r/BecomingOrgasmic • u/LayerZealousideal549 • 16h ago

(22F) I Can't Orgasm!! (TMI Warning) NSFW

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I have this vibrator, and if I find the right spot and hold it there it feels heavenly and the feeling increases until it's too much to bear and I have to turn it off. After that, I clench around it a few times until it fades, and then I'm too sensitive for more. And there is no peak, I do it until it feels unbearable. I've gotten farther than previously, but I can't orgasm!

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r/BecomingOrgasmic • u/ShaktiAmarantha • 10h ago

Weekly Progress Reports! NSFW

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Most of the posts on this sub are from women who are struggling, deeply frustrated, and looking for advice. That's exactly what we're here for, but it can create an impression of hopelessness. We'd like to provide a way for our members to post updates about what they're doing and how it's going. Even little successes can provide an example and some encouragement, and make a big difference to others.

So this post is your weekly opportunity to share what you've tried and how it's working. Have you found anything that is giving you greater sexual pleasure? Have you gotten closer to orgasm? Found new ways to orgasm?

Everything is welcome, including what you tried that didn't work, but in particular please share your successes!

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Whether it's Hollywood movies, erotica, romance novels, or porn, orgasms are shown as easy, wildly intense, all-consuming experiences. The reality for a lot of women is that either a) orgasms haven't happened yet, b) they have, but they take a lot of time and effort and are barely worth it, or c) they happen solo, but never during sex with a partner.

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