r/l4l • • Jan 27 '26

Verify to post from new or low karma accounts.

24 Upvotes

There is a minimum karma and account age requirement to post on this sub and we strive to reduce spam as much as possible. However, based on messages we've received, it is understandable why a user would not want to post from the account they use day-to-day. In an effort to address this, we will allow post from new accounts that have been verified behind the scenes.

To do this:

  1. Send the Mods a message from your main account with the higher karma with the name of the new or low karma account you would like to post from.
  2. Mods will verify this and not disclose that information to anyone.
  3. If you have submitted a post from the new or low karma account, Mods will manually approve it and it will appear on the sub.
  4. Messaging the mods from a low karma account will not receive any response.

Feel free to respond to this thread with any questions or concerns. Please also note that posts are removed for other reasons and/or based on reports submitted on that post.


r/l4l • • 3h ago

22F Femme looking to chat with cuties :p

2 Upvotes

hellooo cuties!! ♡ I'm val im 5 ft and 115 lbs I have red back length hair im very femme youll soon find out! im in la so my timezone is pst i’m looking for a genuine connection with another girl who’s sweet, honest, and actually wants to get to know each other. i’m a little strict and strongwilled, but i’m also really caring once i get comfortable with someone :3 i don’t mind verifying, and i’d appreciate the same honesty and effort in return

if you wanna message me, tell me something about yourself!! what music have you been obsessed with lately? what games do you play? favorite horror movie? random fun fact? literally anythinggg, just give me something to yap about with you >_< ♡

I do work night so sometimes I do respond late ! when i’m not working, i’m probably listening to music, watching horror movies, or playing games I love getting to know someone through random conversations, inside jokes, late-night yapping

so come dm me cuties!^^

please no one over 30 thank you and I wont be answering any messages that say "Hi" or just asking questions pls try to talk to me and dont go like after a hour😭


r/l4l • • 2h ago

F 23 [F4F] looking for my future wife

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About me:

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So I'm currently in Texas but I will be moving to Delaware/ surrounding states in 3 - 4 ish years. I'm definitely the stupid goofy type, I love a good running bit. Art is a really big part of my life, I crochet, make jewelry, and draw. I have six pet parakeets and they are my whole world, I am constantly talking about them lol. I love weird conspiracy theories, and stories about cryptids and stuff. I'm currently working on learning how to take apart and understand DS consoles (I'm not tech savvy at all lol). I'm currently working on losing weight, and am currently plus sized you know big thighs, big boobs, cute face, all that jazz. But you know what they say thick thighs save lives.

What im looking for :

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I'm looking for that old school romance, courting each other, flowers, cute goodnight texts. You know taking things slow, and truly getting to know one another. I think shared experiences are important in relationships, and because of that I am strictly Les4Les. I'm looking for a woman who is 23 - 34 years old, and knows exactly what she wants. I typically am more attracted to alternative, masc, soft masc women ,but it's not really a deal breaker if you aren't.

Deal breakers:

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* No drugs of any kind, no vaping weed or any of that. The occasional alcoholic beverage is okay though.

* Must be strictly monogamous.. and no being friends with your exes. Being friends with someone you've seen naked is weird.

* I am atheist and moderate / independent. So I would prefer someone with similarish views. Basically no one who is Christian /Christian adjacent. Politically I would prefer someone who is more left-leaning/ moderate, but as long as you're like not a MAGA Republican it would probably be fine

* Although I do adore cats and dogs I am highly allergic to them . Do I still pet them? Absolutely I do. Do I regret it later? Absolutely I do. I know I'm not happy about it either. 😭😭😭 So if one day we do move in together and you have those animals there would have to be a lot of precautions put in place.

To let me know that you read my whole post please tell me your favorite conspiracy theory / your favorite cryptid.


r/l4l • • 3h ago

18 (almost 19) femme lesbian looking for my someone

1 Upvotes

Hi, I'm and 18y/o femme from BC Canada and I'm looking for someone to talk to and flirt with online! From there I guess we'll see!

(no sexting!!! I'm demisexual!!!)

