EDIT: The response to this post has been bizarre. I feel like my point has been severely misconstrued. I haven't been "arguing" with or "pushing back" against my JTE, and people telling me that this programme is about more than teaching English, which I was already aware of. I have rewritten the post in the hopes of making the situation more clear, but I have preserved the original post at the end. Cheers.
I am from a small country in Africa. Most Japanese people have never heard of it. Even some fellow JETs at orientation had never heard of it. I am not offended by this, as the reason I was interested in JET was for cultural/international exchange and to share my country and culture.
When I arrived at my school, my JTEs told me that I would focus on teaching English rather than culture. This was totally fine by me, as I was an experienced English teacher before coming. The JTEs give me a topic/theme such as animals, food, travel, et cetera, and I make a lesson with some vocabulary and a grammar point, and then give the students a speaking activity. The lessons have been going well and the students have been engaged.
Recently, one of the JTEs asked me to make a lesson about Halloween, along with future lesson plans for Thanksgiving and Christmas. I told her my country doesn't really celebrate these things so I'm not very familiar with them, but she told me I could just figure something out. I made a lesson plan in the same format as before, with some vocabulary and grammar points (talking about fears for Halloween, talking about tastes/smells for Thanksgiving, and talking about wishes for Christmas).
When I showed her the lesson plan, she told me it was her job to teach grammar, and that she wanted something more cultural. I was a little bit confused because she didn't communicate this before when she first asked me to make the lesson. Until now, I had been teaching vocab/grammar per her request, so this sudden change with no communication was weird. I once again stated I'm not really familiar with these holidays, because they're not celebrated in my country/culture. I said that I could teach the students about some holidays in my country/culture, but she told me this would be "too difficult and confusing" for the students, since they only know about Halloween, Thanksgiving, and Christmas.
Per her request, I remade the lessons, but I just wanted to ask if this was normal because it wasn't what I was expecting, since JET was explained to me as a cultural ambassador program. I am a cultural ambassador for my country, and I am also an assistant language (English) teacher. So to not be teaching English, nor teaching about my country/culture, just feels strange and outside of what I was expecting.
I just wanted to ask if this was normal. I wasn't expecting so much aggression in the comments. I recognize that I also got very defensive and aggressive in my replies, but it was because I felt like people were missing my point and accusing me of arguing with me JTE (not true), or that I thought JET was just teaching English and no cultural element (also not true), or accusations that I am ignorant/stupid for not knowing much about these holidays. Again, I am from a small African country and we do not consume western media. I understand that calling them "irrelevant" in my country was harsh, but it also felt rude for people to basically be like "our culture is so important, you must be stupid if you don't know about it" felt really privileged, entitled, and elitist. Also ironic considering many Japanese people also don't know much about western countries... would you really speak this way to your JTEs or students?
Everyone keeps saying different things. Somebody said that these holidays weren't actually cultural, and when I agreed, people got mad at ME. Somebody said that English teaching came before culture, and when I said that everyone else in the comments was saying the opposite, people got mad at ME. It's just been a very bizarre situation altogether that I was not expecting to blow up like this. What's even weirder is that this has turned into accusations that I am an autistic Muslim?... I am not autistic, nor Muslim. But no hate to either of those groups.
I understand that we are assistant teachers, but I think this mindset of "stfu and do what your boss tells you" is really problematic, particularly in Japanese work culture. I already said this in the comments, but I think a lot of the people saying this are the type of people who want to be ALTs or live in Japan for the rest of their life, so they will do whatever to try and be Japanese and appease their JTEs so that they can be hired.
I will most likely not be responding to comments after this. I hope some of you can learn some compassion.
The original post is pasted below:
[As we entered fall, my JTE asked me to make lessons about Halloween, Thanksgiving, and Christmas. I am from a country which does not celebrate any of these. I told her that, and she said to "just figure something out."
Still, I made lesson plans focused on speaking, so for Halloween I made a lesson plan to teach the kids how to talk about fears (ex. I am scared/afraid of/that ____).
For Thanksgiving, I made a lesson plan talking about gratitude (ex. I am grateful/thankful for/that ____) and stative verbs (the turkey smells/tastes good).
Finally, for Christmas, I made a lesson plan talking about wishes (they already know the word "want" , so I thought a wish-list idea would be nice ex. I wish that/for _____).
I felt very proud of what I was able to put together, but my JTE felt very differently. She told me that it is the JTEs job to teach grammar, and that I should be focusing on sharing my culture. This was confusing because 1. I've been teaching grammar so far with no complaints, and 2. this is not my culture.
When I brought these points up, she just disregarded them and said "I asked you to make lessons about western holidays. Please make them." when I again told her my country does not have/celebrate these holidays, I offered to make lessons about my country/culture's holidays. She told me it would be difficult to understand since they are only aware of western holidays.
If anyone has advice, I would really appreciate it. I feel so lost and frustrated.]