I don’t know how this insecurity started but it certainly got really serious when I saw how everyone on the internet made fun of boobs like mine. Even women so beautiful like Sophie Rain get made fun, and people always say that she’s so hot until she takes her bra off.

I cry every night before going to bed. I sleep and I spent all day with a wired bra. My shoulders hurt so much but I don’t want to take it off bc I like to pretend that they are not there. Im a 34DD since 14 (now 18y/o) and my boobs are so flat at the top and my areolas are big and they are not in the middle of my breast making them look more saggy instead of “natural sitting”

One of my friends started pointing at it every time I wore a dress and that made my insecurity worse. I stopped wearing dresses because of it, our anything below my clavicles.

I have a boyfriend and I have been hiding from him for about 3 years. I avoid having intercourse with him and when I do it I wear a baggy shirt and obviously a bra under it, but I feel like Im missing an important part of my life. I know that he is “nerdy” about games, movies and comics where women have almost always small and lifted breast and I just can’t tell him to stop watching the things he loves because my insecurities, also all of his ex girlfriends had the so called “fashion boobs” and could be around the house without a bra, and I feel like a freak using my bra at every moment, even his mother has perkier breast after two children, I feel ridiculous.

I had a friend with boobs that triple mine who showed that their boobs weren’t perky and that I shouldn’t suffer. But when they are that big is “justified” and their areolas sit high and are small, I think that is called pseudoptosis that actually looks sexy, like Sidney Sweeney or Bianca Censori (yes they are problematic but you get the point)

Ive told my mom about this but she invalidated my feelings, but I don’t think she did it on purpose.

I would like to get a boob job but they don’t look natural at all and the scars are mostly so bad. Boob augmentation look a hundred times better that lifts. I still would like to try to archive the look of having a bit of fold but high set areolas. That’s something that I would like to think better in the future.

I wish one day they would be beautiful without surgery. Sometimes I want to starve myself to death to get rid of them, but I don’t have the strength for that.

Ok so this is my rant If someone has any advice please let me know.

I'm a teenager (18f) and i feel like my breasts are pretty saggy/droopy, and honestly it makes me really insecure.
The thing is, I don't really understand WHY they're like this. I'm young, I've never been pregnant or breastfed, and I haven't had any major weight changes or anything like that. So I feel like there's no obvious reason for them to be sagging already.
They're not extremely large either I'd say they're pretty average-sized. They just seem to hang lower than I expected, and they don't have that round/perky shape I see on other girls.
I measured myself recently and got:
Underbust: 24 / Standing bust: 28
So my size is 24C
And im also having a hard time finding bras that fit because my band size seems really small. My sister sizes sre either 28C or 30B but I can barely find these sizes anywhere😭
Is this just genetics/natural breast shape? Can breasts still change shape and become more lifted as you get older, especially since I'm still a teenager? Or is this basically how they're going to look?
I'd really appreciate hearing from anyone who had a similar experience as a teenager and whether their breasts changed as they got older.

I'm stumped and I don't know what to do. Whenever I take n*des, my tits looks super weird. They're very big and saggy and there's a huge space between them. I try holding them together but my hands are super small and my tits look weird. How do I take nice pics when my boobs are so saggy? I feel so insecure about them

I've always had big boobs. They were DD in 7th grade. They were DDD/E or bigger when i was like 18 at 120lbs. Now, after motherhood, I'm 175lbs and they hang near almost to my belly button. Last I measured I was a 36G. BUT once all my milk supply went away. They stayed just as big but lost half of the filling. I breastfed my son for 3 years. Constantly them going up and down in size everyday with milk. They're heavy, despite being almost flat, they hurt my neck and shoulders and upper back. I can't afford a bra that fits so I stuff them into a DDD and wear a sports bra over it. I got a bathing suit last minute last week and my boobs are a 2XL in swimwear but the stringy ones that tie aren't available where I went in that size so I had to get one that clasped and it didn't fit band wise so I had to tie it and the ties at the top were too short to provide any support so I had to tie past the allotted amount and all of their weight was directly on the back of my neck. I want the confidence to just free ball it. But I have those easty westy bitches that grow kind of outward and it's not the most flattering thing. Can anyone relate?

I’ve tried so many times and I can never get a bra that fits right.

