r/POTS • u/Ok_Mycologist_8876 • 9h ago
Vent/Rant My mum does not get it and it so frustrating
today:
Me: āI really donāt want to do *my sport* today Iām so tired and in painā
My mum: āmoving helpsā
Me: āit really doesnāt for meā ( I have dealt with severe exercise intolerance I get nauseous)
My mum: āwell you have to keep movingā
(I go on 30 minute walks everyday. Well try to but I go on very regular walks which is all my body can tolerate)
Me: āi do move but Iām in a lot of pain today and i know itās just going to make it worseā
My mum: āyouāll be fine it'll Helpā
this is pretty much the conv I had with her today. She also very often invalidates how Iām feeling and itās so frustrating and exhausting when the person who is supposed to be helping you doesnāt listen (Iām 16). I feel so unheard and helpless.
I canāt explain my symptoms. I can voice how I feel. Iām so lost on what Iām supposed to do. I get ignored and dismissed because Iām young and to her my symptoms have ācome out of nowhere whereā. When really Iāve been dealing with them for a long time Iāve just only started trying to care for myself and speak up about it. And my symptoms have gotten a lot worse as well.
Any advice from people with a similar issue would be greatly appreciated. thank you.