Hi all! I hope this is the right place. PI’m flying to stay with my boyfriends family in another country for the holidays, and I plan to get gifts for him and several of his family members as they have all been super kind and welcoming to me, many giving me gifts the last time I visited.
I live alone and have no family, so I’m not used to doing the whole Christmas shopping thing each year. I’m starting early because I don’t know how bad I’ll be at it.
My trouble is I’m only bringing 1 carry on bag, so I’m limited for space. I want to get something for my boyfriend, his mom, his grandma, two of his aunts, and an uncle. If I could fit more gifts in I’d get his cousin who lent me her clothes last time something too, but I’m already tight on space and didn’t want to start counting all the cousins.
I don’t know many of them very well, just from my previous visits, but I know his mom likes jewelry and perfume, but I gave her both last time. She’s someone I want to impress the most. His aunts will like anything I give them I think, his grandma is the hardest because I know close to nothing about her, she doesn’t speak any English so our conversations have been nice but limited. My boyfriend isn’t much help with suggestions for her either. She’s an old Catholic woman who loves her family and wants everyone to eat more, that’s all I have to go on.
I don’t want to get the same thing for everyone, but they all need to be relatively small and easy to pack for the flight, and allowed through TSA and customs. So no full sized soaps, lotions, etc. I know jewelry would be small and easy to bring but if I get them all jewelry it seems less thoughtful (and expensive). Do people like silk scarves?
I don’t have a specific budget, but I’m not trying to go too over-the-top here, just something considerate to show my appreciation for them. Maybe $20 per aunt/uncle and a little more from mom and grandma.
Any suggestions are appreciated!