Hi, after having two kids my breasts are saggy and worse - **deflated.** I usually don’t care, but I want to wear some styles lately that wouldn’t look good with a normal bra. It’s so hard to find stuff that works because my breasts are deflated like pancakes. Even before having kids I lost 100lbs, so that added to the loose saggy skin. But after breastfeeding they’re like two deflated balloons. Any suggestions??

What are we doing for swim tops?

My tissue literally feels like a bag of water. When I try on bras, I’m either pouring over the top, sides, or slipping under. And that’s with structure. I have no cleavage so balconette bras just fold them upward.

Anywho, my struggle with suit tops is the same. Obviously bikini style tops cut my neck, and don’t contain my boobs. And look like boob hammocks lol. The “structured” ones don’t fit properly either I overflow or under-fill, so both lead to falling out. Nothing contains them. They aren’t big but there is no shape and there is no structure so nothing works. Sports bras just push them together into a rectangle. So I’m either chafing on my neck, under, or under and in the middle. And sometimes they just end up in my armpits.

I’m a saggy 34B. Maybe A. Small.

I prefer to not wear a bra at night for comfort, but in just a Tshirt you see my low hanging nipples and shapeless tiny piles of boob.

I’m in a newish relationship having sleepovers and I feel so self conscious in my braless tshirt.

Has anyone with small saggy boobs found a shirt (maybe with a padded built in bra?) that you feel good sleeping in? I haven’t found one that helps much with shape. A basic shelf doesn’t do anything..

Anyone have advice on 1. Stopping recurrent fungal infections under breasts and 2. Finding a breathable bra that lifts and separates heavy and sagging breasts (38DDD)? I keep getting fungal infections on the under side of my breasts and the medical advice I’ve gotten is to find a very breathable bra that lifts and separates breasts and to utilize antifungal powder, changeable cotton liners, and a hair dryer on Cool to control moisture. I’m having a really hard time finding a bra that provides adequate “lift and separate” support while also being breathable.

So I’m 64 and recently lost 85 lbs. Understandably, my body, including boobs, lost a lot of volume. So my search is on to find a new foundation that supported my deflated boobage, as well as something that held in all my excess skin around the boobage as well. Any suggestions from my older gals who have experienced the same? 🙏🏻

Hello to make this simple I am wanting a breast lift and under 25 of age. I am at a sever type 3 ptosis wearing a 34DDD bra size almost all my life :/

Yes it causes back pain but i haven’t been to the doctor for back pain. It has caused groves in my stink wear my bra strap is and can provide pictures.

I had Ambetter but they don’t provide cosmetic surgery. I also have Amazon benifits but they don’t provide cosmetic surgery.

I have heard if the situation is really really bad the doctor can get it approved through the insurance for an emergency procedure.

Do I just go into an office for a counsulation? I just know I don’t want to go in if I have to pay $8000 and be sad because I can’t.

Any advice? If I went to any doctor I know they’ll recommend surgery. I just know I can’t pay thousands and thousands.

Thank you!

I'm a 18F and for as long as I've known myself, I've been trying to lose weight. After two years of dedication, I've lost around 20 kilos but now my boobs became a lot smaller and saggier. I don't know how to feel about it, I always had fuller breasts but now after my weight transformation they've started to sag. Anyone else who has gone through this? Could they get into shape by my 20s? Any recommendations?

I'm only 19 and i feel like I've had saggy boobs my whole life. I recently lost alot of weight and now it's even worse it's even noticeable in bras. I feel like I caused it because when I was younger I didn't want to wear bras in like year 4 cos I had boobs but no one else did. I always used to wear those bra tops even though my mum warned me. Now I know people say natural boobs drop | know from personal experience, (I'm bi) that some big boobs dont drop. And my boobs aren't even big anymore.

They are just long and wide and flat down and my nipples look so ugly. How do I fix it. I've heard some post partum mums use castor oil? For the loose skin? Please help

Too small and the skin spills out of it . Too big and I have gaping cups with puddles of skin. Yet I can never find one just right. This is so sad. I was a 34D before pregnancy and jumped up to 36DD. I gained weight and lost the weight. now i don’t know what I am anymore.

