r/AdultGamers • • Sep 17 '26

Mod Announcement Posting Guidelines and Self Promotion

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Good morning gamers!

We've been dealing with increased aggression from redditors due to post removals and misunderstanding the flagged system.

All "looking for" posts must have your age, platform(s) you play on and games you're playing (not genres). We also recommend adding your timezone. Failure to include these details will result in your post being removed.

If your engagement indicates you're looking for something other than friends, you will be immediately banned.

Like other "looking for" (gamers, friends, etc) subreddits - we don't allow self promotion.

Coordinating with others for games that require you to squad up is fine. What we don't allow is recruiting for your larger group/dedicated game server/Discord community/Twitch or building your own group (oh I made a Discord, group chat, etc). This includes trying to promote your adult content.

Your post/comment being flagged doesn't mean its going to be removed. Automod is set up to flag certain terms and we manually review it.

This is a community for adults, and your behaviour should match that. We will not tolerate harassment or aggression.

Thank you.


r/AdultGamers • • 29d ago

Looking for Gamers LFG - Guild Edition Megathread

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Are you looking for a guild (clan, alliance, etc)? Or are you part of one you'd like to share?

Then you're in the right spot!

Please note that guilds CANNOT be shared outside of this megathread and all other self promotion rules still apply. This means no links to discord, etc. Include all necessary information for players to find your guild through the in game guild search feature.


r/AdultGamers • • 7h ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 38F with Odd Request

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I’m seeking a late-night gaming friend to help me finish some games left unfinished after a recent friendship ending.

I have a few games that I began with my best friend before the friendship recently ended, and I would love to find someone to finish them with--one of them is a game we played together that I was streaming. I understand this is a very odd request, but I have a graveyard of unfinished co-op games and such that are just staring at me. If we click, I would be open to playing new co-op games together, too.

Here's a break down of what I have going on:
Most frequent free window: 11 - 1 am est
Some of the games languishing:
- Degrees of Separation (I would love to continue streaming this with your consent)
- Dark Pictures Anthology
- Fallout 76
- Big Walk
- Escape Academy
- Escape Simulator (1 & 2)
- In Sink
- We Were Here Too

I have a somewhat full schedule a lot of the time, but I would love to find someone who is:
Flexible, kind, patient, proactive, and social.

About me: I'm married with children, I get excited about everything, I love playing co-op games with friends, especially puzzle and other teamwork-style games.


r/AdultGamers • • 3h ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 40M -PST PC and PS5 gaming.

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40M on the west coast looking people to play with, im looking to dive into WOW Forever when that launches. I also have Aion 2 and looking forward to the new cod. I have many different genres to play between the two. Looking for chill gamers.


r/AdultGamers • • 3h ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 38M | Malaysia | GMT+8 | Looking to Make Friends and Play Games Together

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Hello.

I'm 38M from Malaysia. Currently grieving over a loss of a friendship so decided to make new friends and enjoy playing games together.

A little about me : I mostly play open world survival coop games but I'm down to play any games (as long as it is not expensive). Currently playing Valorant (Newbie) and Wuthering Waves. I played a variety of games such as Silent Hill series, Resident Evil series, Necesse, Arknights, Phasmophobia, Grounded, etc etc, so if you ever need someone to watch your gameplay, hear you rant, or be vulnerable to share your life story, I'm down for it. I'm also interested to restart FFXIV if you are interested. I play mostly on PC but I have Switch 2 and PS5 as well.

I'd love to have a regular gaming buddy (Since I'm trying to forget a friend) to share fun gaming experience with. I'm alright with casual gaming sessions, exploring new games together or simply chatting in discord while we play too.

If you are interested, feel free to message me anytime :)


r/AdultGamers • • 7h ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] M26/UK looking for gaming buddy/buddies

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Hey yo I’m a 26 year old male from the uk that loves gaming. I like to play destiny 2, Grounded 1/2 , satisfactory , cod zombies from time to time. I play on pc (all games I play are cross platform). If you are interested in any of the games feel free to dm me. I always like to play together.


r/AdultGamers • • 8h ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 42m est looking for people to play with

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Hey basically like the title says im looking to make a new friend or 2 im not really a fan of big groups so please don't invite me to ur discord server. So here are some of the games im most interested in but I have so many more and am open to more if we vibe

Dead by daylight

Runescape dragonwilds

Path of exile 2

Borderlands 4

Monster hunter wilds

Street fighter 6

Also a little about me kinda introvert unless u get me talking on the right subject then I won't shut up lol dark humor is appreciated so yeah if ur interested hmu


r/AdultGamers • • 14h ago

Looking for Gamers - [EST-GMT] 56M EST / GMT - looking for co-op pals.

