Has this ever worked for anyone?
I got a few accountability buddies from this very sub before. And this is a new account so you won't see my name but basically what would happen would be, im very motivated at first. I send the other person messages everyday and after I send it they would ask me if I DID it. Like i wouldn't be checking in if I didn't do. Then nothing.
It felt like I was being taken advantage of because they would never text ME first. So after a week of me always being the first one to text I would not send them a message and sure enough, they never got in touch with me. After a week of not getting in touch with me they would send me a message asking if I been doing my stuff and of course I wouldn't respond.
Cuz at that point, wtf are we doing. You're just wasting my time. And ive meet so many people and its ALWAYS the same result. I just told someone "you might as well pay for it" cuz honestly I feel like I should be getting paid! No ones HELPING ME!!! Its suppose to be back and forth and yet im the only one doing the helping. No ones checking in on me. No one thinks of me until they start missing my free service.
"Be the change you wanna see" ppl got me heated cuz I AM!!! They are the problem!!! I aint helping no one for free when we agreed to keep EACH OTHER accountable and it always ends up with me being the parent and them being a little kid about whatever goal they wanna achieve.
I get random fits of depression that's the reason I need help. Ppl who I get in contact with just kinda want it.
Sry that turned into a rant but that's what I deal with with these accountability buddies. Im not offering any service, i dont want to so don't ask, but it feels like most of the people here should be paying for it since they are following through and wasting the other person's time