The sit on my belly even standing, and I’m not even done breastfeeding yet. That’s it, that’s the post

Im going to Mexico in February, what is the best bikini top that makes them look good 😭 plz I feel like I'm trippin over them everyday.the best I've found is thick halter tops. thank u kindly​​​

I have found two brands that make cute and comfortable (AND SUPPORTIVE) tops to sleep in!! Aaaa I’m so happy.

First is OGL — I thrifted a shirt from this brand recently. It’s not at all intended to be sleepwear, but the fabric is really soft, there’s an included shelf bra, and it’s mega stretchy. It wasn’t uncomfortably tight, and it held the bits up. Almost everything they make is like this, I’ll definitely be snagging more tops from them.

Second is a Japanese sleepwear brand Tu Hacci — they’re not super well known outside of Japan, I happened across a secondhand camisole online. They come in bra sizing and do offer 28 bands with cup support up to F. No underwire, pretty similar to OGL with the tight supportive shelf bra lining. Only difference is that it is designed for sleeping in. Super cutesy and feminine. I’m not sure how to get my hands on items from this brand now that I’m aware of if, but I cannot recommend it enough 😭

so ive posted here before about my saggy bust issues, i just wanted to say that i finally found a place for my reduction and its well within my price range. like its finally happening and i actually have such a good feeling about this. like it finally feels like something ive wanted my entire life since ive had boobs is happening for me… i had no one to tell irl so i wanted to share here! thanks for reading if you did

So I’m not sure if this is the right place but I’m sort looking for advice. I’m a mid sized (5ft 156lbs) girl with 38DDD. I’ve always had saggy breast and when I say saggy, I mean like the worst kind of sagging. Nipple pointing to the floor kind of thing😓. I’m currently trying to lose weight(8lbs down🥳) and I fear that the sagging will only gonna worsen. I’ve thought a lot about a breast lift or some kind of reduction but 2 things are stopping me. 1. The scarring (I don’t have problems with scars but I’ve seen some when scars get infected and almost leaves open wounds and I would actually pass out if I saw that in person) and 2. The cost.

I have tried so hard to be confident with my chest but sometimes I just can’t. I always get so scared that if I ever get naked in front of a romantic partner, I will gross them out. Plus I just don’t feel pretty naked which has a lot to do with weight and my boobs. I try and put out this confident exterior but I wanna feel that on the inside too. I’m not really sure what I’m looking for her, maybe some advice, or doctor recommendations 😂. If this is the wrong subreddit to post to pls let me know!

I need to loose AT LEAST 80 pounds but my boobs are already saggy to the floor and I'm just in my 20s. Yes they are big but the sag is INSANE like worse than elderly. It's literally the worst I've ever seen

Now they are saggy right now but at least they are big, look ok lifted in a bra and make my figure look feminine/curvy, But if I lose weight, they're going to be two completely deflated flat saggy balloons with nothing in them

I'm so upset, if I loose what I have(which is already very crappy), I don't think I can ever cope

Not in a sexual way, but just regular old cutesy pajama sets!! I want to wear them without looking like a grandma!

I have a supportive bra that does magic for me during the day, but it’s too uncomfortable to wear to bed. I’m really upset by all the cute sleepwear in stores because I know they won’t look as intended on my body.

Even lingerie is impossible. Babydoll tops are soooo pretty, but if I wanted to buy a bra sized one for myself, they’re incredibly expensive and my options are SLIM (like one or two across the entire internet, bra options for 28 bands are sparse enough as it is)

of course I could wear a sports bra, but that just looks plain goofy underneath a camisole or any lingerie at all.

Is there anything that’s actually pretty AND supportive? I want to feel beautiful when I go to bed sometimes, too :(

Hey, I’ve always been super insecure about my breasts, thinking they were saggy. I used to have plump circular DD’s but in the space of a couple years they’ve gone down hill. To the point of just seeing cellulite, feel disgusted when looking in the mirror undressed (or even a reflection clothed, I feel they are so obviously low) and always holding them coz feels more comfortable and embarrassingly too insecure to go out and meet men in that way because I’m scared they’ll be really disappointed when they see my boobs.

Does anyone know if any natural remedies like rosehip or avocado oil help, or the workouts actually help. Or is the only solution surgery? Thank you in advance!! :)