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edit: Playing on PC

Howdy! Since I levelled up a whole year, I decided to make a new post - sorta.. I don't see a lot of the people I currently play with much due to odd timing, or the fact that they have too much going on with work and family life. I don't really have that problem - I can play during the day sometimes and in the evenings, so it would suit those on EU and US east times.

I grew up mostly playing FPS and arcade style games (as was the style at the time) but I've been enjoying ESO, Enshrouded, Windrose, Diablo and BG3 - games I thought I would never be into that deviate from my usual gears, halos, borderlands etc which I still play inc BF6 so a bit of choice I guess.

I'm not a minecraft, valorant, overwatch, pokemon person, it's just never interested me.

I'm not looking for love or to join your massive DC server where no one talks or branches out to meet new people, nor am I interested in those that can't communicate, manage friendships or take care of basic timekeeping - you would think this wouldn't have to be said out loud, but here we are... I'm a regular guy with an interesting past, my life isn't consumed by politics and performative outrage, but I'm willing to have conversations on just about anything as well as a healthy amount of dark gameplay banter. Anyone age over 18, male or female is fine.

Drop a reply or a DM if you wanna hook up and have some unfiltered fun, with someone that won't just ghost you and leave you hanging (again, I shouldn't have to say this out loud)

Yeah that's it.. as you where etc.


r/AdultGamers • • 8h ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 31M CST looking for some co-op partners

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Looking for teammates stuff like TMNT Shredder’s Revenge, Metal Slug Franchise, RE games with Co-op, plus plenty of miscellaneous games in between. I got a decent library on Steam and PS so just let me know! Be at LEAST 18, LGBT ally, and don’t be a right wing dork.


r/AdultGamers • • 12h ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 29M EST looking for cool people to game with.

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Hello all, I’m 29m and live in the Midwest(est),Some of the things I like are horror, games, cooking, comics the outdoors, history and politics(leftist) and sports.

I play a lot of different games mainly single player or solo.My favorite game is Red dead 2 and fallout new Vegas.I love halo, gears of war, dead space, dead rising, last of us, Batman Arkham series and helldivers 2. I play on Xbox,ps5 and switch 2.

So if you want to play feel free to reach out.


r/AdultGamers • • 20h ago

Looking for Gamers - [EST] 30M/EST - Looking for Gaming friends (PC)

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Hey there!

Winter is right around the corner and I've been feeling like bunkering down and play some co-op games in my steam library!

I have a huge variety of games such as:
- Enshrouded
- Coral Island
- Core Keeper

Those are just some survival games I'm interested in playing.
I am also down for other games such as:
- League of Legends Aram Mayham
- Teamfight tactics (TFT)

or whatever else.

I would say that I'm pretty chill & down to earth. I'm not obnoxious and I think I do a very good job at trying to make sure whomever I'm interacting with that it's a fun and enjoyable experience.

If you're interested in playing any games or chatting & hanging out feel free to message me!
Please be 21+


r/AdultGamers • • 1d ago

Looking for Gamers - [EST] 38M - WoW: Forever - EST/PVP - Weird former gamer returning for WoW who no longer has a gaming friend group, LF non-toxic, kind, relaxed people

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You can check my post history for more details about me, but to sum myself up:

I'm an introverted, idealistic, animal lover that has lived a strange and mostly isolated life. I like philosophy, psychology, and PC gaming. I deeply value compassion, honesty, and authenticity.

I have been long waiting for a WoW:Forever announcement and just saw it be announced at Blizzcon, so I'm excited about a game for the first time in a long time! In the past I was more of a competitive gamer, playing games like CS, Quake, Dota, and LoL, but I also played WoW from about 2005 - 2012.

I will be a lot more casual than I once was, probably playing a couple hours a night and a bit more on the weekend, and probably a lot more early on upon release. I will likely be playing Alliance and what I find most fun is probably world pvp and arena. I would be doing some dungeons and maybe easy 10 man raids that are brief, but I'm not much for raiding. I mostly played rogue because I liked stealthing into the enemy cities like Ironforge when I played horde and troll people / be silly. I didn't like ruining people's day or anything mean, but maybe something close to it. Like when I discovered with my friends that you could travel to Ironforge, queue your group for an arena game, and after the match your whole group would be summoned to Ironforge and be KoS and stuck there if your hearthstone was down.

