I’m hoping to get some honest input because I've been going back and forth on this for days.. it’s really killing me and breaking my heart.
I have two Devon Rex girlsfrom the same breeder. They didn't arrive bonded, but after about four days they became best friends, and they've been inseparable ever since. They even share a litter box without any problems. I brought Roxy in when she was 2 and Maisie was over a year old.
A while ago I tried bringing home a third adult cat from the same breeder, and it didn't work out. My two cats really hated her. She seemed mostly indifferent to them, but they wanted nothing to do with her. It was really sad, and honestly a little embarrassing to admit it wasn't going to work.
Now the breeder has a ginger girl kitten available, and it's the first ginger girl she's ever had. My soul cat was a ginger girl, so I'm especially drawn to her. I'm already so attached to this little kitten, and it's been really hard.
I’m hoping a kitten might be easier on everyone than an adult cat was, but I don't know if that's realistic or if I'm just hoping for what I want. I'm also in a one-bedroom apartment, around 800 to 900 sq ft, so I'd need to get creative to fit a second litter box.
For anyone who's been through something similar:
- Did a kitten integrate better with your resident cats than an adult did?
- Have you had a failed introduction and then a successful one later?
- How did you make a second litter box work in a small space?
I’m really torn. I don't want to put my cats or myself through another failed introduction, but I'm afraid I'll regret it if I let her go.