r/GriefSupport • u/Hungry_Fail8807 • 1h ago
Thoughts on Grief/Loss Day 7. It's getting easier.
I can think about him without crying now as long as I don't think about him too much. I read some of our old texts and smiled instead of crying. If I let the thoughts linger though that's when the tears come so I've been trying to just let the thoughts go mostly the past couple days. I still have at least 1 breakdown a day but they're getting shorter and less ugly. I feel a bit of guilt that it hurts less now though.
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u/WeirdInvasion 1h ago
that progress isn't a betrayal of the love you still feel, and your brain easing up on the pain doesn't mean you're forgetting them