I also really liked subtle ragebait trolling chat, which really can't be done anymore because people are aware of what a troll is, but it was very entertaining to me back then. I guess I was my server's troll, and if I talked in chat it would usually cause a stir, though a lot of people would giggle along with me in whispers.

Back then I liked playing competitively but I hated the toxicity of other competitive players. They were almost all pretty annoying, so I opted to mostly just play with my friends who were all casual players. It is still the case that I really only want to play with people who aren't super tryhard types. I was pretty good, maybe 2400-2500 elo in arena if I remember correctly, but how good at the game other people are makes no difference to me.


r/AdultGamers • • 1d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 27, F, Irish , Playsation

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I play on PlayStation and looking for gamers who want to co op games with me? Then maybe we could do any co op games you were looking to play!

Also would be cool to just chat or have someone on vc an keep me company while I play death stranding 1.


r/AdultGamers • • 18h ago

Looking for Gamers - [GMT +1] 29 • Gay • M • UK • Looking for Fun LGBT+ Friendly/Girl Friends! ♡

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Hey Everyone! ♡

I'm a 29 year old, gay, male, from the UK in the Greater London area looking to make some more friends in the lovely world of gaming. I play on PC primarily, but I do own PS4, Switch and an Oculus. However, I'd love to find some casual, fun and laid-back friends for gaming regularly. If you are also in London or the surrounding area, I am equally open to meet-ups, hang-outs, drinks, etc! I'm an overall (usually) fun person to be around. It goes without saying, but please be LGBTQIA+ friendly. It always get's a bit awkward when a straight guy adds me and then jumps ship when they find out I am gay... So! Surprise! It's in the title! ♡

I've tried this before because people add, talk for a bit, and then go quiet. My hope this time around is to find more like-minded people that actually desire friendship and actively want to chat and game. I play many styles and genres of games, but genuinely I'm up for most things as long as it means getting to know fun people!

TLDR Info About Me ♡

  • Info: 29M - Gay
  • Location: United Kingdom - Greater London Area
  • Timezone: BST / GMT +1
  • Platform: PC mostly - PS4 + Oculus + Switch

Some Games I Love ♡

  • Overwatch (Help, I'm addicted...)
  • Deadlock
  • CoreKeeper
  • Apex
  • FFXIV
  • Arc Raiders

Those are only a few games I like. I've got 160 games in my library + XBOX game pass. I genuinely play anything or will try anything. Don't be shy about asking! I'm open to try many games if we hangout and get along!

I truly am looking for some friends that want to talk, hang in VC, get to know one another, joke around, and become good friends.

This might look like that "formally typed" friend post, but from the bottom of my heart it would mean nothing more to find new friends and have some adults to game with.

Your experience in gaming doesn't matter to me! (I'm shit in most!) So, as long as you are fun, kind, and can enjoy. Please do send me a message!

Thanks so much peeps. I hope to hear from you! ♡

- Lee🌻


r/AdultGamers • • 1d ago

Looking for Gamers - [CDT] 45M - Central Time - Needing more gaming friends

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Gamer in the southern US. Looking for people to either game with or just chat with. I'm pretty chill when it comes to games but can be a little competitive. I tend to mostly use discord for vc while gaming. Most of the games I play tend to be shooters but I do play a variety of games. Generally I'm free to play sometime between 7pm and midnight.

Currently playing these games the most and would welcome additional friends to play:

Battlefield 6

Fortnite

Phasmophobia

EDIT: Also, Warframe!

Those aren't the only games that I own, but those are the main multiplayer games you'll catch me on. I'm open to other games as well so feel free to offer suggestions.

I primarily play on PC but do have xbox, ps5, and switch 2.

Feel free to send a message and I can give my gamertags and discord.


r/AdultGamers • • 1d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] M26 looking for gaming buddies

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Hey yo I’m a 26 year old male from the uk that loves gaming. I like to play destiny 2, Grounded 1/2 , satisfactory , cod zombies from time to time. I play on pc (all games I play are cross platform). If you are interested in any of the games feel free to dm me. I always like to play together.

Stay safe and eyes up guardian


r/AdultGamers • • 1d ago

Looking for Gamers - [FIN/SWE/GMT+2.ish] (48M/PC) All your base are belong to us

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Dear reader,

 

I am in search for pleasant human beings with relaxed demeanor interested in semi- or infrequent, but never too serious, pixel-related coop-activity.

I myself am an academically inclined mellow fellow; by day protest-camping in front the ivory towers of contemporary academia, juggling dozens of word documents, pdf articles, and wonder-pondering about strange things and peculiar stuff. Sometime during the late afternoon/early evening, the nerd-in-me takes over and I switch from my work laptop to the gaming one.