I'm mixed race, 5'5, brown eyes, brown hair and an athletic build.

I dress alternative-ish. Think cottage core × boho brown, light pink, white, blue ect. I also love flowers and butterflies on anything! (Not in an obnoxious way ofc)

I'm a very artistic person and I'd love someone who shares a love for the arts!

I'm very attracted to people who are a more dominant and not afraid to flirt right of the bat. I'm terrible at initiating anything like that because I'm extremely shy and I get flustered very easily.

My type: butch/masc (not a need as longas you're masc presenting), being a kind human, someone good at communication, understanding, a little older maybe (19-22), athletic or likes to work out.

I'm not super picky!

Please don't respond if: you're not from north America (I don't want there to be a huge difference in time zone), if you just want to sext you will get blocked, if you're over the age of 24 you will also get blocked, and lastly if you're a man... you'll get blocked.😊

Otherwise I promise I'm a nice girl! And I can't wait to chat!


r/l4l • • 10h ago

28F I wish finding genuine people to talk with was as easy as summoning Beetlejuice, Beetlejuice, Beetlejuice

1 Upvotes

I feel like I have made enough progress in therapy to try and make healthy connections, and because lesbians are basically magical unicorns who only appear at dusk if you pray long and hard enough my newly healthy ass needs to rely on dating apps and since those are ogre festered hell holes I am left with Reddit… \\_(‘_’)_/
If this doesn’t work out again I might just need witchcraft…

I have been on a much needed sabbatical from work since June, ( fingers crossed AI hasn’t replaced all my tasks by the time I get back haha :’) ) you’d think I picked up the hobbies I so longed to do when I was working ? NO !!
To my defense, I’d been so preoccupied with my mental health, and trying to make up for the last 8 years of lack of rest through sleeping for so so soooooo long and when I am not doing that then I am walking in nature or otherwise at an ungodly fast speed.
I have also consumed much new music, much youtube content, and much news and politics that I feel the information near spilling waiting for a compatible person to share it with.

I like reading but when I pick up non-fiction I start daydreaming so I am wrestling with my brain to finish a book called honoring the self this month, hopefully me and my frontal lobe come to a compromise until I get the upper hand through ADD meds.
I am getting back to the gym tomorrow (or so I say) after a months long hiatus due to a health hiccup, and the motivation now is ehem ehem ! WELLBEING and definitely not muscles for my next trip to Mallorca.

I want to pick up a third language but I am torn between German and Spanish, on one hand German sounds nice? Appealing ? to me, and on the other hand spanish is going to be more useful.

I am mediterranean but would not mind people from any timezone.
Physically I am a tomboy, 161 cm, pale (but can tan thank god), I am growing my hair from the short shag that it is, brown eyes, septum, tattoo but would love to get more

I am open to being friends with any 24+ woman
If you are interested in exploring something more, first please be single, and I am attracted to mascs/butches.


r/l4l • • 10h ago

28 Finland/Europe | Looking for soft people who value depth, kindness and feminism 🌸🧸🩰

1 Upvotes

Heyy, so I'm looking for genuine friendship with people who share my values. I'm open to a serious relationship if I meet someone special.

I’m a masculine presenting woman from Finland. I like to live a very slow and gentle life surrounded by cozy things and cozy people who make me feel safe and loved. I value community and deep emotional bonds with people. I love spending time in nature and sitting by a bonfire drinking my herbal tea and chatting together. I’m creative, very spiritual and I love fitness, I love studying manifestation and tarot in depth. I’m curious about the occult too. I’m mostly into goddess spirituality/goddess traditions.

I don’t smoke or drink and I have never been to a bar, not interested in going in the future either.

I’m child free.

I’m a big feminist and women are close to my heart. I center women in my life and I’m selective with what I watch or what music I listen to. I don’t like most mainstream stuff or pop culture because it usually lacks morals and basic decency. I also don’t like being friends with people who live on autopilot and accept whatever is put in front of their eyes. I like self-aware, mature and conscious people who think for themselves.

I like classical music, 1940s oldies and I love hogwarts legacy and sims 4. Other than that I’m not really into games.

