My daughter is 3 months short turning 4. I am a SAHM and have been sending her to preschool for 4-5h a day since she was 3 (so it's been a year already since she starte). In the beginning she loved going to preschool. By the end of the school year, she kept refusing and fighting to go.
Fast forward the next semester, it's been 5-6 weeks and she has been isolating herself from her peers and will only stay with one of the two teachers she prefers.
Mornings she always cries when I send her. When I pick her up, she is either with a teacher or alone looking lost.
When I ask her about her day, she will only say she liked lunch and otherwise does not comment about anything much. I ask her about the other kids and except for 2 she doesn't get along with, she says she likes the rest.
And when I drop her off or pick her up the kids are always happy and cheerful to greet her and it doesn't look like they are treating her bad or isolating *her*. They are eager to pull her into play but she doesn't return the gesture at all.
I have spoken to the teachers and they tell me that she just prefers to be by herself.
She is speech delayed and the extent of communication with my daughter is also limited.
it's been 5 weeks already and it just seems to be getting worse. She resists going out to play and she barely interacts with her peers.
Idk what to do cause I sent her to kindergarten so that she could socialise as we live away from family and friends and has no one else but me, my husband and her little brother to interact with.
She doesn't have a problem playing with kids the few times we meet up with kids from friends and is happy to go out to the playground with me but she seems to completely shut down in kindergarten.
I know the teachers are not abusing her, she loves them very much when I ask her about them and they have listened to my worries and have been trying to integrate her with little success.
I will also be consulting a pediatritian and we're also involving the preschool's councelor but it's been very difficult watching her essentially isolating herself.
Should I just pull her out?