 

While solo adventures can have their own allure, the most fun I have had in front of the screen included some form of coop-activity. Presently and unfortunately, the coop-opportunities have been few and far between, and I am tentatively exploring this textual space for a remedy.

Some games that I have found challenging and fun:

 

  • Valheim
  • Remnant I/II
  • Lethal Company
  • Deep Rock Galactic
  • Portal 2

 

More recently, I have been eyeing games like...

 

  • Abiotic Factor
  • Enshrouded
  • Palworld
  • No Man's Sky

 

But am also open to trying any game that has coop-fun potential (including pvp, strategy, and mmo games). In general, I enjoy good writing, exploration, and a challenge. I do NOT mind losing, failing, getting lost, mistakes, dying, etc. -- internet pixels are never important enough to get angry over. A small dose of frustration every now and then is probably fine and won't hurt the fun, especially if it is to make the eventual success taste that much better.

 

If your gaming enjoyment is not inherently tied to success or amount of points gained or progress made, we might be a good match for some coop-activity. DM me a bit about yourself and what kind of games and game experiences work for you.

 

(I am not well-versed in the mysteries of reddit, especially formatting seems a tad strange. Do let me know if this post shows silly spacing or any other textual peculiarities.)


r/AdultGamers • • 1d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] LFG 29/M/XBOX/PC/CT

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Hey! I’m going to give it another shot😅

Would anyone be interested in a 29yo awkward yapper whos a little weird, but pretty much plays anything to hang?

Marvel Rivals
Once Human
Warhammer Darktide
ARC
ARK
Wo Long
And pretty much anything else fun!

I’m a little shy, but once I get used to you I apologize for the puns 💀


r/AdultGamers • • 2d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 33m Virginia/online looking for friends to game with

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Trying my luck again to find someone to vibe with and just enjoy each other’s company.
Alittle about me. I play mostly on ps5 but could be enticed to play on pc if enough reason to
Im an Infp-t
I enjoy reading mystery sci fi books.
I like to bike when it’s nice out from time to time.
I have four cats.
Some of the games played recently have been control resonant, enshrouded, dying light
It’s hard for me to open up to people tho I do try to be as kind and understanding as I can be. I just struggle with day to day trying to make friends. If even alittle stands out to you send me a message


r/AdultGamers • • 2d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 34M Ireland/Online - Looking for new gaming friends

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Hi there! As it says above, I'm 34 years old and from Ireland, and looking for some new friends. Down below is a little about myself!

I am currently working as an IT technician, which basically involves a lot of broken or faulty computers being put on my desk until I fix them and ship them back off again. As you can imagine, I'm a massive techie, so anything involving computers or machines can draw my attention quite quickly!

My main hobbies include gaming, reading and listening to music. In terms of games, I typically enjoy most genres, but my favourite series include; Resident Evil, Persona, Warcraft, Devil May Cry, Legend of Zelda, Pokemon and Fire Emblem. I have a PS4, Switch and a gaming PC, so I'm spread around the different platforms a lot. The games I'm currently playing are World of Warcraft, Deus Ex: Human Revolution, Diablo 2, Borderlands 3 and Pokemon Leaf Green.

I like a variety of TV shows such as It's Always Sunny, The Thick of It, The IT Crowd, Trailer Park Boys, Curb your Enthusiasm, Fallout, Rick and Morty and Seinfeld. I'm also a big fan of anime shows including One Punch Man, Dragon Ball Z (and Super), Jojo's Bizarre Adventure, Death Note, Cowboy Bebop and more!

Book wise, I'm usually drawn to fiction, typically Fantasy or Sci-fi. My favourite book series are The Malazan Book of the Fallen, Discworld, The Dresden Files and The Lord of the Rings. In terms of music I'm a big fan of Metal and Industrial music, with Iron Maiden and KMFDM being my favourite bands. I can play the guitar, but haven't kept in practice for a few years now, so I'm pretty rusty. I've been thinking of learning to play piano at some point this year too!

In short, I'm a massive nerd that works in IT, who's looking for other nerds (or anyone really) to chat to and to make new friends with. I feel I'm easy to talk to and consider myself friendly and engaging when striking up a conversation with someone. If anyone likes the sound of any of the above, please feel free to hit me up, thanks for reading everyone!


r/AdultGamers • • 2d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 37/M/PC/Turkey (GMT+3) My co-op shelf is a graveyard of good intentions. Help me fix that?

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Hi!

37, PC, Turkey, which sounds far away for some but is secretly perfect for Europe: my 20:00–23:00 evenings are your 18:00–21:00 (Europe) or 17:00–20:00 (UK). Weekends flexible.