I value softness, gentleness and treating others with consideration and care. So if someone doesn’t add those qualities in to my life I don’t want them in my life. I’m protective of myself and selective with people. I want wholesome, sweet friends who respect it when I say no and can handle rejection like an adult.

If you find me interesting and our values and opinions align, I’d love to chat:) Send me a dm <3

My age range is about 23 to 38


r/l4l • • 16h ago

19[F4F] #online (for now) - looking for an older woman

2 Upvotes

hi!

just hoping to find someone to talk to and see where things go. i really miss having a genuine connection with someone.

i’m not going into this with any particular expectations. but if you already have something in mind then i might be open to that too. so don’t be afraid to message. just be older, please.

i’m more than happy with sweet everyday conversations, getting to know each other. simply enjoying someone’s company. but if the connection feels right, maybe something a little more intimate and close too would be nice. i guess it depends on the person and how well we click.

online for now, but not opposed to meeting in the future.
i’m a lesbian, so absolutely no men. i will expect us both to verify.

thank you.


r/l4l • • 1d ago

27F Europe/ Online looking for my wife

3 Upvotes

Heiii 👋
I just turned 27 and I live in Austria (Central Europe). I'm back to being a student, doing computer science in my 3rd semester (and struggling hard lmao 😅).

Some stuff about me:
• I'm short. Like really short, 152cm 🤏 Got short brown hair.
• Video games are a big part of my life. I've got a PC and a PS5 and play a wide variety of stuff. Just picked Overwatch back up and I suck so hard I want to bite my teeth out. Also down for anyother game 🤭
• I'm really into Magic: The Gathering and try to meet up with my friends weekly to play ☺️
• I read sometimes, when college isn't eating my whole life
• Music is everything to me, I literally can't exist without it. Some faves: Kehlani, Honey Revenge, Sleep Token, Tyler Lewis and way too many more 🎶

Fair warning: my humor is horrible and I'm really bad at this, but I'm trying haha.

I'm looking for something monogamous, ideally someone I can game with, chat with and see where it goes 💕 If any of this sounds like you, send me a message and tell me a bit about yourself, maybe your fav game or song right now 💬


r/l4l • • 1d ago

18 (almost 19) femme looking for butch/masc

2 Upvotes

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I'm from BC Canada and I'm looking for someone strictly online right now (north America only please). I live in a small town and the dating pool is literally nonexistent for me. I also don't have the time right now to care for a person irl like I know I'd want to, and I wouldn't want to hurt anyone balancing my life and a relationship irl.

Online is a different story! I love to talk, although I'm a rather shy person. I get flustered really easily so nicknames and flirting work well on me!

I'm looking for someone more dominant, a little older (19-22), kind, romantic, flirty and artistic or just enjoys the arts in general. Someone who doesn't make me feel like a burden when I text a lot and shows genuine interest (I hate nonchalant people).

I prefer someone who isn't religious.

I'm also mixed so someone thats not racist please!

Communication is huge for me especially when its online. If you're the type of person that ghosts people, pls don't interact with this post.


r/l4l • • 2d ago

23[F4F] NYC - I come with songs and excessive affection

4 Upvotes

Heyy, you :)

I've been thinking about posting on here for a while, but curiosity has finally gotten the better of me... and honestly, I miss having someone to love and being loved in return.

I miss having that person to come home to after a long day, whose voice makes everything feel a little less heavy. I miss buying them flowers for absolutely no reason, sending them songs that remind me of them, and finding little ways to make them smile. If you couldn't tell, I'm a bit of a hopeless romantic 😆

A little about me!

I'm 23 and currently in med school. I was born in NYC but grew up across two different continents, so people tell me I have an "interesting" accent. I personally think they're being dramatic, but maybe you can be the judge of that 👀

I'm reallyyy into gaming! My current rotation consists of Sunset Motel, Control, and Phasmophobia, which is ironic considering I'm a certified scaredy cat when it comes to horror games.

I also love reading whenever I can find the time, especially sci-fi and dystopian novels. I have a soft spot for anything that makes me question reality or leaves me staring at a wall thinking about it for days.

