r/usna • u/piggy08_ • 4h ago
Advice for SO
My boyfriend and I are both high school seniors and he is 100 percent set on going the naval academy with his application currently pending but has a high chance of getting in. I am not planning on going to a school near Maryland. I will be attending a school in the SEC. We have been dating for 1.5 years and will be dating for 2.5 years by the time he would go into the academy. We currently live very separate and independent lives as we both have rigorous schedules and he goes to a different school and lives an hour away from me. We often only get to call each other for 10 minutes a day, sometimes every other day usually just to do a quick recap of our day, pray together and say goodnight just based on homework loads and maybe have a good call for an hour about one day a week. Also just based on business we only see each other every two weeks or once a week but have gone periods of not seeing each other for a month or longer multiple times in the past. I’m also used to him not being there for important events as he is a really good baseball player which we may also play at the academy so he has had to miss events like my baptism and almost missed formal. I’m mostly just looking for what I should expect or any advice and what conversations to have with him before he leaves. He has talked to me about coming for parents weekend, however I think he should be with the people who raised him and not his girlfriend even though I want to see him too. Any advice is accepted thank you!!