Here's my situation: years of buying co-op games "for when I have someone to play with", zero someones. Valheim, V Rising, Grounded 2, Deep Rock Galactic, BF6, Palworld, It Takes Two, For The King II, Phasmophobia etc., all sitting there, judging me. I'd love one or two regular people (25+, please) to start a fresh journey with and actually see it through, boss by boss, instead of the usual play-twice-then-ghost cycle.

I'm not looking for a group or a discord server to join, one or two like-minded person(s) is all I'm looking for.

As a teammate I'm the calm one: no rage, no sweat, happy to haul wood and plan the next expedition or watch your back while we talk about whatever - obscure history, fantasy books, why the base needs a second floor (it always does). English or Turkish, Discord is blocked here (and VPN messes with latency), so I use Steam Voice which works just as fine for me. Early riser in real life, so I'm reliable at 20:00 and useless at 2 AM.

Rather than commenting, message me with which game you'd pick first (doesn't have to be any of these; I have more) and I'll send my Steam.


r/AdultGamers • • 2d ago

Looking for Gamers - [CST] 26F looking for new friends

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Hey everyone! I'm 26F CST and on PC and I'm looking for some new gaming friends i'd love to meet some chill people to play games with, hang out in voice chat, joke around, and hopefully make some long-term friends along the way.

i'm especially interested in games where we go from being locked in to pure chaos in seconds

some games i'd love to try are

friend slop and group co-op games

  • Grain Rot
  • Scam With Your Friends
  • InvoKyR
  • Bombanana
  • Far Far West
  • Happy's Humble Burger Farm
  • Headliners
  • We Are So Dead
  • Burglin' Gnomes
  • Lethal Company
  • League of Legends
  • Overwatch
  • Phasmophobia
  • Wardogs and plenty of other games

i'm open to trying new games also

i'm hoping to find people who are friendly, have a good sense of humor, enjoy joking around, and are down to hang out regularly. not looking for anything super competitive or serious all the time.

only prefered requirments are be 21+

be prepared for lots of unseriousness and don't take everything to heart

feel free to reach out if interested


r/AdultGamers • • 2d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 28/M/CST - Looking for a duo and some good company

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Heyo! I'm looking for a gaming duo to play with consistently. I don't have a lot of friends who play the same games I do so hopefully you can change that!

Some of the games I have been playing recently are Destiny 2, Nightreign, The Finals, CS2, Battlefield, Overwatch, Marvel Rivals, For Honor, Cyberpunk 2077, Fallout 76, Monster Hunter Wilds, Apex, Diablo IV, Halo and a bunch of other games I have across my library on PC.

If that sounds good to you please feel free to shoot me a message! Really looking forward to fun games and fun times :)


r/AdultGamers • • 2d ago

Looking for Gamers - [AST] 33F Looking for FFxiv friends

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hi! I’m looking to make some actual friends to play FFXIV with!

I’m a veteran FFXIV player, but I took about a year-long break from the game and I’m looking tofinally get back into it!

I’d really love to find someone who is chill, not get mad when mistakes are made and great humour. I want to learn together, laugh at our mistakes, and eventually yell “WE FINALLY DID IT!” after wiping 47 times. I have a lvl 100 character but i feel so lost going to back to that one after so long so I have an alt I've been focusing on and just taking my time which is the info below. I'm also open to just have another alt with a few people and start fresh together.

Data Center: Primal

Server: Leviathan

Character: Mystic Wisp

I’m looking for people who want to actually hang out, chat, run content together, level jobs, do roulettes, FATEs, raids, glam, side quests, or just completely waste time together in-game.

I’m not really looking for just a “hey wanna run a dungeon?” friendship. I’d love to meet people where we can eventually become actual friends, talk regularly, joke around, and have that person you can randomly message like “DUDE YOU HAVE TO SEE THIS GLAM.” 😂

I do play other games too, mostly FPS or RPG, but I’m definitely open to branching out to survival or co op stuff. But FFXIV is absolutely my main right now.

If you’re also looking for someone to learn raids with, and laugh through our inevitable disasters, please message me

Maybe we can become the duo that keeps saying “one more pull” for 4 hours. 😂

If that sounds like you, add me in game or send me a message


r/AdultGamers • • 2d ago

Looking for Gamers - [Add timezone here] 36M Any of you beautiful bastards play Runescape Dragonwilds on PS5

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I just got Dragonwilds for PS5, been pretty fun. Wondering if there are anyone who also plays it on PS5 who might want to play together.