And then there's my motorcycle. Riding is genuinely one of the most freeing feelings in the world, and I wish I had more time for it these days. School, unfortunately, has other plans for me 🥲

I'm also very much a homebody. I'd almost always choose a cozy night in over a crowded place, but the right person could probably convince me to venture outside. I'm a bit of a puppy when I like someone. I get excited to hear from you, remember the little things you mention, send you songs that remind me of you, and find the silliest excuses to spend time with you. I like making people feel loved.

Anyway, that's a little about me! If you think we'd click, come say hii :) I'm pretty easygoing, and I'd love to get to know someone without putting too much pressure on where things have to go, so don't feel like you need to come up with the perfect opening line. Tell me about yourself, tell me something random, or tell me what you've been playing or watchin lately.

Looking forward to meeting you ♡


r/l4l • • 2d ago

31F Lesbian | Hello, woman of the world 💌

9 Upvotes

I’m writing to you from Argentina, from the south of the world, hoping to meet lesbians who enjoy meaningful conversations and discovering other women through personal, thoughtful messages with substance.

I’m a professional writer and I’m passionate about lesbian cinema, lesbian literature and lesbian culture. I’m fascinated by the way lesbian lives and relationships are portrayed on screen and in books, the stories we tell about ourselves and the characters who stay with us long after the final scene.

I’m learning English and Spanish is the language I feel freest writing in. I’d love to exchange thoughts across languages, discover different perspectives and get to know women from other places and cultures.

I’m 31 and especially interested in connecting with lesbians over 30, women with their own stories, interests and life experiences. I’m looking exclusively for lesbian friendships built through written conversations.

A little about me

I’m passionate about language, cinema, lesbian representation and the ways stories help us understand ourselves and one another. I love talking about lesbian films, discovering books about lesbian lives, discussing characters and relationships and exploring the cultural worlds surrounding the stories we love.

I’m especially interested in how lesbian lives are represented, what these stories reveal to us and which parts of ourselves we find in them.

I’d love to meet lesbians who share these interests, exchange recommendations, talk about the films and books that have moved us and discover how lesbian culture and life are experienced and expressed in different parts of the world.

I enjoy exchanges that unfold naturally, with room for curiosity, humor, personal stories and those conversations that suddenly take us somewhere unexpected.

I have my own commitments and projects and I really enjoy a slow-paced life that follows the rhythms of nature. So my replies may sometimes take a little time.

If this sounds like your kind of thing, feel free to message me and tell me your favorite lesbian film. 💜

Madeline


r/l4l • • 2d ago

21 year old femme lesbian looking for her butch / masc ♡

1 Upvotes

i am a 21 year old black femme lesbian from italy, i am enamored with nature and i adore spending my time in my garden, reading books and writing poetry. i have a big interest in fashion and social media and i would love to get to know an older masc/butch or even a femme who is older and interested in getting to know each other. dm me for further information ^_^ ♡


r/l4l • • 3d ago

18 (almost 19) femme looking for butch/masc

2 Upvotes

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I'm from BC Canada and I'm looking for someone strictly online right now. I live in a small town and the dating pool is literally nonexistent for me. I also don't have the time right now to care for a person irl like I know I'd want to, and I wouldn't want to hurt anyone balancing a relationship irl.

Online is a different story! I love to talk, although I'm a rather shy person. I get flustered really easily so nicknames and flirting work well on me!

I'm looking for someone more dominant, a little older (19-21), kind, romantic and artistic or just enjoys the arts in general. Someone who doesn't make me feel like a burden when I text a lot and shows genuine interest, I don't like nonchalant people. I prefer someone who isn't religious but I don't mind. I'm also mixed so someone thats not racist please!

Communication is huge for me especially when its online. If you're the type of person that ghosts people, pls don't interact with this it'll just be a waste of time. If you're not mature enough to talk out problems and leave our relationship gracefully (if need be) then you're not the person I want to be talking too in the first place.

*I didn't know being demisexual was that big of a deal for a lot of people so I hope thats ok.

