My Mom passed away yesterday. It was expected because of her age, she was 90, and I knew it was going to happen eventually. It was unexpected because of how quickly she became ill and then went downhill, and here we are. Within about 3 weeks, a month at most.
I hate to be crass/crude, but she also left at the beginning of the worst financial times of our year. October through April are bad . We did not have much money. She brought it in, I was her caregiver. I didn't get paid. We've been through savings, etc.
She and Dad kept so much, with good reasons. Extremely long story short, especially in the last year or two, we needed help that we didn't get. Some people are understanding now why I asked for help.
I have pets to feed, water, etc. as well.
The house is horrible, especiallyafter this last mongh.
Anyhow, I hate to ask this, but I have to prioritize getting sizable money and sources of income into the house very quickly.
I know about the wealth corner. Where else do I need to focus when cleaning/decluttering/etc?
My friends and family are in the same situation. They have little money as well. I need a job., etc.
I'm overwhelmed, and grasping at straws. We thought we still had some time; obviously not.
Where do I even begin? What so I do?