
All I ask is that you’re clean. You can be single, married or dating someone.
r/Random_Acts_Of_Sex • u/Even-Television5611 • 2d ago
Hey there! I'm 27 years old, and I'm a local student. I'm black, about 5'9 inches and about 230 lbs.
I would describe myself as a very quiet and contemplative kind of person, but I can definitely get wild when the setting is just right, like a party, though I do try to be considerate about it. I really like taking walks out in nature, anime, video games, museums, history and anime. I'm also a very big science and astronomy guy.
I never really had any real opportunity during my younger years to interact with the opposite sex other than in a friendly manner, or to gain experience being sexual with someone, and I'd really like to post this here to see if I can find a really nice, patient woman to show me the ropes as well as to have fun with. I'm open to any type of girl, as long as you are of age. So if you're interested, I'd love to hear from you!
r/Random_Acts_Of_Sex • u/Defiant_Science_5157 • 2d ago
looking for nsa bbw thats into recieving oral and willing to sit on my face.
Also willing to explore and learn from experienced female dom. Message me if your interested.
r/Random_Acts_Of_Sex • u/LazyIntroduction5537 • 2d ago
Looking for an amazing lady to have an enjoyable encounter(s) with. Consensual convivial casual connections are the goal. I am tall brown haired blue ish eyed. Working on getting rid of the dad bod but that's a process. Let's do some cardio together. Nothing would be better than to cuddle up in this chilly weather skin to skin
r/Random_Acts_Of_Sex • u/Top-Web-6456 • 2d ago
Like the title says… I’m in dire need of an affair. Something long term but never opposed to a one time thing. Idk why but I’ve been having this craving to get my hands on some big tits. Not a deal breaker though.
I’m Tall ish, 6’ and 250lbs. Have a dad bod to match. Short dark hair and light eyes. White guy, if that matters. I work in the east bay but live on the peninsula. Bay Area lingo haha.
Message me your favorite food and let’s take things from there