(No I don't wanna sext)

And if you're not 19-21 DO NOT INTERACT!!!


r/l4l • • 4d ago

34 [F4F] Midwest - femme looking for a masc woman to build something real with

5 Upvotes

Hi! I'm a 34-year-old femme in the Midwest, and I'm looking for a masc woman who wants a genuine long-term relationship.

A little about me: I write, make art, and always have a couple of creative projects going. I'm into music, movies, and I'm a little woo-woo (astrology, numerology, the whole thing), but I won't hold your chart against you. Probably.

What I'm looking for:
Masc, butch, or stud, 27–45
Emotionally available and actually wants commitment
Patient & understanding
Consistent communication
A good sense of humor
Someone with her own life, and goals

Closer is easier, but I'm open to long distance with the right person if we both have a plan to close the gap eventually.

Feel free to send a message!


r/l4l • • 4d ago

48 [TF4F] Houston Texas - Looking for Long-term

0 Upvotes

I'm a plus size GenX trans woman in Tx looking for a relationship with a trans woman or a trans man. To put it simply, I'm ultimately looking to be someone's girlfriend. I will put the time, effort, and energy into it as long as you're matching it. Friendship➡️ dating➡️ relationship with taking all the necessary steps. I prefer long-term but am open to short-term. I've started a new book of my life and want someone special in that book. Please be 35+


r/l4l • • 4d ago

18f [f4f] looking for a longterm girlfriend!

5 Upvotes

hallooo! i go by daphni and im trying to figure things out in life while also hoping for a relationship with someone who truly loves and adores me ^.^, i grew up in NJ (boring i know sigh) but now im pursuing my dreams and trying to bring myself out there into the dating scene on here, i honestly have never tried out this app that much in a couple of months, but i want to try and be more active again since my college classes are slowing down a bit. 🖤🪽

i stopped dating for about 3-4 years after a toxic breakup,  needed to find myself again and start loving myself after that relationship, i am a pretty active / healthy person who loves the gym, running, swimming, travelling, you name it

i lovelovelove kitties, dinosaurs, cartoons, astronomy, history, roleplaying, animation, dance, my family, all of the above basically! 🔮 I also enjoy calling over the phone.

favorite shows to watch have to be fashion shows, my top 1 is victoria‘s secret due to the outfits and stage designs, I think it is SO cute, my dream is to become a fashion designer one day and make my own GORGEOUS outfits like theirs! 

I like MLP, ben10, kim possible, castlevania, ATLA/TLOK/seven havens, and tons of 90s-2000s cartoons 👾

i don’t have an exact type in my female partner, just be communicative, loving, loyal! thats truly all I want, I want to trust my future girlfriend, be able to come to them when i need comfort / help, and have mature conversations. if you are intruiged i would love to get to know you! just shoot me a message! ^.^

 i love artists like: lorde, weyes blood, madonna, janet jackson, sevendust, clan of xymox,boy harsher
lebanon hanover, she past away, lycia
twin tribes, mareux, molchat doma, human tetris, lana del rey, etc!

i am a scorpio! my fave holidays are def christmas and halloween! 🐈‍⬛💜 i am around 5’5-5’6 and quite slim naturally.

feel free to dm me because i promise ill try to respond! 


r/l4l • • 4d ago

19f looking for a girlfriend

3 Upvotes

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Hi guys! You can call me tin, I'm currently a college student and have a part-time job. Though I do have a lot of time on my hands and I value updating and communication so you don't have to worry about that. It's been some time since I decided I want to start looking for love again after my last rs more than a year ago. I've spent my time healing and getting back to my old self so I know I'm fully moved on now.

I'm more of a soft masc and I'm more comfortable wearing baggy clothes or masc fits. I'm socially awkward at first and shy but once I warm up I'll be the jolliest and energetic person you'll know. Right now my interest is watching marvels, thriller and mystery shows/movies. We can also play, as I do like playing, it can be anything really but I'm limited to those that can be played on tablet or phone.

