I've been posting a lot since switching to private practice because I'm honestly trying to stay sane. I'm actively applying for K-12 positions. Here's my current struggle:
Almost all of my sessions include a parent, but today I'm extra anxious because of one parent in particular. I'm 1000% convinced this man is seriously mentally unwell. It wasn't until after two uncomfortable sessions in a row that I brought it up to my boss.
During the first session, he acted like he didn't want to be there, sat on his phone most of the time, and only occasionally chimed in to correct his child. At the end, he launched into an angry political rant and completely missed multiple gentle redirections and even more direct changes in my tone that were intended to end the conversation and get us back on track. I was hoping it was just a very rough day for him.
The second session was an evaluation. In addition to constantly correcting his child, criticizing my interview questions, and going off on a very angry tangent about how he is extremely intelligent and everyone else is incompetent...his anger escalated enough that at one point the child started crying. I think we both, the child and I, felt unsafe. It took him a moment to realize the child's crying and then that stopped him.
When I brought my concerns to my boss, they said they're aware of the behavior and suggested that if it happens again, I should make an excuse to leave the room, like saying I need to get a pen. But that feels like avoiding the elephant in the room rather than addressing it. At this point, I think the boss should have a direct conversation with him and encourage him to seek mental health therapy or tell him to go elsewhere for speech.
What bothers me most is that I'm genuinely anxious about being alone in a room with him. I don't know if he's someone who just needs help, someone who could potentially snap, or both. It's scary. I just think - what is the point of speech therapy when a parent needs therapy therapy?
Just send good vibes out there that I get calls for other jobs soon!