so iāve seen a lot of questions about the abolition of family and the views marx and engels had about family matters. i havenāt seen anyone ask this specific question though. in capitalism currently, family is a private matter unless it is abusive and unhealthy, so social workers get involved.
i donāt think that family matters should remain private in communism because abuse could still continue and much of what we see today (unhealthy people, child abuse, relationship abuse), is caused by abuse that happens in secret and that then affects those being abused and the way they act in society.
should familyās not be checked on or helped when such things happen?
it would be much healthier for society and individuals to have communal help with children; to make sure theyāre being cared for properly and ensure that the parents are able to continue caring for their children in a healthy way. as well as ensuring that no abuse or exploitation between partners is happening.
it would also lighten the load of parental responsibility because they could have extra help with children if needed.
so really what iām wondering is why, if everything else in communism is collective and communal, why would family be private?
(i posted this in r/communism101 but apparently my question was seen as a debate rather than me trying to learn from experts on communism so here we are.)