I value communication and effort so if you don't want to actually get to know each other please don't bother messaging. I'm not that picky about looks or anything. I genuinely want to see first if we click or vibe with each other. I also prefer talking outside here since the chat feels weird to me.

DM me if you're interested! Introduce yourself or anything creative. Thank you 💙💙


r/l4l • • 5d ago

18F looking for a girlfriend

5 Upvotes

hii my name is demie and here’s my intro! and im trying to figure things out in life while also hoping for a relationship with someone who truly loves and adores me ^.^, i grew up in Canadá and now living in NJ for college! (boring i know sigh) but now im pursuing my dreams and trying to bring myself out there into the dating scene on here, i honestly have never tried out this app that much in a couple of months, but i want to try and be more active again since my college classes are slowing down a bit. 🖤🪽 i stopped dating for about 3-4 years after a toxic breakup, needed to find myself again and start loving myself after that relationship,

i am a pretty active / healthy person (around 5’4-5’5 and quite slim just under 105lb) who loves the gym, running, swimming, travelling, you name it i lovelovelove kitties, dinosaurs, cartoons, astronomy, history, roleplaying, animation, dance, my family, all of the above basically! 🔮

I also enjoy calling over the phone. favorite shows to watch have to be fashion shows, I like MLP, ben10, kim possible, castlevania, ATLA/TLOK/seven havens, and tons of 90s-2000s cartoons, also TLOU, TWDG, RDR, I’m also a femme lesbian, and 18! i don’t mind showing my face either :D 👾


r/l4l • • 5d ago

22 [F4F] Texas- looking for my one 💕

7 Upvotes

Hello my name is Keke and I'm 22 years old. I've never posted in one of these before but I thought I'd give it a try lol. Anyways I live in the United States more specifically in the southwest. I'm hoping if you respond our time zones are close. I guess I'm jumping on here because I finally want to have a proper wlw experience!!!

Something about me is that I love to cook and watch movies (mostly scary) whenever I have free time from my university work. Speaking of uni I'm in my last semester of getting my bachelors in biology. A few more things about me is that I like the color pink.
I hope to travel in the future, and my fav thing ever is my kitty back at home.

What I'm looking for isn't really specific toh but I do want someone who has clear communication, emotional stability, and has shared responsibilities. But my major one is open to talk on the phone because I love to yap omg, and open to have fun and get closer. Oh while I'm thinking about it I do prefer if you're close in age to my self I would say the cut off would be around 25 and no younger than 21.

lol okay so this is long then I wanted it to be but that's okay writing things out takes long :)). Hope to see you in my dm. But please if you do give me a quick asl and we can go from there!!!

Okayy byeee


r/l4l • • 5d ago

34 [F4F] #USA Fit, Lesbian Daddy Searching for a Connection with a submissive woman in the US, Canada, UK, or Europe

0 Upvotes

Hi there! I'm a 34-year-old cis woman, lesbian, and I work in the medical field with a PhD in biochemistry. I’m currently looking to chat with and get to know someone who shares my interests and values, and I’m open to an online connection with someone in the US, Canada, or UK.

While I enjoy talking to a variety of people, I’m specifically seeking a cis woman for a deeper, more personal connection. My ideal match would be someone younger than me, with a petite body type, between the ages of 18-26, who’s looking for a meaningful dynamic.

A little about me: I’m very active and enjoy working out, hiking, nature walks, and stargazing. I love art shows and spend my downtime binge-watching Netflix when I’m not outside exploring. I also maintain a healthy lifestyle and have tattoos, which are an important expression of my individuality.

If you think we might click, I’d love to chat and see where things go!


r/l4l • • 5d ago

21 y.o femme searching for soft hearted butch 🦢🩰

2 Upvotes

Hello! This is my second attempt at searching for someone interesting to have a conversation with; i feel like the first time i made this post i haven’t been clear enough so i’ll try my hardest to be now!

I am searching for a strictly monogamous romantic relationship that will (hopefully) be long lasting. I am (unfortunately) old fashioned and i am pretty serious so please if your intentions are not as pure as mine feel free to not waste your time on me!

i am a femme lesbian and i am not only overly feminine but i am very invested in lesbian and queer rights and i would do anything to protect butches!

now; a bit about myself.

i like to describe myself by saying that i am overly feminine, my favorite color is pink and i feel in tune with nature in a way i cannot comprehend but i embrace. i am black and i live in italy, though i do not have any issues with connecting with anyone across the globe! i read a lot, write poetry and enjoy journaling and pressing flowers onto the pages of my books. i enjoy doing yoga and meditating, gardening and taking care of plants is another form of meditation in my opinion as well.

now as of what i am particularly looking for i’m not strict on looks at all i am not picky ^__^ i just love talking to people who enjoy deep conversations and people who lead the conversation and aren’t dry at texting. I AM AUTISTIC so keep in mind that i will not be as open and talkative if the conversation isn’t going the way i want it to but i will always put my effort into it!! as long as its 50/50!!

reach out to me if you’re 21-25 (i don’t mind older)

if you have read everything, send me a 🎀 and i will know that you’ve been amazing.


r/l4l • • 6d ago

21 [TF4F] North America - Looking for a relationship here because I hate dating apps 😅 North America only please!

1 Upvotes

Hello! I’m Hen from California, I’ll tell you my real name later, and I’m looking for a partner! Is Reddit the best place to look for a partner? Noooo, however is there anywhere better to look? Maybe 🤷‍♀️ but I’m trying here anyways! *Please keep in mind that I am pre-physical transition, I hate it :(* Some of my interests are:

Traveling! I love going to new places and seeing new cultures, I’ve been to a few places outside the country and I love the experience every time!

I also like video games! Nintendo games like Animal Crossing and Mario Kart and pc games like Overwatch and Roblox mainly.

And I like video editing! It would take a while to explain what I edit so maybe that’s a good conversation starter?

Anyways, what I’m looking for is just someone who wants a partner! Just be not nonchalant and I think we’ll get along great! Besides the typical stuff, like be around my age and all, I don’t think I’m picky!

I hope to meet you! <3


r/l4l • • 7d ago

29 - Looking to see what's out there

5 Upvotes

Definitely femme for femme.

I would describe myself as fit/slim, I'm brunette and have long-ish curly/wavy hair, brown eyes, Hispanic/white, 5'4.

I love a good movie night, or watching a binge-worthy show, working out/staying active for my own well being (wanna be able to wipe my own ass when im 80), reading, hanging out with good people, aaaand just about anything that keeps me entertained and catches my interest... vague, I know.

Physically I'm into other femme women, fit/slim, and just all around a kind, smart, and funny/witty person. I'm really not at all into anime/video games... i can give gaming a pass, absolutely. But if youre into anime, thats a hard pass, im sorry.

If any of this piqued your interest, feel free to send a message! But tell me the last thing you ate, so I know you read this.


r/l4l • • 7d ago

25F TX looking for something 🤷‍♀️

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Hello, just a girl looking for a potential relationship. I don't immediately get feelings for someone so I appreciate the act of getting to know somebody.

I would unfortunately call myself a little boring, lol. I wouldn't say I lived a sheltered life but sure don't have alot of common experiences under my belt. I do however love animals, video games, and music!

Physically I'm 5'6" and plus sized but would like to finally take my physical health more seriously by losing weight and gaining muscle. I would say I definitely tend to act more masc in how I like to take care of others and how I dress but have no issues with the feminine qualities I do have.

For my "type" besides femme presenting it's kind of all over the place physically. Otherwise I just like to be around people who actually care and make effort to aware of the world around them. Personally I'm not religious and don't drink/smoke.

If any of things sounds interesting feel free to message me!


r/l4l • • 8d ago

35F Europe - Je te cherche :)

3 Upvotes

Salut toi !
Tu peux parler français et tu as envie de discuter ? Envoie-moi un message !

Je peux t’aider en allemand et en anglais si tu veux. J’aime bien faire du sport de combat, voyager, regarder des documentaires un peu bizarre, jouer aux jeux vidéos, la littérature et l’art.

Si ça te dit, écris-moi :)